Spikey Posted November 25, 2002 Share Posted November 25, 2002 [COLOR=green]I just watch 'em to see. First I think if they like me, then like spy on them. Then if they act "cool" infront of me, they like me. AAnd I think there is this girl that does.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhys Mayiessen Posted November 25, 2002 Author Share Posted November 25, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Squashed Snail [/i] [B]And I'm also now confused. This same girl has showed some of these signs mentioned over the time. Blah! All these idiots who can't find anything better to do but ruin my self confidence. [/B][/QUOTE] Hmm...I don't know if she shows some of the sign it definately means that she likes you. I mean this guy I know showed some signs too but I really don't think that he likes me though. Maybe they have to show a lot of the signs to like you!:D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
july Posted November 26, 2002 Share Posted November 26, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Rhys Mayiessen [/i] [B]In grade seven I liked this guy and he was my friend. I don't know if I was being cautious or just being stupid but I never knew the signs that he liked me. On Valentine's Day he gave me a card and I didn't even get the point of it! Then he asked me to a movie and until he actually said the words "I like you" I didn't get it.:rolleyes: Well now I think I might look into the signs a bit more but I wanted to know if anyone has liked you did you know that they liked you before they actually said "I like you"? What signs did you see that actually lead you to this conculsion? [/B][/QUOTE] Okay, here are a lot of signs [u]eye contact[/u] [u]unnecessary communication[/u] [u]invalid excuses to "hang out with you"[/u] [u]unauthorized communication with friends[/u] [u]non-birthday/christmas gifts[/u] [u]unexpected appearances at your usual places[/u] i have gotten all of these things (or offers) and not from the person i wish i got them from, but a guy did sing to me in the hallway once... but he's an idiot so yeah... :cross: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hikaru Ichijyo Posted November 26, 2002 Share Posted November 26, 2002 :( This is a very good question though quite honestly if I did know the signs of when a person likes you or not I wouldn't be going through half the issues in my life that I'm going through these days. In all honesty I think it varies between people, some people are better at expressing their emotions then others, so for some its harder to see signs of wether a person likes you or not. Quite honestly I'm never able to really tell when a person likes me, not that I can say I've met one that does. I'm sort of a very unapprochable person in life that I think perhaps I scare people off. I'm also fairly sure that my anime fandomness scares some girls away. Hmm though for the sake of actually contributing something useful to the converstation I would say signs of a person that likes you would be when they ask questions about your life, and are rather curious about your personal details. Indiscrete eye contact, pointless rants that end up going over the usual limit but they still don't mind it. Oh and well this might sound silly but arguing....sometimes people argue a lot but it's because they care about each others well being that they do it. At least that's my retrospect to signs that a person [b]may[/b] like you....well I'm going to stop my ranting now ^_^. End Transmission:demon: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhys Mayiessen Posted November 26, 2002 Author Share Posted November 26, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Rick Hunter [/i] [B]Oh and well this might sound silly but arguing....sometimes people argue a lot but it's because they care about each others well being that they do it. [/B][/QUOTE] Hmm...that is a interesting thought arguing. Well me and this guy argue a lot but I really don't think he like me and I have my reasons why. They're really hard to explain so I guess I won't explain them here.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna Posted November 27, 2002 Share Posted November 27, 2002 Signs schmines. :P :cross: Just tell him what you feel/think and ask him the same. It's not that big of a deal, not unless you make it out to be, and one good way to do that is to go looking for "signs" like you're on some treasure hunt. Save both of y'all the time and added stress and come out with it. Be nonchalant but not too aloof and you might surprise yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kent Posted November 27, 2002 Share Posted November 27, 2002 Yea, I like what anna said. Thats with no doubt, the best approach. Go for it! I wish there were more girls with that attitude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhys Mayiessen Posted November 27, 2002 Author Share Posted November 27, 2002 Oh yeah about that....Well this guy he already knows that I use to like him so I guess that wouldn't be of much use so that is why I think he doesn't like me even though he hasn't said it to my face. I mean he's my friend and I don't really want him to act all weird around me or never hang out with me again so that why I don't remind him of the time I told him that I liked him. I'm lucky that he's still my friend now! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan L Posted November 28, 2002 Share Posted November 28, 2002 You know someone likes you when their friend gives you a peice of paper saying "will you go out with this person" kinda thing. What can I say.. I was 12. I was really stupid. I wrote the peice of paper. My friend didn't realise he was supposed to read it out, and instead he handed it over.. and it was then torn up pretty quickly.. Needless to say I pretty much avoided the girl in question, and my friend forgot about the whole thing... ^^ heh.. so there you go. I don't really know what my point is here... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rain Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 [color=blue]Heh...I've, um, never had anyone like me...or if I have, I didn't notice...yea, I know that's sad, but...eh, it doesn't really bother me...too much. So, I don't really know the signs...I guess they stare at you a lot...or if you're young, they annoy you...I really don't know. Sorry:blush:[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted November 29, 2002 Share Posted November 29, 2002 [color=indigo]Ask their friends, lol. Or try to get them to tell you without asking. That is usually how I find out people like me. o_O Right now I [i]know[/i] three girls that like me, and I have been told that there a more that I do not know. Though, I guess it is sort of to be expected when a guy enters a Catholic all-girl high school. :p If you are in grade school, the whole "teasing" thing does not necessarily apply. I teased girls all throughout my gradeschool career. I never actually liked any of them, though. It was just fun. :p I would go with asking the person, though. The worst that could happen is that they say "no". Then you just move on. It is not really all that difficult, like Anna said, unless you make it that way.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhys Mayiessen Posted November 29, 2002 Author Share Posted November 29, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by PiroMunkie [/i] [B][color=indigo]I would go with asking the person, though. The worst that could happen is that they say "no". Then you just move on. It is not really all that difficult, like Anna said, unless you make it that way.[/color] [/B][/QUOTE] Yeah that's okay if you don't know the person very well but the person I'm talking about I know very very well and I don't want to not be his friend anymore just because I asked that! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Zeh Posted November 30, 2002 Share Posted November 30, 2002 [COLOR=royalblue]I'm not even going to [i]bother[/i] going on about all thats happened to me, usually the girls just come out and tell me, it's the easiest way, you'd be suprised if you did it. Or of course you could show him this topic.... [/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted November 30, 2002 Share Posted November 30, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Rhys Mayiessen[/i] [B]Yeah that's okay if you don't know the person very well but the person I'm talking about I know very very well and I don't want to not be his friend anymore just because I asked that![/B][/QUOTE][color=indigo]If you already know this guy really well, then that should be all the better. He may be more likely to understand since he knows you. I do not know why someone would stop being another person's friend simply because their friend asked this person if they liked them. That would be utterly ridiculous. Something tells me you might be bending this a bit out of proportion. o_O[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genkai Posted November 30, 2002 Share Posted November 30, 2002 Sometimes theyll COMPLETELY avoid you.. that's what i do.. til i ask them out ~.^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mist Posted November 30, 2002 Share Posted November 30, 2002 [color=crimson][size=1] I'm completely blind to all this 'crush' stuff, so if someone likes me, I'd rather they flat out tell me then give me "signs". Makes everything much more simple.[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest boogeta Posted November 30, 2002 Share Posted November 30, 2002 If they look at you all the time but when you look at them they look away Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defcon5 Posted November 30, 2002 Share Posted November 30, 2002 If you really want to know who some one likes send them this online (The link isn't working so if you want it IM me at Locker36isugly(AIM)) If that worked it is a quiz you send to people (And after you've regestered on the site) they will fill out the questions on it. One of which is "Who is your current crush" and all of there answers get sent to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juu Posted November 30, 2002 Share Posted November 30, 2002 [color=deeppink] [size=1]Well, usually the hints you get for someone liking you might be completely a coincidence. Usually, you shouldn't just go up to someone that you think likes you, and ask, 'Do you like me?'. If ppl tell you that person likes you, and your best friend asked him/her, and he said yes, and you like him too... Pretend not to notice them staring at you all the time, and only talk to them when they come up to you, unless they're already your guy/girl-friend. ^_^ Hope that helps somehow. ------ Yay! I'm freee~ ^.^[/color] [/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mist Posted December 1, 2002 Share Posted December 1, 2002 [color=crimson][size=1] I actually let them know that I see them staring. It's so funny watching guys become uncomfortable; let's ya know their limits, ya know? ----- Yay! She's freee!~ ^_~[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juu Posted December 1, 2002 Share Posted December 1, 2002 [color=deeppink] [size=1]^_^ It is fun doing that, especially if they're really, really shy. ^. ^ Although, if they're the type that think they can get all the girls, think they're funny...etc, it's fun to tease them by [i]not[/i] paying attention. ^.-[/color] [/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mist Posted December 1, 2002 Share Posted December 1, 2002 [color=crimson][size=1] True, true. But if they're that type of guy, I go up to his table and tell him to stop drooling in front of all his friends! :rotflmao:[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kent Posted December 1, 2002 Share Posted December 1, 2002 Well Im replying here again to say, I have no clue anymore about anything in relationships. I managed to settle my "deal" with the girl I mentioned in the thread earlier. (shes great) But I gotta say, the way everything came together and the way I thought it was gonna end up, were slightly different and totally unpredictible. Bottom line for any girls here. I.M.H.O., find out if the guy is a "player", if he is, do everything you can to ignore him, listen to your brain and not your heart. But if hes a "shy guy" or one of those "guy friend types" go for it and be open/honest. Things will never be easier than with that shy guy. He will love you for who you are and for longer than you expect. (that might be good or bad) Either way, dont make the mistakes so many other girls do, stay away from the jerks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juu Posted December 1, 2002 Share Posted December 1, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Mist [/i] [B][color=crimson][size=1] True, true. But if they're that type of guy, I go up to his table and tell him to stop drooling in front of all his friends! :rotflmao:[/color][/size] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=deeppink] [size=1]LMAO!!! I'd get a kick outta that if one of my friends said that to this guy that keeps following her around. and, btw gotenks, usually us girls don't find out if a guy's a 'player' until he plays on you. Sooo... basically, we just have to watch our back. Besides, I'm not sure if there's too many of them in middles school, geez. @_@; But you made a point there. ^^[/color] [/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mist Posted December 1, 2002 Share Posted December 1, 2002 [color=crimson][size=1] Heh, I've got a shy guy, and he's a sweetie![/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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