Rhys Mayiessen Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 In grade seven I liked this guy and he was my friend. I don't know if I was being cautious or just being stupid but I never knew the signs that he liked me. On Valentine's Day he gave me a card and I didn't even get the point of it! Then he asked me to a movie and until he actually said the words "I like you" I didn't get it.:rolleyes: Well now I think I might look into the signs a bit more but I wanted to know if anyone has liked you did you know that they liked you before they actually said "I like you"? What signs did you see that actually lead you to this conculsion? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Foredaddy Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 I think just the fact that he wanted to hang out with you is a good sign that he likes you. Its not 100%, but its a good sign.:freak: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phantom Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 Until my current girl.. lol no one even NOTICED me... now that I'm taken...they are all over me... gosh I hate it..but honestly, no that has never happened to me... I can usually tell when they offer to prove to me how good of kissers they are.. lol..its funny Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amibasuki Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 [FONT=arial]heh, I've been able to tell before. some indicators flattering, some NOT so flattering :worried:. probably the most obvious (and annoying) way I've been able to tell is when someone follows you around while trying to go unnoticed (go figure). either that or when some wanna-be pimp comes over and says some cheesy come-ons. I don't know which I hate more. as for the more subtle stuff, I can't really explain how I know, I just sort of...do. and my guesses are usually right.....note how I said usually.... :bluesweat and no, I'm not full of myself, despite how it might sound from how I worded some stuff. I've just had some rather bad run-ins with some people who kinda pissed me off :toothy:[/FONT] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genkai Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 Hmm...... normally... I can.. Usually through gossip etc., but sometimes a girl will be really flirty, sometimes without knowing it..*shrugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RicoTranzrig Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 [COLOR=darkblue]I've heard people say they like me, but I never really pursued anything other than friendship, with the exception of the person I'm with...but that's a long story. If you're wondering before they even tell you that they really like you, they'll spend some time with you and, later little on, the flirting begins...much like what Foredaddy and genkai said. :whoops: Mixed signals are hard though...so it has to be an mutual thing of taking initiative before it turns into that (hope that made sense).[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kent Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 Im under this sort of stress right now. I dont know whether or not this girl likes me and shes not making it obvious at all. I dont really know exactly what to do, so Im just gonna keep going on with my life the way I was before she went out with me. (wensday) I really dont know what to do or think but oh well. Ill come back if I have any luck. But so far all of the interaction between her and I is border line obvious flirting and just friends. I guess when I say it like that, it sounds pretty bad. But there are some things I wouldnt be able to explain. Like I said we'll just see. As for you and your questions about how to tell. I would say the best give away is the failed "I gotta tell you something move." If he goes to tell you something, ends up in an uncomfortable silence, and says something completely unrealated to anything, thats your sign. The part he was gonna say but didnt, was "I like you." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Manic Webb Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 I've been down that road before... a couple of times... and it hurts to look back at it. I remember this one girl from my Phys Ed class in 10th grade who liked me, but I didn't realize she liked me until much later, and I haven't seen her since. I should've gotten the hint when she asked if I was going to the Sadie's Dance. Nobody had ever asked me out before, so it took me a really really long time to get it. Of course, by then, she was gone. It'd make a nice love story if it didn't end so sadly... So yeah, follow the signs. They're there for a reason. Hesitate and you may just lose something and not realize it until a year later... I am so stupid. :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hyper Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 Or sometimes the person just tells you. Thats my case. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kevin Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 I am always impervious to knowing if a girl likes me. Maybe it is because I am a typically shy guy, but I don't know. Perhaps I am just a dunce, lol. Oh well, I currently have a girlfriend so someone must be looking out for me or something. But anyway, I would say the signs of someone liking you are: 1. They hang around you more than usual, 2. If you constantly notice that they are looking at you in a dreamy like manner, 3. They get strangly close to you when you two are alone, and finally 4. Some people are trying to hint it to you that said person likes you. Those are usually signs, for me anyway. Hope I helped. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DuoMax Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 I have really never hadmch experince in these matters, being young person, but if a guy likes you, ormally they'll tell. Thats what i do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Asphyxia Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 [color=darkred]I don't. I sit there totally lost in my nothingness (which usually involves eating, sleeping, and drinking, and friends), and if I get the faintest glimps that someone likes me, I decide that they don't, and I'm just imagining it. Which is usually true, and they usually end up liking one of my friends.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kent Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 Hey hey hey! Amazingly enough, my struggle came to an end tonight. I think Ive gotten myself a girlfriend. After a night of slowly drinking and still keeping sobriety, the girl from my above post and myself sorta made it obvious that we liked each other "like that." So now I can give you the little advice thats possible, also the advice I hoped I would be able to give. I can say this, besides anything I mentioned before... little things like how she would say to me "I'm glad you called" but she said it more than once through out the night. Subtle comments about being an interesting person or a good person. Any little stuff like that, blent in with the occasional obvious flirt or comment about "sexual tension." I would say any of that is a good sign. But since I have gathered you are a girl wondering about a guy, I would say that he will come out and say it eventually. Unfortuantly if hes anything like most of the guys like myself and a couple others on the boards, it will be said at either a bad time or way too late. I hope things work out for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Asphyxia Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 [color=darkred]Erm...are we talking to me? If I gave you the wrong impression, sorry, but I'm not pining away for my lost love or anything like that. ^.^" When I start to like someone I tend to crush (pun unintended)it pretty quickly. I don't like liking people. No idea why. But thank you for your advice. ^.^[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mnemolth Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 Ahhh I see milady...*smiles and bows*... I was wondering why you hated me so.... ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhys Mayiessen Posted November 23, 2002 Author Share Posted November 23, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Mnemolth [/i] [B]Ahhh I see milady...*smiles and bows*... I was wondering why you hated me so.... ;) [/B][/QUOTE] Who are you talking to Mnemolth? Anyways thank you all for replying but I still don't know what to do if the guy is already your friend. Oh and yes Gokents I am a girl. If the guy is already your friend then you don't know if they are being friendly or not. What about if the guy you like you don't know at all just seen him and it looks as though he is looking at you? Does that mean that they like you as well? I'm totally confused here. I get what you say about following around cause that has happened to my friend but if he's already your friend then maybe he's just being friendly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amibasuki Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by FF7 Vincent [/i] [B]4. Some people are trying to hint it to you that said person likes you. [/B][/QUOTE] [FONT=arial]I've felt bad whenever people have done that, because most of the time that person didn't want them tell me in the first place, they just couldn't keep their big mouths shut. that happened to me once a while ago....when the guy found out, neither of us could look each other in the face for weeks; him because he was a really shy person at the time, me because even though I liked him, I wasn't actually planning on trying to go out with him for this and that reason. needless to say, I was pretty mad at the person that told him, since she had said she wouldn't say anything about it.[/FONT] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pressure Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Rhys Mayiessen [/i] [B]What about if the guy you like you don't know at all just seen him and it looks as though he is looking at you? Does that mean that they like you as well? I'm totally confused here. I get what you say about following around cause that has happened to my friend but if he's already your friend then maybe he's just being friendly. [/B][/QUOTE] [color=purple]I'm breaking this into two so it'll be easier to follow. As for the first thing there, bah ram. That always bothers me. It's happening to me right now. I don't even know Jerry's last name, and I doubt he even knows my first name. I like him, have since I first saw him, and I think he likes me. I don't know though. That's what always bothers me. That, and he has a girlfriend, whom I have hated for a while. x_x Yet, another situation I have gotten myself into, many times. When it comes to the opposite sex, I'm a dense person. I don't realize people like me, until they don't anymore. It is so annoying. When my guy friends become more friendly, I usually get a bit suspicious, but I'm a pessimist, so I just figure it's them being a bit nicer. However, my most predominently annoying situation, has happened to me many many times. I find out someone likes me, I don't like them back, then a while later, when they stop liking me, I fall head over heels for said person, and I hate myself for passing up my chance. This usually happens after the person goes through a dramatic change, and I don't know why, but I jsut fall for them. It drives me nuts.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Char! Posted November 23, 2002 Share Posted November 23, 2002 [color=teal][size=1][b]Well, I'm really dense when it comes to this kind of stuff. That is all. --Mike "char,char!"[/b][/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Asphyxia Posted November 24, 2002 Share Posted November 24, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Mnemolth [/i] [B]Ahhh I see milady...*smiles and bows*... I was wondering why you hated me so.... ;) [/B][/QUOTE] [color=darkred]...Yes, Mnemolth, I absolutely [i]loathe[/i] you with every fibre of my being. Happy now? :rolleyes: :p [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valen Posted November 24, 2002 Share Posted November 24, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by HyperShadow [/i] [B]Or sometimes the person just tells you. Thats my case. lol [/B][/QUOTE] Yeah, but that only happens when they get so frustrated that you didn't pick up their hints... lol... Anyway, The signs i have seen are... 1) They always talk about you with their friends 2) They always hang around/on you 3) They ask you weird things about weird subjects 4) They change the subject everytime they feel like the convo can lead to them telling you by accident 5) They get all perfumed up and come stand by you trying to entice you. 6) They put you before their friends 7) You're their only friend of the opposite gender 8) They say they like you the most out of all thier friends 9) They're always nice to you even when their in a bad mood 10) They try to be with you as much as they can Those are some of the obvious ones we all try to let people know of... sometimes they catch on, sometimes not.... but those are some of the more obvious secritive ones... One of the ones that have made me sick are the ones where they just come up to you and kiss you and run away or the note-in-locker thing... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhys Mayiessen Posted November 24, 2002 Author Share Posted November 24, 2002 Yeah see those signs are so obvious and I think I had some of those signs with the first guy...but I hate when the signs aren't obvious and you don't know if they like you or not and you don't want to take a chance....ugh I just hate this kind of game that people play if they like you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amibasuki Posted November 24, 2002 Share Posted November 24, 2002 [FONT=arial]heh, you and me both....[/FONT] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fall Posted November 25, 2002 Share Posted November 25, 2002 I'll tell you what's really bad? When one of your friends asks you out for a girl, you don't answer, and all hell breaks lose. Now, some 4 weeks after it all started, this who thing has just turned upside down. Now everyone thinks I like this girl. The bad thing? This friend of mine made the whole thing up. .....God I hate this subject! Arrggghh..... And I'm also now confused. This same girl has showed some of these signs mentioned over the time. Blah! All these idiots who can't find anything better to do but ruin my self confidence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vegeta rocker Posted November 25, 2002 Share Posted November 25, 2002 Good question! I guess if they want to hang out a lot with you or they tease you a lot they might. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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