Pain and suffering

[BondFanatic]

Has this ever happened to you?

I was walking to my friend's car after school (mine's in the shop right now), and three guys, who I have only seen once in school, came up to me and jumped me. I have a fractured ankle, so I'm having trouble walking, and that lessened my chances of getting away. I couldn't fight back, so I got the crap beaten out of me. Luckily, a security guard came over and broke it up. So now, I've got a bruised face and body, and am having an even harder time walking.

Plus, I lost twenty or so bucks that the guys nicked from my wallet. Luckily, I just got a phone call telling me that the guys are being expelled from school (this isn't the first time they've done something like this), so I won't have to go through that again.

I'm not expecting any sympathy from anyone. I just want to know, has this ever happened to you?

[Roxie Faye]

[color=#9933ff]I know you don't want my sympathy, but I'm sorry! That's just how I am. I'm sure it really does hurt, but you have to be positive, ya know? It'll go away eventually, and at least those guys got expelled from school.

I'd have to say, that, thankfully, I've nevr been jumped by anyone. I live in a fairly sheltered town(and I don't really like the fact that I do. >_<), and that's probably never happened in our neighborhood.[/color]

[Mist]

[color=crimson][size=1] Up to date, no, I haven't. I've lived in a sheltered town nearly all my life, but my family and I have just moved up to Chicago (or close to it...) so you never know.

If you didn't want sympathy, I'm sorry. I really do hope everything works out in your favor. Just keep your head up and don't flip 'em off while they're around...wait until they turn the corner. ^_~[/color][/size]

[Red]

[b]I know how you feel, I was bullied for 5 years straight, to a point where I couldn't leave my own house for fear of getting beaten up by 20+ people. That's no joke by the way, I was chased down by 20+ 16 year olds when I was only 10 years old.

In the end I was stuck in my house, depressed. I hardly got any exercise, so I just got really fat. I suppose I still am because of it.

I live with the fact now that if one of those boys (and I see them around) was to bother touching me, they wouldn't wake up for a few days. It makes my blood boil just seeing them in the street, the fact that I never got my revenge on them, but I know that I am a heck of a lot more intelligent and I don't have to sink down to their level.[/b]

[Spikey]

This happened to my friend at a park. They jumped him, stole his wallet, and then he got like a broken arm, and all that other stuff. Although, he called the police, after the beating, and they came to the park. But the person who jumped him, was not there. So he toled him there names, and then they found him. But the problem is, they had no charges. Man those police.

This hasn't ever happened to me, but I am sure that it won't. That's because my school doesn't have that many people there, and they don't have many poeple there that would do it. From what I have heard, people at my school, only two people got jumped.

[Bing]

Yes, it happened to me and my two friends on Halloween. The big gang of idiots came over to us and started spitting on us, and taking the piss out of us. I got punched, and so did one of my mates. They just wouldn't give up. I constantly get pounched at school, for no reason, probably because I am a 'metler' (person who listens to metal music *even though I don't*) One of the kids apologised to us, but I still the the others around. It makes me angry, when i see them walking around acting all hard. Sometimes I feel like jumping them, and I am sure that one day I will...:flaming:

[sydney]

I know a man who had an argument with his wife so he decided to stay in a hotel for a night and try to sleep off his problems. A man broke into the hotel in the night and beat him to a bloody pulp. The man wanted his credit cards and all of the money he had on him. But the guy I knew left some 1000 dollers (in his wallet), in his fully loaded SUV. So he offered the guy his keys not to kill him. But the man kept beating him and beating him. The man had a gun and threatened to kill him many times if he didnt give him money, but he didnt have any money on him. It was all in the SUV, which the man refused to even think about. The man eventuly bound up the guy i know and put him in the bathroom all tied up. He somehow got to the phone and called 911.

When the cops came the took down the description (what he could remember) and then the cops took pictures of all of the marks on his body. Then they left.
When the ambulance came they refused to take him to a hospital because he didnt have his insurence(I believe thats what they refused him for). The put bandages on him, made a report and left.

The man I know had to drive himself to the hospital, while severely bleeding, and barely conscience. He is the strongest man I know.
This all happened about a year ago and he is still afraid to close his eyes. He is afraid of the dark like no one I have ever known.

[Stitch]

about a year ago my friend decided to try drinking and he got really drunk and i was walking home home with my frinds and i said good bye to my frinds and started walking home which was only about 400 yards away and my friends were not in sight anymore and he jumped on me from behind and was like literally trying to rape me he was trying to kiss me and force himself on me. though at the same moment my brother came outside to take our dog for a pee and he saw me yelling and struggling so he ran to us and pretty much beat the living hell out of the guy while i ran home.... we charged the guy i haven't talked to him ever since... i thought he was my friend. even though he was drunk and he didn't know what he was doing i still can't forgive him because he shouldn't have been drinking.

but yes in your case i know how it feels and i know that it sucks but things will get better! i know things got better for me after a while! bones and brusies will heal the only thing thats hard to get over is the anger and hate.
Stitch

[Corey]

Well I have never been jumped, but thats because I try not to make enemies. I'm large, 6'2" 240lbs, and usually am able to intimidate my way out of dissagreements if I find myself in them.
When I am unable to, and an argument or some kind of physical dispute ensues, I never forget. I still remember the name of a kid that kicked my in my balls in fifth grade (Damn you Alfredo...).
Early this year there was this guy spraying a lot of hair spray into the air on the city bus reserved for my school. Everyone was screaming at him to stop. He wouldn't. I walked up to him and calmly asked him to stop, never taking my eyes off of his. He calmly told me that he would not. I yanked the bottle out of his hands and walked back to my seat. I sat down and held the bottle up in front of me for all the bus to see. They clapped and whistled. The guy goes and pulls out another bottle, walks up to me, and sprays it directly into my face. The entire time I was smiling as my anger and malice was quickly rising. I grabbed the bottle and yanked it. He wouldn't let go and grabbed my hair (it was long at this time). He gave a yank and contiued pulling my head to the side. I pulled my head straight and looked him straight in the eyes.
He walked away with quite a bit of my hair in his hands. I still haven't let it go and one day plan to dump a cup of bleach onto his head.

*Sigh* I should really get an anger management course...

[treton_noir]

well, well...
i can relate a little to what you're saying. most of my life, ive been "the short kid" and "the nerd". though i got ragged sometimes, it was never to the point that you've described. i have never had a spontanious beating (except from my brother, who is APEMAN on OB. more on that later.*) i haven't been through the extent of your harassment, but i do know a little about it, more about the vengeance side, actually. in all honesty, i am a spiteful person. if someone pisses me off. i go nuts on them, for no reason. i am at a point, now, where i dont care. i dont care about consequences, embarassment, pain, my life,... hardly anything come to think of it.
examples:
1. Tori (Asuka) and i were driving somewhere on the interstate(3 lanes, one way, 80+ mph) and it was raining pretty hard. a car in front of us started sliding and hit the side of my car. it stopped in the road and i stopped on the side. (dozens of cars are still coming.) i got out and walked up the center lane of the busiest road in the state, straight towards the car and into oncoming traffic and explained to the driver that i was going to end her life.
2. i graduated high school last year. during the year, some freshmen(9th grade) decided that they were going to try to prove themselves early. they (apparently at random) picked a couple of seniors(12th grade) to try to screw with. no such luck. the posse and i made sure they had the worst year ever.

*my brother, ive noticed, has gotten to the same point i'm at. he enjoys pain. i dont mind it, so we do things that normally are considered dangerous or life threatening. i mention this (to keep it on topic) to make the point that if you just stop caring, problems dont disappear, but you just dont care anymore. what can affect you if you dont care? nothing. all you have to do is convince yourself that nothing matters anymore. (also, it helps if you watch Fight Club. it didnt get my brother and me started, but it sure didnt hurt.)

[APEMAN]

You know, a lot of times, I enjoy taking the beatings. I barely feel it anymore. But even more than that, I like to give those beatings out. Spread the love. :devil: It's always better to give than to recieve.:blackeye: If you ever get tired of taking the beatings, start giving them back. If you feel that, in your current state, you are incapable of spreading pain and suffering throughout the populace, then you might consider using my method of gaining muscle mass and strength. Lift weights every other day for two months, then take a month off from the lifting. Just stay active for the next month and repeat. After six months, you're built by Cheverolet because you're like a rock.

[Dragon Fou Lu]

I've never had anything like the above done to me before. 2 of my friends got beaten up once i left them to go home from school.
in both cases it was the same gang of people and in both cases they waited until i'd gone. i don't know why they haven't tried to have a go at me yet.

but the most important thing i have to say on this matter is forget about what they've done to you.revenge is just pointless because if you pour a bucket of dead fish over their head because they shoved a bunch of seaweed down your back , you may have had your revenge on them but they'll want their revenge on you and when they get you back for the 1st time you got revenge you'll only want it again and again.
in other words you'll just keep on going.not thinking about anything other than how to get this person back for something which maybe happened ages ago. :(