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[QUOTE=Caine] I may have been a bit premature there, but the impression that I got was that you were pretty much attacking people of faith for the words of a few extremists *coughpatrobertsoncough* .[/QUOTE] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]I've had a long day and I'm tired so I'm only going to reply to this one thing. I'm Catholic but I am also a moderate when it comes to politics so in the words of Jesus: Judge not lest ye be judged. See told you I was tired[/color][/font]

[quote name='Caine'] Okay this should be fun[/quote] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy] Define fun. [/color][/font] [quote name='Caine']1) If you want to move on, feel free to do so.[/quote] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]Not to be rude. But the end of the world thing just gets to me after a while. No one has been able to accurately predict when the world will end. I think we'd do our best to just continue to be considerate people and let the world end on its own.[/color][/font] [quote name='Caine']2) I haven't heard any one mention gay marriage or anything, so please keep it civil.[/quote] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]I was just using it as an example of what some people think will cause the world to end. I don't see how using same sex marriage as an example of some people's thinking is being uncivil.[/color][/font] [quote name='Caine']3) The 144000 comes from 144 being 12 squared, with twelve being the number which signified wholeness. It was, as most numbers in the Bible are, symbolic.[/quote] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]Okay. That just confused me. I don't see why only a certain amount of people should be allowed to be saved. It seems unfair somehow that you can only be saved if you are a true believer of only one faith.[/color][/font] [quote name='Caine']4) If terrorists start running around with nuclear weapons, then yes the world, or at least human dominance and society as we know it, could very well end. [/quote] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]If terrorists get that far, than the leaders of the nations aren't doing their jobs right.[/color][/font]

[color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]Oh Dear Lord not the end of the world again. I am so tired of hearing about the end of the world. People were talking about the world ending in 1666 because of the whole 666 thing- and obviously it didn't happen then. It didn't end in 1999, didn't end in 2000 and didn't end last Tuesday. It's not about to end any time soon because a bunch of natural disastors and idiotic terrorists are running rampant. I don't think it's going to end because congress didn't pass a nationwide ban on gay marriage I really don't think it's going to end anytime in the near future and only 140,400 or so believers are going to be saved and the rest of us burn to a crisp. Let's move on shall we?[/color][/font]

[color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy] Well 6/6/06 was uneventful for me. I didn't even get a snarky email from my daughter's father. Obviously the world didn't end. Although it's been in the 60's here in New York since last week... no wait that's normal.[/color][/font]

[QUOTE=daredevilsdad] choose would you become a computer hacker and design the Deadliest virus in the world or design the best anti-virus software and make loads of money[/QUOTE] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]That's too easy. I'd want to design the best anti-virus software around and make craploads of money. Heck- I bet my mom could help me market it to people she trains. I'd be richer than Bill Gates... and a hell of a lot better looking :animesmil Besides, don't hackers who send out computer viruses usually get arrested? Okay my turn: Would you rather [center][b]Have everyone know that your signifigant other is cheating on you, but not tell you and you have to find out on your own? or Have someone tell you that your signifigant other is cheating, but not believe them and have to find out for yourself? [/b][/center] Hey I'm watching Cheaters right now... it's all I could think of[/color][/font]

[QUOTE=PaganAngel] [img]http://cloverpetals.com/addiction/ep30124.JPG[/img] Note: Any Flat Stanley allusions will result in death (although that book did rawk... in second grade).[/QUOTE] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy] I have never heard of that book. [b]Guy at computer[/b] You know Shuichi, I really hate when you do those Sae Kashiwagi impressions. Uh that wasn't too vague was it. I was refering to book 4 of Peach Girl after Sae was found out.... and then when she'd get into trouble with Momo.... God that was utter crap! Let me try again [b]Guy at computer[/b]- Hey I thought you were okay if I watched LaBlue Girl Was that better?[/color][/font]

[QUOTE=Leon Fury][COLOR=DarkRed][FONT=Times New Roman]isnt the first choice the basis of the film groundhog day? well I would go with the first choice because I'm not into cold water. and I havent seen the film groundhog day, and I want to know what living a day over and over again feels like, and to test the trial and error method! 1. be great in a particluar subject and contribute to the progression of knowledge, but become very antisocial. or 2. be very popular and well known but never give anything back in return for the progression of knowledge. ? Leon Fury.[/COLOR][/FONT][/QUOTE] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy] Actually there was an episode in SG-1 called Window of Opportunity. That's where my idea came from. And I'd choose number two because I am a very social person. I don't think I'd do too well being anti social. ok my turn again: [b][center]find the guy/girl of your dreams but break out into hives whenever there is any physical contact. or Find the guy/girl of your dreams, but he/she kisses like a slobbering labrador retriever and has bad b.o.?[/center][/b] Hey. I told you bored.[/color][/font]

[QUOTE=The Boss][color=dimgray][size=1] Hell, I could hold a grudge against anybody of Turkish or otherwise Ottoman decent for oppressing my people's culture for generations. But I don't. You just have to put yourself above ignorance and hatred. I'm not saying one should ignore any racial hatred they encounter, but just don't condone it. Don't allow people to get a rise out of you. Show them that you don't care, because you know who's right and you know who's the ignorant person in the equation. [/color][/size][/QUOTE] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]When you look at it that way being Irish I can hold a grudge over the Brittish for taking over our lands, forcing us off our farms and starving us during the potato famine. To extend that being Catholic I can hold a grudge against protestants. When I was practicing Wicca I could have held a grudge against all of Christianity for forcing practitioners underground or burning them at the stake. Being part Native American I can hold a grudge against everyone and since my ex husband's new wife is hispanic I could truely hate everyone who's hispanic- or at the very least all hispanic Californian women. But I have better things to do with my life. Besides, life's too short to be that petty. And for anyone who wonders- I'm from Upstate New York. I've seen my share of racism even up north. For example after the whole terrorist incident there were some rednecks up here with a big sign on their pick up truck that said: Death to All Towel Heads. Plus my paternal grandmother is convinced all non Catholics are bad. She once made a comment about how she feels bad for the poor Muslims who don't believe in Jesus. So there are a lot of prejudices wherever you go. Doesn't matter where you live.[/color][/font]

[color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]I'm bored and my thread about the cows in the Neon kinda died. So I'm wondering who believes that Hell exists and who doesn't on this board. I for one really don't buy into the Christian idea of eternal damnation- even though I was raised Catholic listening to my paternal grandmother talk about that when she wasn't talking about the end of the world. I believe in reincarnation where you get kharmic payback for your past live's actions. I also think I may be messing up reincarnation. But I really don't believe in Hell. So does anyone else want to share their opinions on this subject? I think if a discussion gets going I'll actually have some longer posts.[/color][/font]

[QUOTE=taperson]well, i know nothing about anime/manga... sorry kiddos. so here we go. i'd take the blame because some day they would owe it to me. plus, i don't have the heart to kill somebody. ok. this one has actually been haunting me... Would you rather A) Go to Hell for eternity and send 10 others to Heaven? or B) Go to Heaven for eternity and send 10 others to Hell?[/QUOTE] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]This is a good question, but I have to know if I can pick the ten people to send to Hell. Because I have a few names on my [spoiler]§[/spoiler]hit list. Personally I don't believe in Hell. I believe in purgatory and reincarnation, but I don't believe in Hell. So while I think I answered the question, I really can't honestly answer the question since I don't believe Hell exists... oh thread time! Ok would you rather: [b][center]Get stuck in a time loop where one day repeats itself over and over, but you can get away with anything. And don't worry you'll get out of it sooner or later or turn into a panda every time you're splashed with cold water?[/b][/center] Heh, a little Stargate SG-1a little Ranma 1/2[/color][/font]

[QUOTE=Boo][size=1]Looking at [url=http://a.abcnews.com/images/US/acdc2543-ab62-4cb9-9100-cd0ac2d10357_sp.jpeg]the photo next to the article[/url], the only resemblance they show is blonde hair (though Cerak's is lighter). VanRyn's face must've really swollen up quite a lot for the family to think it's the other. I can understand that the family of the girl they [i]thought[/i] was alive were rather shocked when they found out that she wasn't. Sueing someone might be something many people would do¬¬'[/size][/QUOTE] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy] I saw the pictures side by side and it's an honest mistake by both parties. The girls do look simular and the survivor was most likely suffering from head trauma when she answered the EMT's questions- or whoever asked them.[/color][/font]

[QUOTE=Blayze][size=1] Same here. "Missing and presumed dead" is usually a term reserved for humans, not livestock. Did the police send out a state-wide "cattlehunt" for them? I doubt it somehow. [/size][/QUOTE] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]Well on that I have no idea- I have yet to see the state cops around Rochester asking if we've seen any missing live stock. But Ogdensburg and the surrounding areas are very small rural communities so maybe St. Lawrence and Jefferson counties have a county wide hunt for them? Of course my guess is that the calves are all sitting in some Casino over in Ontario Canada[/color][/font]

[QUOTE=Grace][SIZE=1] Do you think racism will ever stop? Do [I]YOU[/I] have a racial prejudice, if so explain. Have you ever been attacked because of your race? It would be nice to have a CIVILIZED online conversation. If you would like to debate, just keep it down a knotch..[/SIZE][/QUOTE] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy] INteresting questions. I really hope I don't offend anyone with my second answer. 1.) [b]Do you think racism will ever stop?[/b]- Sad to say I don't think that this will ever stop. Every day you have people either starting or joining the KKK or some Neo-Nazi hate group. And then these people will manage to recuit more people and have children. I mean yeah, people can try to stop it all they want. But you can't stop human nature which in some cases means that one person thinks that they're better than everyone else. 2.) [b]Do [I]YOU[/I] have a racial prejudice, if so explain.[/b]- Ok I'm probably going to get someone yelling at me about this, but I don't think I will ever date out of my race (My brother is the complete opposite- he won't date white girls because 'they whine too much ) I don't know what it is. I usually attribute it to the fact that I don't know if I could deal with people staring at me or accusing me of trying to be (fill in the race here) or maybe the bad experiance I had with a guy out of my race I kind of dated in high school. [spoiler]That could have been statutory rape- which amazingly at 16 I didn't know about [/spoiler] I don't consider myself a racist because of this I just think that's my opinion. I have friends from different races one of my cousins married outside of her race. I just don't know if I could handle people staring at me. I guess I'm either superficial or self centered in that case. 3.) [b]Have you ever been attacked because of your race?[/b]- No I've been attacked for other attributes for how I look. I'm a short over weight white woman. I once had a woman at American Eagle try to usher me out of the store- and i was wearing one of their shirts! People give me dirty looks for how I dress. Now one of my friend's brothers was attacked on Monday for some odd reason she thinks it may have been because he was white and in the city. But there's no evidence of that- according to the police. I hope that was informative enough.[/color][/font]

[color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]I was listening to talk radio this morning and heard about this: [b][center]Alleged cattle thief tries to squeeze seven calves in Dodge Neon(6/01/06 - OGDENSBURG, NY) - A man was arrested Wednesday for allegedly stealing seven calves from a Canton farmer, sheriff's deputies said. Victor R. Gardner, 22, is accused of squeezing seven of the young cattle into the back seat and trunk of a 2000 Dodge Neon. He is charged with third-degree burglary and third-degree grand larceny. Gardner had the help of an accomplice when he allegedly drove the calves to a barn in DeKalb, St. Lawrence County Sheriff's deputies said. Two of the calves were sold, the rest are missing and presumed dead. Gardner, who has a history of burglaries, is being held in St. Lawrence County jail without bail. [/b][/center] The end result isn't very funny, but I do wonder how the hell he managed to get 7 calves into a Dodge Neon. They aren't very big cars. So, questions, comments hamburger?[/color][/font]

[QUOTE=GoldScorpion78] I don't have a cellphone. Or any phone for the matter... If a girl throws something at a guy, it's because he deserved it. If a guy throws something at a girl, it's abuse. See the hypocrisy in that?[/QUOTE] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy] Hey, he was cheating on me and I found out... unfortunately I missed. And hey if it was the other way around I'd think i deserve the same.[/color][/font]

[QUOTE=The13thMan][FONT=Century Gothic] [COLOR=DarkOrange] Freezing cold winter, definitely. I hate hot summers so much, especially when i'm laying in bed and i'm sitting there a** naked with no blankets over me because i'm sweating like a pig. And sunburn....owwie. Choose: 2 super yummy tacos or 1 ultra super awesomely amazing tasting taco that looks absolutely disgusting. [/COLOR] [/FONT][/QUOTE] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy] Pardon me for pointing and laughing but sun block and central air rock! As does having a medium skin tone that doesn't burn easily and a pool. I'd choose to eat the awesomely amazing taco because I like to eat things that look disgusting but taste good. Heck you should see what I cook :D Would you rather: Lose ten pounds as well as lose 10 years of your life [center]or[/center] Gain ten pounds as well as gain ten years on your life?[/color][/font]

[img]http://img504.imageshack.us/img504/2759/funnypmk7wy.jpg[/img] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]Man I can't believe this is still going! [b]Black haired guy[/b] What you talkin' 'bout Willis? [b]Brown haired guy[/b] Nuthin' you idiot! The animators forgot our mouths! Yeah I know, dumb. But I'm out of practice![/color][/font]

[quote name='Lonley Fighter']I.but sadly to say looks do matter to me a little :animeswea[/quote] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]I think that's the case with everyone.We need a bit of physical attraction with the person who we are attracted to and would like to have a relationship with or else all everyone would be is friends. So you don't have to feel as though you're a shallow person just because looks matter a little to you. Because no one wants to be with someone who either doesn't take care of themself or it would take a lot of alcohol to be in the mood to do more than give the person a quick hug. Of course if looks are the only thing that matter to you then you have a big problem.[/color][/font]

[QUOTE=Papa Smurf]I could help spin it...I could so help spin it...it wouldn't be terribly difficult, either. Especially if we're playing PR. What use is the "great American hero" when he can't even defend his own family? When he uproots an entire family to shack up with another woman? When he comes back from duty only to divorce his wife, a wife who waited for him, remaining completely faithful for...how long was it? When he doesn't even uphold the values of America--the same values he's sworn to protect both domestically and abroad? Not to mention how likely it seems that this "great American hero" was getting something on the side with this other woman [i]during[/i] the marriage? And I'm not one to insinuate stuff like that, but I really can't believe there was no foul play there, especially when this other woman was a major factor in his push for the divorce. Meg, your case is a publicist's dream. The more I think about it...the more I want in on that PR action...heh.[/QUOTE] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]Can you be my lawyer? And then I'll share the royalties when I write my first novel. Coincidentally it will be about this stuff right here[/color][/font]

[QUOTE=Charles] In any case, it seems like your ex-husband is trying to convince you that this woman would make a better mother than you. He emphasizes that Connie cares about your daughter as if she was her own and then tries to tear down your capability as a mother by throwing up her experience. But, come on. If we were talking about Home Depot here those eleven months would be relevant. However, we're not talking about a typical "job" at all. . [/QUOTE] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy] I forgot to respond to this part last night. But I was thinking about it this morning. He continuously mentions her years of experiance and it makes me wonder: Did he conduct widespread interviews concerning who had the oldest kids and was still somewhat attractive? Was there someone with a sixteen year old that he turned down because she worked at Home Depot? Because it sounds to me like he left me for her because she has an older kid and a better paying job. Not because he loves her more- which is what he's been telling me since last June. Also, I have to wonder if he's ever stopped to think that maybe Connie just appears to make nice with Abby because that's what she thinks Lincoln wants. The one time I saw her in the same place with my ex my daughter and the rest of his family (pictures included and I ended up throwing up on his aunt's rug :animesmil ) Coinnie was holding his aunt's boarder collie while Abby had managed to make it all the way down the hall of their doublewide to the bathroom before anyone noticed. [/color][/font] [quote name='SunfallE][COLOR=RoyalBlue'] Personally I?m against joint custody. Coming from parents who got divorced when I was a kid and from having friends in the same situation, it?s a kind of hell to have to go back and forth between parents. Especially when one parent is acting like the other one isn?t a good parent. In your case it?s your ex implying that you are not a good mother where with me it was my wacky mother claiming my father was cruel when he isn?t.. [/COLOR][/quote] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]I'm against joint custody as well especially since our daughter is so young. I have a theory that he's trying for joint custody as a way to stop paying me the $475 a month the military takes out of his pay. He doesn't really care about what's best for our daughter just what's right for him and his new wife. He's shown himself to be a very selfish person throughout this entire situation from calling me over the phone about the divorce to showing up at ten at night when Abby is already in bed to drive her across the state to Ft. Drum without calling ahead of time and neglecting to call all together when he doesn't feel like coming to get her. He sent me some stuff that he and his new wife worked out that he wants me to agree with. These terms include having Abby (our daughter) for half a month each month, two weeks in the summer and allowing his mom to have two weekends a month with her- uinsupervised. That is entirely unexceptable with the exception of two weeks in the summer. True, right now she's not in school, but what kind of school or for that matter day care is going to allow me to only have my daughter attend two weeks? And what kind of stability will our daughter have being shuttled from one place to another every two weeks? And his mom well, that's another good story. One he really doesn't get along with her and two she lives in a tiny apartment over run with cats in the inner city on a busy street. Plus she's a chain smoker and is prone to gran maul seizures. Hey what parent wouldn't be glad to let their child stay with someone like that? And don't even get me started on her poor hygeine[/color][/font] [quote name='SunfallE][COLOR=RoyalBlue']Anyway, best of luck with the custody battle. [/COLOR][/quote] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]Thanks I'm going to need all the luck I can get. I'm going against the great American hero, defender of freedom for full custody of our daughter. You tell me who looks better [/color][/font]

[color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]What have I learned from Anime? [center][u][b]Serious[/b][/u][/center] I learned a lot about Japanese culture. Including how their school system works and the whole uniform thing I learned a lot about puns. Such as Hino Rei (sailorMars) the kanji in Mars means fire star. And one of the pass words that Luna used in the first season about the Rabbit on the moon pounds the mochi. I guess there is an Asian story about a rabbit on the moon pounding rice cake (Mochi= ricecake) Oh I also learned that Inu is dog, neko is cat, Uma is horse, usagi is rabbit/bunny and Hoshi can mean either monk or star depending on kanji Not all evil people are bad looking (ie Nakago from Fushigi Yugi) [b][u][center]hint of sarcasm[/center][/b][/u] Even though there are numorous other cities without SailorSenshi aliens will ineveitably land in Juuban, Tokyo Japan. Even if you are in the artic circle your fuku will always keep you warm Falling down a well or through a book into the past you won't completely alter the timeline There are always good looking guys around That's all I can think of for now[/color][/font]

[quote name='Shinmaru']I avoid girls because they all have cooties.[/quote] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]Well boys are dumb, throw rocks at them. That said when I see someone of the opposite sex who I find attractive I secretly hope that 1.) They're single 2.) They like kids 3.) They aren't stuck up and 4.) They have more than just their looks going for them. Because like I say beauty is temporary but mind numbingly dull is forever. As for attraction of personality. Whoopie! Finally someone who is just as crazy as I am... just not in a certifiable padded wall kind of way I hope. And what do I think about the opposite sex? You can't live with them, and they don't like it when you throw your cell phone at their head.[/color][/font]

[quote name='Charles']I'm confused as to what's going on here exactly. Is there an actual custody battle being fought or are you uncomfortable with your daughter being around his home-wrecking wife? [/quote] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy] Okay sorry about that. Allow me to clarify. The divorce was finalized in September a week after what would have been our three year aniversary. There is a custody battle going on right now. He's even sunken to use his mother to try and get visitation of Abby- and he hates his mother! I have no real issue with my daughter being around Connie. What I have an issue with his how he's acting as though since I only have twenty months of mothering experiance compaired with her eleven years and since he has never actually seen me being a mother to our daughter (well how could he since he was in Iraq from the time our daughter was two weeks until the time she was six months and we were officially divorced a week before she turned one) that she's the better choice. I would rather die than see him gain shared custody of our daughter (which is what they're going for) She's my baby not his (well okay she is his daughter too , but he hasn't spent that much time with her) I know he doesn't have our daughter's best interests at heart only his, his new wife's and his step daughter's. His entire family has pretty much forgotten about this child- because of Lincoln or because of themselves I'm not sure- but it galls me that she ( I could copy and paste emails from her as well) claims to have become so attached to my child in such a short ammount of time (She's only lived in Carthage NY since November and the last time Abby spent time with them was in January) and that his family claims to love and miss her so much when no one has bothered to ask how she is until a month before my ex comes back into the states. And finally I fail to see how someone with such low standards can be a better mother than me even though she has a higher paying job and is ten years older than me. [/color][/font] [quote name='Charles']Anyway, I know your husband has an account here. Show him this thread. I'd like to speak with him. [/quote] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy] About that. I wish I could help. But he hasn't used his old email for who knows how long and I don't think he even posts on here. I know his new email is [email][email protected][/email] or [email][email protected][/email]. If you could change his info you could get a hold of him that way. But even then good luck because neither he or his new wife seem to think they did anything wrong and can't seem to grasp why I should have less than warm fuzzy feelings for his new woman. Thanks for listening to me vent everyone. I appreciate it. Especially the offer of broken kneecaps![/color][/font]

[color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]Hey I know I haven't been on nearly as much as I used to be, but I have a really good reason and I can sum it in two words Messy Divorce. So I'm really sorry for my absence but this excuse is really good. Yes I've been going through the big 'D' and I don't mean Dallas (love that song) thanks to my ex husband and his new wife. Who by the way is apperantly El's gift to all men and I should consider myself lucky for our daughter to have her as a step mother. So lucky infact that I should just love her to death (Hey, I wonder if that works) for helping to break up my marriage. At least according to my ex. Infact, here's the latest excerpt from an email. If you could please read and give some opinions I'd be much obliged. [quote name='CHW's Ex Husband']Also, the other concern that I need to address is the matter of Connie's involvement in all this. Megan needs to understand that Connie is a part of my life and always will be. She cares as much for Abby as I do, and during the time I've spent with Abby, she has demonstrated a very high level of care. She's had eleven years of experience raising her own daughter and cares for Abby as if she were her own. Megan needs to deal with this in a mature manner; she could not hope for a better woman than Connie to help me with Abby during the time I spend with her. I can only hope that when Megan gets involved in a relationship, the man involved is half as good to Abby as Connie is. They don't need to be friends, but any problems Megan has with Connie will mean that our conflict must be settled through legal channels.[/quote] I will have you all know that I have been very mature about this whole matter. I believe that I am well within my rights as a person with emotions to not like her and have some problems with her. This divorce is very recent and she's the woman who helped to make it happen. So can someone tell me if I'm wrong to be like this or if I'm within my rights. He's been playing mind games like this since last year at this time. Should I really care that she has 'eleven years of experiance as a mom'? She's not handing in a resumë, she's just trying to replace me in another way. At least that's how I see it. I mean she has my ex husband, why doesn't she just get herself knocked up again if she wants a kid so bad? I mean it's not like she has a model figure that she has to worry about losing- the woman is built like me. So she... sorry I'm just really mad. So, opinions please?[/color][/font]

[QUOTE=Gavin][SIZE=1] . [B]Would you rather have your faith stripped from you through indisputable proof ?[/B] Or [B]Would you rather find indisputable proof that your faith is wrong but have the chance to destroy it so nobody else loses theirs ?[/B][/SIZE][/QUOTE] [color=#9933ff][font=lucida handwriting] I'd rather be able to destroy the proof and allow people to keep their faith because there is nothing worse than finding what you believe in to really be a lie and I would want to at least allow others to keep their faith. Yeah I'm feeling self sacrificing right now Would you rather: [center]Be the cause of an emberassing event caught on film and shown to the world or Would you rather be the effect of an emberassing event caught on film and shown to the world?[/center] I'm only asking because I just got back from my cousin's wedding where i caught the bouquet. But another girl who reached for it got two puncture wounds in her finger from the wire in the boquet. I think I was the cause of this emberassing moment.[/color][/font]