Heaven's Cloud Posted December 4, 2002 Share Posted December 4, 2002 [color=indigo]If Jeff realizes that you are attracted to him he may be trying to figure out how he feels about you. If you have been friends for awhile, then he is probably weighing the pros and cons of dating you (or at least asking you out).[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyGirl Posted December 4, 2002 Share Posted December 4, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by gokents [/i] [B]fore daddy, from your above remarks, I would say your an ***. [/B][/QUOTE] [color=deeppink]Foredaddy is [i]not[/i] an ***. He's actually a veteran to these boards, and an extremely funny one at that ;) Roxie- I don't think super models are freaks of nature at all. Just because they were born with super beautiful features doesn't mean that we should discriminate against them and call them weird names :p[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roxie Faye Posted December 4, 2002 Share Posted December 4, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by BabyGirl [/i] [B][color=deeppink]Foredaddy is [i]not[/i] an ***. He's actually a veteran to these boards, and an extremely funny one at that ;) Roxie- I don't think super models are freaks of nature at all. Just because they were born with super beautiful features doesn't mean that we should discriminate against them and call them weird names :p[/color] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=#9933ff]Sorry to say, but I find no humor in what Foredady posted at all. And I'm not discrimiating against them, I'm voicing an opinion about them. Sorry if it's not what you wanted to hear.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pressure Posted December 4, 2002 Author Share Posted December 4, 2002 [color=purple]I sincerely doubt what you say Heaven's Cloud. Not to be rude, and not bc you don't have a good point, but I honestly would be suprised if Jeff knew my last name. I think the only reason he is going is bc he feels bad.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sere Tuscumbia Posted December 4, 2002 Share Posted December 4, 2002 Well if he's going because he feels bad about it, then screw him! Beat him with a large rubber hammer and then move onto someone who'd actually appreciate you! Hey, I may have my differences with you every once in a while, but you're a better person than he his! DON'T SINK DARNIT! Don't lower yourself to his level. Now--if he [I]wants[/I] to go . . . that's a different matter. And he DID apologise/give a valid reason for not going so . . . you never know. @_@;; Confuzzling. --Sere *edit* And BabyGirl, sorry, but ForeDaddy's comment "lose 20 pounds, consult magic mirror, repeat"? Hahaha--not. I find that insulting. If it was humour, well then Fore shouldn't give up his day job. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyGirl Posted December 4, 2002 Share Posted December 4, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by MistressRoxie [/i] [B][color=#9933ff]And I'm not discrimiating against them, I'm voicing an opinion about them. Sorry if it's not what you wanted to hear.[/color] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=deeppink]And I was voicing [i]my[/i] opinion. I didn't mean to sound like I was lashing out at your opinion :whoops: [size=1]Random Thought: It seems as though everyone gets offended by everything I say nowadays; perhaps I should quit while I'm ahead ^_^;[/color] [/size] [color=deeppink][edit]DBZChickaGhan- I'm sorry, I totally forgot to reply to your reason for posting. I think that your reaction was extremely justified, especially if you really do have feelings for this guy. There's nothing wrong with liking him even if you don't think he likes you, because there will be lots of times when "crushes" are one-sided. Happened to me all the time :p However, don't worry about it too much, I'm sure that there are those who still love you VERY VERY much![/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrist cutter Posted December 4, 2002 Share Posted December 4, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by BabyGirl [/i] [B][size=1]Random Thought: It seems as though everyone gets offended by everything I say nowadays; perhaps I should quit while I'm ahead ^_^;[/color] [/size][/B][/QUOTE] People are overly sensitive these days. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stitch Posted December 5, 2002 Share Posted December 5, 2002 super model- anorexic/bulimic, snobby, B***h, w***E, insanly stupidyly skinny!, think they are different when they are the same as the other million super models out there! so being skinny isn't everything so you shouldn't call yourself fat! Marylin Munroe wore i size 14 ladies in pants! and she was considered the most beautiful girl in the U.S.(i think)!! so don't feel bad about what jeff did this stuff happens. Jeff may be going through a really hard time about something i mean god knows what might be running through his brain but he didn't come and thats a fact you have to face. but i would follow Tasis advice because it has a lot of truth in it! blah okay i sound like my mom now...... i'm gunno go shut up! Stitch! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roxie Faye Posted December 5, 2002 Share Posted December 5, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by BabyGirl [/i] [B][color=deeppink]And I was voicing [i]my[/i] opinion. I didn't mean to sound like I was lashing out at your opinion :whoops: [/color][/B][/QUOTE] [color=#9933ff]Oh. I get it. Sorry about my response, too. ^_^;; anyways, I think we should get back on track. Just want to apologize.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrist cutter Posted December 5, 2002 Share Posted December 5, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Stitch [/i] [B]super model- anorexic/bulimic, snobby, B***h, w***E, insanly stupidyly skinny!, think they are different when they are the same as the other million super models out there![/B][/QUOTE] I remember the days when you had to see a person to tell whether or not they're ugly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna Posted December 5, 2002 Share Posted December 5, 2002 Geez peoples.... off-topic much? Okay I'll join in. Super-models don't get enough credit. It's bloody hard to be in that business, and it's not [i]all[/i] natural genetics at work. All a lot of people see and know about is what they view on the cat-walk and in magazines. There's a whole other scene going on underneath all of that, and it's not as pretty as the surface. Moving on. Chicka that really sucks you had to go through that ordeal. Try to not invest too much of your time if this guy Jeff though, I mean there are lots of guys out there; don't focus on just one if you're not getting the results you want. What results you may ask? Well, do you not want some sort of reciprocating relationship? Sometimes it's hard to turn away from something you thought was right, but actually isn't. I'm not saying this Jeff guy is good for you or bad because obviously I have no clue, BUT this is one angle that hasn't been looked at, so I'm taking the liberty of bringing it to light. :whoops: Sorry it's not such a peachy angle though >_>. Mainly, you need to concentrate on YOU. Make yourself happy, take care of yourself, yourself is the only one that's going to be around the rest of your life. If you don't like yourself, start fixin' it up, and if you don't feel like fixin', then don't: you're fine the way you are. Well, I suppose I'll shaddup now. Anyways, hope things work out for ya. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pressure Posted December 5, 2002 Author Share Posted December 5, 2002 [color=purple]Anna, you never cease to amaze me. Thank you all for your help, though I must say that due to a wonderful friend of Jeff's, I have 2 and a half days to find another of Jeff's friends tog o to Rock N Bowl, or else Jeff wont go. Jeff would have gone to Rock N Bowl, if one of his friends would also go, my first two choices, Adam and Jimmy, can't. Adam can't get out of his reason he can't go, and Jimmy, just wants to do it to annoy me. So, my life went from bad, to good, to awesome, back to bad in less then 3 days.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vegeta rocker Posted December 5, 2002 Share Posted December 5, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by wrist cutter [/i] [B]People are overly sensitive these days. [/B][/QUOTE] I couldn't agree more.......... BTW, i see you got your old banner, i always liked that one. And to be on topic, i am glad the situation was resolved, most fights occur not knowing all the angles and sides to a story. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red Posted December 5, 2002 Share Posted December 5, 2002 [i]I have 2 and a half days to find another of Jeff's friends to go to Rock N Bowl[/i] [b]Not to try and sound nasty or anything.. but shouldn't Jeff try and find one of his own friends to come along? Not trying to be bad to you either, just if he actually wants to go you think he would be bothered to find a friend to tag along?[/b] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mnemolth Posted December 5, 2002 Share Posted December 5, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by BabyGirl [/i] [B][color=deeppink]Foredaddy is [i]not[/i] an ***. He's actually a veteran to these boards, and an extremely funny one at that ;) Roxie- I don't think super models are freaks of nature at all. Just because they were born with super beautiful features doesn't mean that we should discriminate against them and call them weird names :p[/color] [/B][/QUOTE] Let me take a wild guess here, you're not the ugliest person to have ever walked upon the face of the earth, are you? ;) Word up for all the beautiful people of the world. Good job! :D As for supermodels and their ilk, personally I find it a little disturbing that people pay so much attention to their looks. But then again I find it equally disturbing that others pay so little attention to their appearance that it almost amounts to sabotage. And I agree mostly with what Anna said. Although I would probably tone down the talk about being selfish. Its been my experience that generally people are selfish enough as it is, its selflessness that is difficult to learn. Genuine selflessness that is, not the preachy, self-righteous type. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phantom Posted December 5, 2002 Share Posted December 5, 2002 IM AWWWWFULLLY late...but... "Whats wrong with me?" ....Is there a definitive model of a person that is ideal in everyway to compare you to? ...Heh yea someplace, but its all in opinion anyway....soo.. to Jeff, there can be plenty wrong with you, or nothing at all....only he knows. to Wristcutter, your wrongfullness may be that you took that situation too seriously...but who knows.. So the only way I can tell you whats wrong with you is to get to know you and develop my own opinions.. but since I have no time to do that, I'll run off what I got from this thread... The only thing wrong with you is that you think your nothing... because evidently your ARENT 'nothing' ....Your pretty nice...yep...there isnt anything "WRONG" ...Wif you at awl.. :-D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyGirl Posted December 5, 2002 Share Posted December 5, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Mnemolth [/i] [B]Let me take a wild guess here, you're not the ugliest person to have ever walked upon the face of the earth, are you? ;) Word up for all the beautiful people of the world. Good job! :D[/B][/QUOTE] [color=deeppink]:rolleyes: Generalizations just kill me. [i]On that note, ugly people are freaks of nature! We should hate them all![/i] Ugh. People need to lighten up and seek a sense of humor; [i]not[/i] one that's dripping with rude, sarcastic remarks :p. [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mitch Posted December 5, 2002 Share Posted December 5, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Pressure [/i] [B]. I'm not pretty enough, I'm not skinny enough, I'm not smart enough. I don't know what it is, but I always feel like I'm just annoying everyone around me, like I am the pebble in everyone's shoe. I always feel like no one wants me around, but no one will tell me. I hate it.[/color] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=red] Eh, I rather feel that in my life as well at times. If I were you, as I'm certain many have said, I'd certainly down right profess your feelings of anxiety and problems towards him. Once you have given him the bare naked truth of the way you feel, and also the way you feel about him, he should then be so flustered that he will either walk out on you, not wanting this sudden confrontation, or, he will either profess you're right, or that you're wrong.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pressure Posted December 6, 2002 Author Share Posted December 6, 2002 [color=purple]Jeff knows how I feel about him, but he does not know how I feel about my self. I don't want to tell him, bc I don't want to put anymore thoughts into Jeff's head, I don't want to overwhelm the poor boy. Oh, and to make things a hell of a lot better, Jeff's best friend of like 4 years, Adam, supposedly likes me now. This would be fine, if my best friend didn't love Adam more than anything else in creation. My life just rocks.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna Posted December 6, 2002 Share Posted December 6, 2002 >_< GEEZ girl! Talk about those love triangles. :rolleyes: Man.... I've been there, it really sucks. Well, what I usually do is just say "screw it" and completely turn away from the entire situation. Some would call it 'running' from the problem, and for a little while that's basically what I do. BUT, that's only for a little while. Sometimes, like when you shake a water bottle, all the bubbles and the current inside make it so that you can't see everyhting clearly. But if you set it down and leave it alone for a while, things settle, and if nothing else you can at least things from a clearer prospective. I know my analogy stinks, but hopefully you get what I'm saying. Just somehow detatch yourself from these people for like a day or two, then come around and see if anything's changed, or maybe you'll see something new brought to your attention. Give yourself some time to breathe and don't thihnk about it too much. Also, maybe you'll come up with a game plan, like if you think you ought to confront either Adam or your friend or Mr. Jeff himself. Anyway, I just hope things work out for ya. ^_^ ::thumb's up:: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
july Posted December 6, 2002 Share Posted December 6, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Pressure [/i] [B][color=purple]I can't stand it anymore, I always feel like I am living up to someone else's standards. And when I'm living up to mine, I can't because I set them too high. But more than not, I feel like I am never good enough. Last night, I spent half and hour on the phone with my friends Jimmy and Jeff, to see if they wanted to go to Rock N Bowl with us. He said he'd think about it, and my friend and I told him he had a half an hour to think about it. We ran across an interstate to get to my house at 9 oclock at night, ripped through all the rooms in my house, and counted out 17 dollars in quarters. At 9:45 we ran over to the Metro in 38-40 degree weather, and got the change turned into paper money. We ran up to the local bowling alley at 10 clock, and called them. Jeff, who I did this all for, I wasn't going to go unless he did, flat out refused to come. I was devestated. When I hung up the phone I went into the bowling alley and cried for 10 minutes straight. No matter what any of my friends told me, I couldn't, and still can't shake the feeling that it was because I wasn't good enough. That I'm not good enough to hang out with, or be friends with. I'm not pretty enough, I'm not skinny enough, I'm not smart enough. I don't know what it is, but I always feel like I'm just annoying everyone around me, like I am the pebble in everyone's shoe. I always feel like no one wants me around, but no one will tell me. I hate it.[/color] [/B][/QUOTE] hate to tell you this, but why does it matter what anyone else thinks or cares or does to you for that matter? it shouldn't matter, and you should do things for yourself ([SIZE=1]as well as for others[/SIZE] but they shouldn't always come first. your friend is an @$$ho and i'm sorry but he should respect what you did for him. [SIZE=1](you should get revenge or something... hahaha)[/SIZE] also, don't feel that you aren't enough for anyone because the truth probably is that you're too much for them. just because they suck, you shouldn't feel bad. don't get mad either, get glad, this means that you're actually worth more than what you thought you were worth and then when you add the cost of inflation and the service fees, you come out to around several million. just keep your head up and **K* anyone who doesn't accept you for what's inside. because that's what counts. ;) besides, i like you... :D hahaha... wait, who are you again? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hikaru Ichijyo Posted December 7, 2002 Share Posted December 7, 2002 :( Ouch this sounds like a really serious problem....I would of posted something in response earlier but I wanted to choose my words wisely and get a better grip on this situation. Well first off I'd like to say I'm sorry that you get the feeling know one wants you around that's a horrible feeling that you and various others I'm sure on this board have experience. Umm my advice to you or well not really advice more like a suggestion is perhaps you should forget about this Jeff business. Dewling on something or someone too long isn't really good especially if your not going to get results from this and keep hurting yourself. Now as for this not being any good enough for people business please stop thinking like that:). Your starting to sound a lot like a person I know which is myself, I always think I'm not good enough to be various people's friends and I use to constantly judge myself and think what's wrong with me. Though I recently learned that there is nothing wrong with me and certainly nothing wrong with you. If anything it sounds like Jeff isn't good enough for you, after all you did go out of your way and bend over backwards for him to come. I hope this cheered you up a bit...I'm sort of lousy with these encouragement pep talks but I tried. ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pressure Posted December 8, 2002 Author Share Posted December 8, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Anna [/i] [B]Jeff himself. [/B][/QUOTE] [color=purple]Congratulations Anna, on guessing Jeff's nickname. ;) Anyways, last night was Rock N Bowl, and to my unimaginable suprise, Jeff showed. Not only that, but listen to this. About an hour before Rock N Bowl started, Jeff's friend Jimmy decided, he was going to be a stick in the mud and not go. He told me this over the phone and I got frustrated. Well I called Jeff to see if he was still going, and his response was, "I'm trying." Jeff must have known how much it meant to me for him to go, bc otherwise, he would have just said, "No.".....right? Anyways, Jeff went to Rock N Bowl, so did Jimmy, so did my best friend. So the four of us just all chilled there and bowled. I got a bit depressed a few times, at which time I have learned I should not have a bowling ball in my posession. o_O; However, Jeff noticed this, and whenever I would go to bowl, he would turn on the scorekeeping light, and make little handpuppet dogs, which he would make bark coincidentally, every time I went to bowl. Okay so I lost that round. But it made me laugh and made me feel better, so I appreciated it anyway. Good time? Yes. Sparks? Not yet..but I'm hoping. Oh and July, try to clean up your capitalization.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cloricus Posted December 8, 2002 Share Posted December 8, 2002 I'm just annoying everyone around me, like I am the pebble in everyone's shoe. I always feel like no one wants me around. Hehehe, I know for a fact that this is true for me, and I love it! Not that it helps you in anyway but hey, you have four pages worth of stuff here already. :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrist cutter Posted December 8, 2002 Share Posted December 8, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by july [/i] [B]hate to tell you this, but why does it matter what anyone else thinks or cares or does to you for that matter?[/B][/QUOTE] Because if nobody cared, we'd all be living in anarchy and killing each other over strawberries. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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