Queen Asuka

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by BabyGirl [/i] [B] [color=deeppink]Indeed I know it's wrong, and I still do it...I won't try to excuse this either, so I'll just say that and be quiet. And I know my post was one of the ones you were referring to, that's why I got so upset. It felt, whether you realized this or not, like a personal attack on me. I know you didn't mean it this way, but believe me, that's what it sounded like. I've calmed down a bit about it because I realize everyone will always have their different views. I just hope, Queen Asuka, that in the future you don't have to get so irritated by things like that, especially when they're made by a single person on what to do to their own body. But that's just a thought...I'm not trying to tell you what to do, merely what to consider :whoops: Consequently, I will consider not drinking as much, but I already don't drink that much as it is, so I can't really implement that...I still want to have my fun while I drink, so I don't think I will cease the behavior. Some may condemn me for it, but that is ok. It's ultimately my decision anyway :p[/color] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]Well thank God you're being rational about this because I don't want to get on your bad side just because I'm stating my own personal opinion...like I say all the time...to each his own, ya know? It wasn't a personal attack on you, it just shocked me to find out that you did something like that. I never saw you as that type of person. I figured you was pretty clean cut, and I guess you still are because you really, like you said, don't do it often. But next time you're about to, please consider how others feel about it. You'll be a much better person without it and people will look up to you more for not doing it. [/color][/size]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Anna [/i] [B]In a left-handed way it's kinda like 'why are you doing this, it's not good for you, we wish you wouldn't because you might get hurt some day.' [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]EXACTLY...that's the whole point. For the people that have been around here for a while, I believe everyone is on a friendly level. It's just a thought of opinion and then trying to be helpful and not CONDEMN....so yeah I agree with you Anna. It's hard to put this into words dang it..[/color][/size]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by BabyGirl [/i] [B][color=deeppink]I've been single for a while now...and not even by choice. I would like to start dating but I'm too shy to even make eye contact a lot of times. Don't believe me? Oh, but it's so true...and it's pathetic -__-[/color] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]That is so hard to believe because you are so pretty you'd think that the guys would approach you. If you are too shy, maybe you should take the elementary approach, which I'm afraid I've had to do myself sometimes, and get your friends to talk to the guy for you and just hint around that you are interested and see what he thinks about you. I know it sounds childish, but it works. So there ya go! :) But you are too pretty to be single. It's not healthy for your self-esteem. I would stay depressed for the longest amounts of time because I was single and I thought I was so ugly and no one liked me.[/color][/size]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by BabyGirl [/i] [B] [color=deeppink]Ok, so my decisions are now wrong :whoops: Let me make it perfectly clear: [b]I do not drink to be cool or to fit in. I started drinking because I was curious about it, and I enjoyed myself.[/b] :) I could go off about all the RIGHT decisions I make in life, but I won't waste any time on a 'holier than thou' attitude. [i]I'm really not trying to be defensive, but it's really really hard at the moment...I apologize for anything rash I say, but if I DO post something rash, I probably mean it so there's really no point in excusing it I guess.[/i][/color] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]BabyGirl...it's still wrong...But I'm not saying that you're doing it to be cool and to fit in. I guess you already do that enough on your own without having to drink and show off. But this is just my opinion on the matter. Everyone gets curious, and I guess you DID enjoy yourself, but I myself didn't...and even though I have myself tried it, even if I hadn't, I'd still say it was wrong. It doesn't matter if you are defensive or not, I don't want you to think that I'm trying to drag you in the ground and put myself higher than you and make myself seem better, you know what I'm saying. I just got a little irritated when I read three different posts where someone comes back and says "Oh I posted that when I was drunk, so it doesn't matter now"....[/color][/size]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Rick Hunter [/i] [B]I think that was a bit Harsh on your part Queen Asuka to post something like that, what Panny needed was some sympathy not a put down of some sorts. Also the topic about drinking really had no point to be brought up on this thread! Another thing is you seem to act really holy, but I'm sure you have done something in your life that wasn't right no one is perfect not even you!;) Just my opinion though![/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]She DOES have my sympathy, I even stated that, but you have to see my point of view about this...everyone doesn't think on the same level..I mean COME ON...it's just a thought. And the drinking thing went perfectly with this thread. And I never tried to act holy, because I know I'm far from it. I've done my fair share of bad things, but if these are only the small things, then I guess I would be considered nearly perfect...[/color][/size]

[color=crimson][size=1]I'm not trying to step on anyone's toes, I'm just SAYING the truth. You KNOW that it's wrong and it's your decision to do it and it's WRONG. You can't get all offensive and mad because you do it and someone states that it's wrong. Even if you do only do it on certain occasions and only like 4 or 5 times a year, that's doesn't justify it or make it right. It doesn't make you some evil BAD person, but I'm just stating how I'm tired of people doing it because they think it's cool or they'll be respected because of it.[/color][/size]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Milliardo [/i] [B] That is a problem of self control, which is more due to peer pressure. Drinking for health reasons is another thing. Knowing what is healthy is the key to this. There are many who drink for their health without going into excess. [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]If doctors thought that we truly needed alchohol intake everyday, I think the law would be bent just a little. It's not HEALTHY to a teen. That's what WATER is for! And I'm just a little curious, how old are you....?[/color][/size]

[color=crimson][size=1]Milliardo, like I said....even if you start off with just whatever you consider a small amount, it will still become to where that's just not enough for you and you just do more and more until you're completely addicted and can't live without it. You can't justify drinking really, especially if you're underage. They made the law for a REASON....not just to torture teens... And Hot Head, I'm sorry, I'm not the type of person to give in, but that day was different. But don't worry, you wont ever hear about me doing it again and I've never tried any sort of drug, not even cigarettes, so yeah.[/color][/size]

[color=crimson][size=1]BBC is alright, and so is Macross. I especially love Macross Plus. It's just so awesome. Sharon Apple Rocks...I was going to make my user name be Sharon Apple, but then I decided against it! Queen Asuka suits me so much better anyways! :rolleyes: I guess we'll never find out what Mon-Mon is? Doesn't even sound like a real show if you ask me...[/color][/size]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by coolkam007 [/i] [B]"Alcohol's effects begin even as small amounts are consumed" as stated [url=http://www.soberlinks.com/pdfs/facts_teens_and_alcohol.pdf]here[/url] I'm proud to say that i dont drink beer or any alcohol.. I think its rather gross and repulsive. >.< but i'm not going to go around and keep people from drinking.. because.. well it would take too much time and effort :p if people are going to be dumb then they can learn from their own mistakes [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]Hey, even if you don't drink, just by not doing it, you are being a positive influence on someone's life. And I agree, it IS stupid...and some people can probably never be convinced until someone close to them gets hurt and has to do with alcohol or even them themselves are hurt. Hey HC, I know you drink, I know you're 21, but I hope you don't drink and drive by the way...[/color][/size]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Heaven's Cloud [/i] [B] [color=indigo] I have absolutley no ill will towards you, Queen, or any other member of the boards for that matter (except for the few of you that IM me just to talk crap about other people, you know who you are:flaming: ). I got drunk plenty of times when I wasn't of legal age. Did I do it to be cool, to fit in, or was it the opposite of that, did I do it because I was uncofortable around people? To be honest I have no idea why I got drunk for the first time...it was just something new to try. I was with a friend and we just got drunk...as simple as that. I continue to occasionally get drunk because I find it amusing. Why did you get drunk the first time you did it?? I can guess why you didn't like it, but why did you ever do itin the first place?[/color] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]I honestly will say that I gave in to peer pressure. I had these 2 really close friends who all of sudden got into it and they did it all the time. Well they were throwing a birthday party and I wasn't going to go, but then things didn't work out with the plans I had that day and me and dad got in a fight and I just wanted to get out. But I seriously cannot make an excuse for myself. The reason why I didnt' enjoy it is because too many rumors were started...don't EVER hang around with guys at a party when you are drunk...everyone assumes something happened...and also the cops showed up and we all took off and hid in the woods for an hour or so and we sobered up and froze our as$'s off...so yeah...the only thing AMUSING I think I could find about it was that I couldn't see straight and I seriously could not walk. But that actually scared me that I didn't have control of what I wanted my body to do...[/color][/size]

[color=crimson][size=1]I just thought of this, and I should have posted it earlier...but PiroMunkie looks just like Trunks with brown hair...he's such a cutie! :D[/color][/size]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Milliardo [/i] [B] It's only a bottle a day for beer, or a glass a day for wine. It is not even excessive. What would be harmful is to go all out and drink to oblivion, as the author of this thread said. And yes, since teens are growing, wouldn't an early investment in health actually do it more good than harm? [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]It's not healthy...it'll just end up being some mental thing, especially for teenagers. They may start out with one a day, but then they'll start feeling like that just isn't enough and start getting into more and more, and eventually they'll probably evolve into an alcholic as an adult. Seriously, think about it...there are more healthier things to intake than beer or wine...just drink some water and eat some bread, or just go buy some freaking purple grapes for crying out loud...[/color][/size]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Cloud [/i] [B] [COLOR=indigo]say, where is Anna? I haven't seen her on lately [/COLOR] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]For the both of us, school has been hectic and the internet just isn't that much of a big deal anymore. I'm actually at her house right now, but she seriously just has been so stressed out about school. We just had exams this past week and everything, so yeah...but I'll tell her that you asked about her and maybe she'll get on and post a little. :)[/color][/size]

[color=crimson][size=1]Heaven's Cloud, I agree with your analogy, but you are 21 and of legal drinking age. I'm talking about the people ranging from ages 14-20 I guess you could say that are only doing it to be noticed and be "cool" in front of all their friends. I'm not bashing you because you are of LEGAL DRINKING AGE...just thought I'd set that straight before you formed some evil opinion of me...[/color][/size]

[color=crimson][size=1]You know, I feel bad for you for all the crap you've been through and had to put up with, but if you said you felt bad blah blah and you prayed and repented and you cried and ladedah...and then you say that you ENJOYED it, that is being SO hypocritical...it's like you just want attention almost...but I mean, you do have my sympathy, but come on...if you enjoyed it, then why the heck do you feel so bad and feel like you're going to be damned and all that stuff? But anyway, to each his own...that's just my own personal opinion...But good luck on resolving your issue and I hope everything turns out fine. SEE WHAT DRINKING DOES TO ALL OF YOU PEOPLE?!?[/color][/size]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Cloud [/i] [B][COLOR=indigo]Drinking isn't a bad thing, not at all It's bad, when you don't know when to stop and you drink yourself ito oblivion... [/COLOR] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]When you are in high school and you go to a party every single weekend just to get drunk and make out and then claim you don't rememeber it the next day, that's pretty pathetic. It IS a bad thing...once you start then you're just submitting yourself to it more... And I AGREE ssj chic...I can just imagine some idiot posting that just to sound cool...not even actually drinking as well...[/color][/size]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by ssj chic [/i] [B] typical guys....never look past the looks...geeze FINALY sum1 agrees with me [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]Amen....it's so hard to find a guy who actually is attracted to a girl on an intellectual level. I think my PiroMunkie here is one of the very rare finds of that type...he's so caring...I'm glad he's my husband, LOL. By the way Piro, good luck in your relationships and your two chicas. Just to let you know, MINE is awesome...*sighs happily* ANYWHO.... So yeah, geez, just get to know her first...don't date only the AIRHEADS![/color][/size]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Milliardo [/i] [B]Actually, if you have an image manipulation program (PSP, Photoshop), you can make your own avatars, and to your own liking, too. Simply download any pic, and then do whatever you like with it. It also makes it more meaningful for you--you know what you want in an avatar, so you have the means to do it. [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]I agree with that...my avatar is personally made for me...I got Deedlit the elf because she's really pretty and she's an elf and it's like an anime Legolas almost and I thought it just totally suited me...:D But some people don't have the privilege of knowing how to make their own so yeah...my computer doesn't have all that on it, so I had to get Anna to make mine...[/color][/size]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by ssj chic [/i] [B][size=1] i agree there....i don't find it "cool" at all...i don't see what so damn "addicting" about it..in fact its not addicting...thats just an excuse to keep the cool:rolleyes: i've recently noticed that too...some of my friends get so damn high and when i ask them why the hell they do that to themselves they state "oh well it releass me from all my troubles and takes me to a dimension of love" and um...no it doesn't...it takes them to a damn dimension of false hopes and leads to early death....the excuse releases them from trouble? it doesn't it adds onto the bundle of troubles...i don't se where parents are these day to stop their kids....this generation i guess parents don't care anymore [/size] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]That's exactly how I feel. And sometimes you see the people who do this and you see them all popular and everyone likes them and everyone worships them and you just wonder why in the HELL someone would look up to someone like that. It's definately not a postivie influence, but the way the media just promotes it nowadays is ridiculous and it really pisses me off. It's not cool it all, and it doesn't relieve stress and make your problems go away. It only adds to your problems and ruins you life even more.[/color][/size]

[color=crimson][size=1]You can register at [url]www.cheetachat.com[/url] as a user and not download the program, but you can get all the free avatars you want, so yeah! Hope that helps you out...although they are not very big...[/color][/size]

[color=crimson][size=1]There's something that's totally been bothering me lately that I've noticed on the boards more and more. What is up with people thinking it's so COOL to do drugs or to drink when it's totally illegal? I've already seen on here twice where people were like "I was totally drunk when I posted that" almost like they are bragging or something. Were you RAISED to think that is the right and "cool" thing to do? If you have to lower yourself to that kind of level so people will look up to you then you're not a very strong individual. I know someone has to share my opinion on this. I just want to know what goes through you people's minds!!!!! I'm not trying to be all goody-good, because I went to a party ONCE and got drunk and I must say, it was NOT a fun experience and I didn't think it was "cool" in the slightest. But the way people are influenced nowadays, it seems the way to go. I thought it was only like that down here in Redneckville, Georgia, but this a re-occuring issue all over the place...I think it's getting way too much out of hand....[/color][/size]

[color=crimson][size=1]From the sound of it to me, it seems as though you're only dating these girls because you are attracted to the way they look, then they turn out to be complete airheads....sounds so typical...[/color][/size]

[color=crimson][size=1]About the whole meeting people over the net thing, in my opinion, usually when you meet someone over the net you meet because you have something in common that you both notice and you don't usually "see" each other first. That's called meeting someone on an intellectual level and not judging them first off by looks. Then you eventually exchange pictures and because you know how this person is on the inside, no matter what they look like, they will always look good to you. Thus, in real life, people SEE you before they ever talk to you and that could be the problem. But that is just my opinion from personal experience.[/color][/size]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by BabyGirl [/i] [B] [color=deeppink]And about the men kissing thing...my friends wouldn't agree with me, but I think there is something incredibly sexy about it.[/color] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]I had a guy friend on the internet a few months ago that I knew for a year or so and he confessed to me one day that he was bi and he was one of those really punk hot guys and he was trying to get me to imagine what it would be like if two guys were kissing and I'd have to say, I wouldn't want to see real guys doing it, but anime guys are alright...I think...[/color][/size]