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Well it seems I'm the only portuguese person around here :animesmil , i was hoping to find at least one or a brazilian but heh I'm not that lucky :animeswea Anyway yep I live in Portugal-Azores, to be more exactly I live in an Islands that Portugal own, its a beautifull place, I like to say that is a small piece of heaven, a good place to relax and enjoy :D :p

Okay first of this really scared and make me worried, since not long ago I heard, Indian men (not like am saying all indian males are like that) are known to married with much younger females, I think its part of they're tradition (i'm not quite sure of that), so he may be interested on your friend, and I really think she's in great danger, I mean I have some great onlines friends but none of them are like 8 or 9 years older then me, is just tooooo wierd to fall in love for someone that older!! O.o Aww but love is blind so yeah, you should do whatever you can to make her understand that the way she's acting is wrong, and she doesn't need to go to India to meet the guy, if he want to meet her why not he travel to where she is, instead of her? I really hope you convince her to stop with this crazy idea or she might get hurt...good luck...

Well for now I have my final exams in June and July :animenose :animestun, and I have to find a job because I still need to a bit more money :rolleyes: And then in August if everything turns the way I expect to turn my vacations will beguin with my big trip to Canadá all alone....awwww can't wait!! :animesmil :catgirl: :p ;)

Aww really?You haven't seen him for days now?Awww poor Toby :(

I'm glad Toby is alive and jumping lol Well if my memorie don't fail me now, frogs eat flies and animals like that, so I'm sure he will be fine even if he can't pull all his tongue, and I think it heals soon enough, just keep watering your yeard and when you think he's good of his tongue, release him in the pound :animesmil

For me dreams its part of you. So deffenaly i would chose dreams, since I don't have anyone right now I love :p :rolleyes: And if I had, I still keep following my dreams, but then why not have both? You can love someone and follow your dreams, I'm sure he/she would incouradge you to go fufill them, that's what love is right? ^_~

It depends. I mean, if we think about people who join the military, I'm sure all of them know they will give their lifes to their country, but then I begin to think, about wars that passed by, did those people really knew or really believe of what they were fighting? I have some relatives who told me they fought in a colonial war on Timor (Portuguese war) without even knowing the real meaning of the war, it was only orders! They saw friends dying, they kill and they were injuried for a cause they never knew what was, the only thing they knew is they were fighting for their country, but what was really true they were going to war just for Portugal government have another country to rule... What I mean with this is you can fight or die for something you never really believed, it depends the time and eviroment you are in the moment, just sometimes is necessary to keep fighting, maybe just for survival or to save you're friend...and you end up achieving something that you end up not knowing the real meaning of what made you fight ... But if you really ask me if I would fight for something I don't believe, I would deffenaly say, I don't know, it really depends of the situation I'm in... I'm sorry if I sound rude or something, but when you live hearing about war stories you think a lot and end up thinking like that, which I hope I was understandable :animeswea

[QUOTE=Panda]I am not sure if it is my age or that I only have one sibling but I really love my big brother. As kids we were the typical big brother and little sister. I wanted to hang out with him and he just tried to escape me. Anything he could I do I knew I could do too...which resulted in several visits to the doctor for me. When you are little motor skills just aren't as good as your older sibling's. I was following my brother on some monkey bars when I fell and broke my arm. Oops. I just wanted to prove to him that I could do what he could so that way I would be "accepted". I can't speak for all little siblings but that is what it was for me. I looked up to him and wanted to be like him. I am not sure what it was like for him but I am guessing as an older sibling he didn't like me tagging along since he knew I would get hurt and he was suppose to be "responsible" for watching out for me. I can understand now that the responsibility of being the older sibling must have really been a burden...especially with a tomboy little sister with an "I can do anything" attitude. Looking back at it, I feel bad for him having to look out for me. As we got older our relationship changed. He and I became friends. Now he comes by my house just to visit. He will "dog sit" for me when I go out of town and we support each other through difficult times. The things in the past that we had fought over are now topics to laugh about. Like when he shot me with a BB gun. "Ricochet"...yeah...I believe that. lol :p He is my one and only brother. We had our fights when we were little but now as adults we are friends. He has known me for my entire life and that is something very special. It's said that your relationship with your siblings is the longest one you will have during your lifetime. Friends come and go, parents and older family members will probably pass away before you...but your siblings who are the closest to your age will be there the longest. I am lucky my brother and I get along so well. Hopefully all of you with sibling problems will someday become friends and enjoy each others company.[/QUOTE] It sure sounds like me and my older brother, I'm 20 years old and his 23. When we were kids I was all the time around him, and if he do something I would do the same thing without even thinking about it like you Panda, so yeah I got in trouble sometimes, but the most amazing thing is I was far more good then him to get to our roof :D (we usually go there to watch the stars more closer, please don't do that okie?Its DANGEROUS and we got grounded several times because of this, not a good thing :animeswea ), we had our fights because of that, which I understand now, because back then I was really terrible *lol*, but I was like that since I was the only girl in the house with two big brothers, my sister only born when I was around 6 years old, so that's why I wanted to be just like my big brother lol Still now I try to be like him, and we are big friends, we both share the same interested so we are never bored and allways having fun in our PS2 especially when we have a disagrement, when that happens, one of us ask to the other: "Lets see whose right on Teken!" :p Like I said in my previous post, my sister and I have a diference of 6 years, so its normal that we have our disagrements more often, but surprisely those last days we are getting more closer and we're understanding each other better, so like Panda said, you might have your fights and problems with your siblings but when you grow up, hopefully you'll have a good friendship with them and you might laugh when you remember those times you're passing now :animesmil

[quote name='Lightwing']well, i think i can make the relationship last becuase i am turning 15. thanks for the advice everyone. I truely appreciate it.[/quote] [Quote=ChibiHorseWoman]Well, that makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside, I was worried that you'd wait until your mid twenties or something. :animesigh You know, it's threads like these that make me worry for the youth of today. [/Quote] I agree with you Chibi, it does makes us feel worried for the youth of today, but hey the he wants to get married, we can't go against it, the only thing i can say to you lightwing, is [B]Good luck kid!And i truly hope and wish you and your girl a happy life togheter! :D [/B]

[QUOTE=James][font=franklin gothic medium][color=#808080 Also, having done martial arts for a few years...that only served to enable me to handle anger a lot more effectively. There are so many ways that I can vent without actually being hostile to anyone. In particular, if I'm angry, it's a good drive for creativity. For example, if people try to attack OB with spam or something of that nature...my immediate reaction isn't to be upset and get revenge or whatever. Instead, my "revenge" is to make OB better so that it becomes more popular. In that way, I think success is the best revenge. ~_^ [/color][/font][/QUOTE] Wow! I admire you, I've been practising martials arts too, and i learn how to control my hot tempered (yes when i was more younger, i was really hot temper, anything could make me blast! :animeshy: ), but now i know how to control myself. But i do explode if something really bad or someone i like get hurt :animeangr , heheh :D So i do admire you a lot James you really know how to control yourself that well!*claps*

Well i have 2 older brothers and one younger sister, which mean i'm the middle one :animesmil Well i "fight" more with my younger sister because she's the younger one and my parents deffend her sometimes to much, and she loves to blame me if she broke or did something wrong, uhmmm....maybe we older siblings do make our younger brothers or sisters live a liing hell sometimes, but younger love to do also to the older ones! Anyway she's changing and growing up and we do "fight" less, so i'm sure your older brothers will eventually let you alone in some years, is just a normal thing to pick on younger siblings, just hang in there!^_~

Boy how i was surprised to see this thread and see the person who was asking was 14 years boy! I don't mean to be rude but heh i think your a little young to even think about it, i'm 20 years old and i don't think about it :animeshy: Uhmmm i really don't know if i'm right but it seems this was your first crush and i DO believe you love her much to even think about asking her that, but like some people said here, you are a teen and we do change a lot in just a few years so i do think its to early to pop out with that important question, i'm sure she will be quite surprised if you do, (i would! :animeswea ), anyway just enjoy your her company and her love, and wait until both of you are old enough and a good job, then think if is really what you and her want... Well I'm a bit old then you so i know how much things changed and especially our personality changed, so i do think its better for you to settle down, grow up, enjoy the teen fase and then think about that ;) Well i just wish you the best of luck!!!^_^

I would deffenly wanted to be in Naruto! It would be so cool to be a ninja :p

[FONT=Palatino Linotype]Resident Evil or Silent Hill[/FONT] Uhmmm its really complicated to choose just one of those two, you see i love Resident Evil since the first one, it was unbelievable good, and i love the type of horror (Zombies, and stuff), but its really not that scary, i enjoy now and then a good jump from my chair and the real panic Silent Hill makes us feel, you never know whats coming up after opening a door, or when you listen all those walks and see nobody close to you :animedepr, Yeah i admit i love those kinda games :animeshy: its really amazing how can SH make you feel claustrophobic or with a lot of terror, one thing i never had with RE but it doesn't mean i don't like the series :animesmil Sure SH have some wierd stories, but that what makes it more frignethening and interesting, well atleast for me :p So i love both and i look forward to play the new ones from each serie :animesmil

I'm an animal lover :animesmil I have 4 cats and two cutie dogs! They are my little babies, i love cats and dogs equally, i can't say i love dogs more then cats, since they are completely different :catgirl: My cats never bite, scratched anything ever, sure sometimes they do "their needs" on the wrong place, but they learn fast ^_^ [FONT=Palatino Linotype]Mia aka kittie[/FONT] She's the older one, she don't like much to be at home, she likes to take good walks, and she comes when she feels hungry thirsty or want to be cuddle ^^ Oh both her and the other sleep in my bed sometimes, wish you could see her she sleep like a person, with her head in the pillow and the rest of her body covered by the blanket, sometimes i think she was human in her other life :animeshy: XP The other ones like to take their walks also thought they come more often to the house, except one she loves to be at the house and sleep at the sofá (its really cute to see her sleep :catgirl: ) lol although she don't like much to be carried, in fact she don't like at all, but she loves to be cuddle... I have a black labrador, he is a sweetie he loves attention, he loves to be hugged, to play, and he's really cute to have around, but he's also very jealous of my little Pardo (its his name, and his also a dog his a portugues race which i'm sure no ones knows ^^'', he's really short and has that puppy face even though he's not a puppy anymore :D ), he beguin barking and doing all sort of things to call my attention when i'm hugging the other one, well and like everyone knows the short dogs have a lot of energy so Pardo is allways runing, jumping, playing with his freesbie he is really so funny, both the labrador (which is called Bobby btw) and Pardo and my kitties are my cute little puppies and kitties but sometimes they push to hard on my patience.. And like someone said here, its all about personality ^_~