Monkeys_revenge Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 Can somebody help me with some girlfriend problems? She keeps ignoring me and she won't even look at me! She has looked at me a couple times... But i'm just so confused to whats wrong??!! She won't communicate with me so how am I supposed to fix this?! I try walking up and talking to her. But i'm not that persistant. That maybe why... Anyone got any solutions? Man I love her sooo much :love: I would much appreciated if somebody would help me.:) THanks Something funny is that she looks like the girl on the new banner for Otaku Boards 2003 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amiboshi Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 Yeah, I have problems similar to that... The guy I liked suddenly started ignoring me and he hasn't said anything or even looked at me once since I got back. U.U I feel for you... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juu Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 [color=deeppink] [size=1]Well... first of all, I don't think it's really respectful to call your g/f 'my girl'. o_o; *twitches* I really don't know... that's happened to me before, and it just might be that either she heard some sort of rumor, or is upset at something you said... It could be something a little more personal though. My suggestion is, give her some time alone. That usually helps alot. Maybe she just needs some time.[/color] [/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monkeys_revenge Posted January 16, 2003 Author Share Posted January 16, 2003 I asked her out like, almost 2 days after she said she liked me, could that be it? To soon maybe? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Schrat Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 well i think your problem is that your considering this girl, your "girl freind"....Try just being freinds, believe me it will develop into something... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monkeys_revenge Posted January 16, 2003 Author Share Posted January 16, 2003 Thats exactly what my father, friend, another person, and so many others said! I'll try that, thanks!:D:D:D:):):) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kent Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 Well I can speak from experience and what I did. Background to the story is... I went to my home town a thousand miles away. "She" went to the same home town which was 2,000 miles away for her. It was 2 years after the best relationship of my life. We were seperated due to problems no one can control. (she went to school in colorado and I moved with my family to louisiana) In the home town now... We both spent some time together when I got to "the burg" (home town) and had a great time together. I was in town for 1 week. We spent that 1 day together and then a few hours that next day. (new years eve) We both agreed to see each other before I left. Then on the last 2 days I tried to get in touch with her, she ignored me. I tried again before I left, and again I was ignored. I tried to contact her after I had left just to find out what was up. She ignored me again. I got home and wrote her and email telling her my feelings and IM'd her to tell her to try to check her mail. I havent heard from her since new years eve. I dont know why she just stopped talking to me, but eventually I got it. I dont know why she did it, but I decided that I would let it go. Its time for me to do what I assume she did... move on. I suggest that if she is giving you the cold shoulder, dont let it bother you. If a girl wants to talk to you, she will find a way. However, if she doesnt want to talk with you, bothering her woulnt make her like you anymore. I also suggest you do what was suggested above... take it as it comes and start as friends. Although, I must admit that being labeled a friend is the first step to not getting intimate. ( being a friend or a nice guy is not what girls ask for when they wanna jump your bones) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genkai Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 Well, if your too shy to talk to her, talk to one of her friends.. they'll know what's wrong.. I've done my bit here... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monkeys_revenge Posted January 16, 2003 Author Share Posted January 16, 2003 Thank you all very much for the help! I think this shall work. Thanks again! :love: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genkai Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 *sigh* Young love..... ] Glad we could help, and good luck!!! :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sara Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by genkai [/i] [B]*sigh* Young love.....[/B][/QUOTE] [SIZE=1]And how old are you, Grandfather? :p I agree with genkai, though. If you can't talk to her, corner one of her friends. Girls gossip. ;)[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrist cutter Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 Two words: DUMP HER. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sara Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by wrist cutter [/i] [B]Two words: DUMP HER. [/B][/QUOTE] [SIZE=1]Heh. The whole [b]Man I love her sooo much :love:[/b] probably makes that a bit tricky, though. [/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Semjaza Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 Sounds to me that you're jumping into this way too fast. The details of it are kind of vague... But it seems as if all this (even your first asking her out) happened in a matter of days. How could you love her already? I dunno, doesn't seem like something I'd get all worked up about. I'd try to find out what her exact problem is... But if she doesn't have one, I'd just let it go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Monkeys_revenge[/i] [B]I try walking up and talking to her. But i'm not that persistant.[/b][/quote][quote][b]Man I love her sooo much :love:[/B][/QUOTE][size=1][color=indigo]Honestly, if you "love her sooo much", the words "i'm not that persistant" should not even come to you as a logical thought. My opinion sides with wrist cutter.[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
treton_noir Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 [QUOTE]My opinion sides with wrist cutter.[/QUOTE] mine does, too. if she doesnt want to be with you, there's nothing you can do about it. no amount of crying, begging, or suicidal thoughts will change that. she might "go back out" with you or whatever, but then you will have nothing but an empty relationship that revolves only around the title of "going out". then again, you might just be weirding her out with the sudden gush of loviness. back off a little bit, killer. let her breathe. (that doesnt mean give up, if this is the case and she just needs room.) if she just doesnt want to be with you, toss her to the side. its easier if you do it than if she does it. guaranteed. [QUOTE]Well... first of all, I don't think it's really respectful to call your g/f 'my girl'. o_o; *twitches*[/QUOTE] exactly why is that, Juuthena? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defcon5 Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 I agree with treton. I went out with this one girl and in a few days she was writing me notes saying that she loved me (She wrote along with it "I mean that")and it started to creep me out. No one can fall in love so young, and we had only been going out a few days. I say talk to her best friend and find out whats happening. That's always the best way to go if she won't talk to you herself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
treton_noir Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 i always notice so many kids that run around and are all, "oh!... im sooo in love." :love: these kids are like, in middle school, ya know? how is somebody that young going to have the slightest idea what they're talking about? (of course they [I]all[/I] act like they're some kind of exception. " but i really [I]do[/I] love her/him." stupidity and ignorance like that pisses me off. :flaming: no offense, of course... i mean, you might really love her. how am i supposed to know? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muetank Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 you think middle schools are bad, then u dont want to see my high school. girls go thrue men like toliet paper up there, its insanity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monkeys_revenge Posted January 16, 2003 Author Share Posted January 16, 2003 SHe likes me again!!!!! WOOPEE!!!!! SHE LIKES ME AGAIN! TALKING TO ME AGAIN!!!!! YAYAYAY!!!! Thank you every one for the help:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
treton_noir Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 [QUOTE]you think middle schools are bad, then u dont want to see my high school. girls go thrue men like toliet paper up there, its insanity.[/QUOTE] if thats the case, then i can only hope you stay clear. you wouldnt want to end up like some toilet paper. girls just cause trouble, but theyre a habit i cant kick. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Subversive Posted January 16, 2003 Share Posted January 16, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by treton_noir [/i] [B]girls just cause trouble. but their a habit i cant kick. [/B][/QUOTE] Its not the worst habit one could have my friend:therock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna Posted January 17, 2003 Share Posted January 17, 2003 Eesh, these topics....... sidenote: Ryan my friend (aka black newt), girls typically don't liked being referred to as "my girl" because it kind of reminds them of ... property. "My car" "my sock" "my remote", and not many people like to think of themselves as being owned, at least at the level of other objects. Back to topic. Um, next time she just blows you off, blow her off. Seriously, it's like a backards way of asking for attention. If you don't pay her any attention, then she'll think that something is going wrong in the game and she'll get all worried, and she'll end up coming to [i]you[/i]. People who play games deserve to get theirs every once in a while. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chibi_kunoichi Posted January 17, 2003 Share Posted January 17, 2003 wow does this ever seem familiar to me:S a) you think you love her but its just because u think she's so cute and u like how she acts. b) you should try to be close to best friends before going out with her. c)dont call her "your girl:.... d)just gather up your nerves, stick em in a safe and talk to her. e)dont forget to spend time with her, call her every now and then and seem interested in her, dont always talk about yourself. f) if none of that works, DUMP HER SORRY LITTLE ***!!! she doesnt deserve you if you try all that and she still acts the same. she'd be a snobby little brat if she did! beleive what i said here, cuz u have no idea how many times this has happened to me. trust me, if u do dump her, you'll find someone else, there's always someone else out there waiting for someone to sweep them off their feet with that person's charm and personality and looks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monkeys_revenge Posted January 18, 2003 Author Share Posted January 18, 2003 ok, well, thank you all for the help, but I think i can handle it from here. Thank you all very much! ;) Oh my gosh, I don't know why I just can't thank you all enough! THANKIES!:D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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