Transtic Nerve Posted January 21, 2003 Share Posted January 21, 2003 How odd, the question eith me always seems to be cut or uncut lol THAT was a joke.... Anyway, ofcourse alot of people base their opinions on people on looks. Other on personality, others on whatever. It all depends on the person really and their own ego. You'r enot less of a person because someone thinks you are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amibasuki Posted January 21, 2003 Share Posted January 21, 2003 [FONT=arial]I can sympathize with ya SM, lol. this guy sounds pretty nice. but even if he doesn't like you, just remember that there are plenty of other guys out there that are just as great....if not better...than he is. you just hafta get out there and look around a bit is all.[/FONT] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sara Posted January 21, 2003 Share Posted January 21, 2003 [size=1]I've been asked out a couple times, but never been on what I would consider a date. It's just fun to hang out with people, so that's what I try to do. Heh.[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan L Posted January 22, 2003 Share Posted January 22, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Spikey [/i] [B]I've been asked out many times, just it's that no one then stays with me. Nobody askes me out anymore, just because of what I like. I don't kno, but that shouldn't get you down, I'm sure you'll find that special someone someday. Just keep looking! -Greg [/B][/QUOTE] It never ceases to worry me how much experience you seem to have in these matters, for someone coming up to 10 years of age.. I've been asked out twice.. I think.. yeah.. but me being me, I actually turned both times down.. the first time I never really took it seriously.. even today I swear it was a wind-up.. so I suppose it doesn't even count.. OK.. once.. and that time the person in question was just.. well.. "too much of a looker, not enough personality".. if you see what I mean.. So far I don't know of anyone else out of people that I know from school, college etc. who's actually made that reasoning (except hypothetically, where [i]everyone[/i] does). Of course, I didn't actually tell her "No.. you're too shallow, vain, and everything else I'm really not after".. that'd be a bit harsh.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mitch Posted January 22, 2003 Share Posted January 22, 2003 [color=red] I've never been asked out. Poor me... Right, that's so not me. I really could care less if I'm asked out or not. There's a time for everything. And right now, that's the last thing on my mind. [size=1] But hey--Shy did...=_= Erm, not really, but ^_^[/size][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cloricus Posted January 22, 2003 Share Posted January 22, 2003 [spoiler][color=teal]I've been asked out, but it was a joke paying me out. It backfired on them though... :devil: Apparently some one likes me, but I don?t know whom, I don?t know why and I don't really care "to" much. Though it has been eating away at me for a while now. *Kills Raven...* I will get you one day you know. Anyway good luck to you all. lol. [/color][/spoiler] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BandWidth Posted January 26, 2003 Share Posted January 26, 2003 d00d... seriously. If a chick knows what it is to 'frag' someone, I'm in love. Instantly. No questions asked. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yu Yu Hakusho! Posted January 26, 2003 Share Posted January 26, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Juuthena [/i] [B][color=deeppink] [size=1]No one should ever judge you by your looks. I'm sure alot of people like you for who you are, and see through your outside appearance. ^_^ I've been asked out by some of the rudest guys in school. I'm in middle school, but I really believe relationships should revolve around peoples' personalities. Not their appearance. ^_-[/color] [/size] [/B][/QUOTE] That's how I feel too. A couple of rude guys have asked me out too, but I can see who they really are. I see right through them, immature rude teenage boys with nothing better to do than be...well, immature! Some people are so critical though. You really shouldn't judge people by their apperances at all. It's just downright wrong. But people do it anyway. You know, I don't think I'm ever going to find the "perfect boyfriend" anytime soon. Anyway, I'm not overly interested in dating, so I could care less. I proably won't start until I'm a Sophomore in High School. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Chris Posted January 26, 2003 Share Posted January 26, 2003 [color=green]people shouldn't judge people on their looks, but it's instinct. when you look at someone, you automaticly judge them, if you like it or not. that judgement might not stay with you for long, but it was there. i believe that relationships that start off because or appearence, don't last very long. a lot of men have a tendency to go by appearence(i would know) but there are the ones that don't. and you won't ever find the 'perfect' boyfriend, because no one's perfect. and i've never had a guy ask me out(well, once, but i don't want to talk about it...)[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuperMuffin Posted January 31, 2003 Author Share Posted January 31, 2003 [color=orange]Ya thats true about the automatic judging thing. I don't think I do that too much, or I dont mean to anyways, but ya... Thanx so much for everything and I am just going to have to accept that he won't ask me out! Thanx again![/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted February 1, 2003 Share Posted February 1, 2003 [color=darkblue]a lot of this is just the awkwardness of growing up. guys & girls still don't fully know how to relate, understand, or talk to one another at that point. guys used to really baffle me (in the romantic sense). when i was a teenager, i'd've almost rather died than tell someone i liked them. you should see me now. i'm a huge flirt, & if i hit on someone & they reject me, so what? there are only 5.9 billion others in the world. also, now... heheh, guys are so easy to read, it's not even remotely funny (no offense meant). once y'all have experienced a little more of that sort of interaction, understanding the opposite sex will be a lot easier.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chibi_kunoichi Posted February 3, 2003 Share Posted February 3, 2003 hey we in the same boat. i never been asked out before and its really buggin me. well, only once but he's in grade 7 and im in 10 so tha'd be extremelly wierd and would get me an even worse reputation in school:S i know i am practically below popularity, but that cuz my ******* bro tellin everyone at school all these damn lies so no one wanna hang wit me. so i think that the best thing for me would be to move and start completely new. be more outgoing, more social, i'd try to be a whole new person since my old one wasnt working out; bully in elementary school, barely speaks a word at school, never does work, known as a ***** and says the worst of everyone i dont know, prejudice. if i were u.. wait, i practically am. well i'd wanna fit in and change myself, just not so much that it'll be bad for my health or anything. u know that saying, if u cant beat them, join them. i think if u like the new you and your getting all these new friends, stay with it. its better than staying as someone with almost no friends, plus itll make u feel better. -says me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*madEE* Posted February 3, 2003 Share Posted February 3, 2003 Well i completely agree with you guys when you say that people should go out with others not based on their looks, but by their personalities. I know many guys I turned down are probably thinking I may just be the biggest b**** but it was because they based their opinions of asking me out based on my looks. I went out with some that may not be so reputable to what others may think, but they knew me for who I was not for something I may appear to be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuperMuffin Posted February 4, 2003 Author Share Posted February 4, 2003 [color=orange]Wow! Those last two posts were great!!! Thanx so much! You're right tho! I am becoming more outgoing and I've been on a lot of sports teams so I have made some new "friends". I like my personality now but I think I could make it better by not being so afraid of taking risks. I think I'll definetly get further in life if I'm more secure and outgoing!xox [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.L Posted February 4, 2003 Share Posted February 4, 2003 Hi, Firstly, bein a guy n everythin, looks do have some effect, but they are defiantely not everything, unfortunately its human nature. Anyway... About 3 years ago (14 yrs old), i had been out with about 6-7 lass's. All of which I asked out. However, durina summber break i decided to totaly change myself, i worked out, started doing the stuff i love, and became myself. Once i did this, i kind of free'd myself....from my old self, and it was such a liberating experience, now i dont even hesitate to ask people for numbers, and the confidence and self belief that people somewhere will like u, really rubs off on those around you, and you get accepted as a totaly new person...as yourself. Perhaps you should just try and be yourself, like a guy? get his number and chat to him, if your old enough just say "Why dont you take me for a drink" ... :) If you like someone, watching from afar wont do anything, get to know the best part of a person....who they are. Ta, J.L Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shy Posted February 4, 2003 Share Posted February 4, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Mitch [/i] [B][color=red][size=1] But hey--Shy did...=_=[/size][/color] [/B][/QUOTE] [size=1]Nah, I asked you to get married. Marriage and dating are completely different things. But I have been asked to go out on dates by women quite a few times. I don't think it's weird for the girl to ask the boy out, sometimes guys are more nervous about these things. -Shy[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Celia Posted February 5, 2003 Share Posted February 5, 2003 [color=0099FF] [size=1]Alot of people judge by outside appearences. Things like that happens and bugs me too. I think some people that are pretty but they are not nice. Some people that are not as pretty are nicer. I don't know, it just happens to be reality. But it's not for everyone, some people that are pretty can be realy really nice, too. [/color] [/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuperMuffin Posted February 6, 2003 Author Share Posted February 6, 2003 [color=green]Hey J.L, I doubt that I will ever ask for his number for fear he will either tell everyone or say no. And yes, I do know about him and his likes and dislikes because hes in my class and we sit beside eachother. I think its really just a fantacy in my mind that anything will ever happen between us. But I don't stand and watch from afar either. I joke around with him and we have fun, in school that is. He hangs with different people and is a lot more "popular" than me. I doesn't really bother me that I'm less "popular" I just know he doesnt like me that way. Thanks for the advice tho and I do talk to him on MSN so that helps! Byeza![/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heaven's Cloud Posted February 7, 2003 Share Posted February 7, 2003 [color=indigo]Okay ladies, listen up! To impress a man you have to understand that he is only interested in one thing, warm, hot sweet, gooey.... (ARE YOU SURE YOU WANT TO KNOW WHAT I AM GOING TO SAY NEXT?) ALRIGHT>>>>WARNING MAY NOT BE SUITABLE FOR YOUNG VIEWERS>>>> CHOCALATE CHIP COOKIES!!! Yes it is true, the way to a man's heart is through his stomach :p[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.L Posted February 7, 2003 Share Posted February 7, 2003 lol muffin, i added SSJ Chic to my msn, simply becauses, i thought she'd be a ace person, and i was right, its just a shame that when i've spoken to her, i've been p*ssed or stoned senseless :drunk: , but ill tell u, she may be stunning, but shes real sweet :smooch: oh yea muffin, i know your only in school, and u may be less popular, but find a guy, and do whatever u call it, kiss, get off, whatever, infront of the guy u like, he'll see u in a different light :) me and my ex do it in bars, then 30 mins later we both get asked for numbers cos they think we're "up for it" gotta love lose ex g/f's eh? :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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