[quote name='Gavin' timestamp='1305200834' post='707297']
[font="Tahoma"][size="2"]Are you afraid your father will react violently to this chibi? Would you be able to get some neutral third party to be present when you have to do this, maybe like a member of the local police or a teacher to ensure nothing happens? I think you should most certainly be angry with your mother over this, in fact I think you should be absolutely furious she's invaded your privacy to this extent and acted in this manner. If you don't feel you're ready for this then you're not, and no you absolutely shouldn't be forced into it.
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I don't think my father would react violently, but something weird has been going on with my mom and I think she may. I think I'm going to try and get my counselor involved, but my mom hates to have people outside theimmediate family come into a situation like this. However, at this point I'm beyond caring about what she wants from this.
[quote name='NotBoo' timestamp='1305216661' post='707300']
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Overall though, this little tiff seems like it was just anger and frustration that turned violent and caused people to say things they may not have necessarily meant. If you address this with your mother in a calm, adult manner- regardless of her reaction- then you can resolve the situation on your own terms.
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I would usually think so, but over the last 3 months, my mom has been acting stranger and stranger. She's starting to scare the entire family, but she refuses to let anyone seek help. It's now impossible to hold a conversation with her unless you want to end up in a screaming match over any unrelated subject. My counselor's trying to ask Social Services what can be done here. I'm getting really freaked out by my mom now and I think it might be safer for me to run to a friend's house at some point...