[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by MistressRoxie [/i]
[B][color=#9933ff]Am I the only girl who doesn't want a bad boy? Is there anything wrong with having a relationship in High School or Middle School that doesn't involve sex? Am I the only girl in the world who actually does NOT believe in pre-martial sex?!?!?!?!?!?!?
-_- Great. I'm the only one. I feel so alone.
For me, the "nice guy" means your best guy friend that you can consult when you break up with your boyfriend because he wasn't what you thought he was and because he's a total jerk. That's what I nice guy for me is. I think, though, Darkness' is asking about what I like(or don't like) about MY own definition of a gentleman, which is the same thing as everyone else's definition of a nice guy. lol.
I like everything about a gentleman. ^_^; It's nicer to have him as a boyfriend because you know he isn't going out with you because his friend dared him to date the ugliest girl, know that you aren't being dated because he only likes your looks, won't make you feel bad, won't put you down, and know just what to do when you get a case of the blues.
In my personal opinion, I don't think you can put girls into a category where the majority of us go for one type of guy. I think, instead, certain types of girls go for certain types of guys.
Not being stereotypical here, but rather, from my experience (which is limited, so forgive me if I'm wrong, which I probably am. V_V), I think that if you're popular or want to fit in with everyone, you'll probably want a bad boy in the beginning (until you wise up), and if you're the shy girl in the back of the class who still wears sweater sets, then you'll probably be wise and choose the gentleman.
I've also learned, or perceived that the old stereotype of guys, where they have to act a certain way (i.e.: open the door for you, always buy you chocolates, and get you a huge thing of roses on Valentines' Day) is pretty much going out of style. Things are more casual today, I think, where relationships don?t have to be one certain way.
However, I think I'm the only person left who wants the true romantic, which isn't bad, just means more trouble finding a guy. XD I'm just really, really, REEALLY weird, and I like a romantic guy. O___o[/color] [/B][/QUOTE]
hey, i totally agree with you, I always thought i was alone on thinking this.....:)