Nim Posted January 21, 2003 Share Posted January 21, 2003 Ok, right, there is this guy at school who i really really really like and i would love to go out with, but unfortunatly he is one of those british weirdoes that never shows their feelings. I am moving to a different country tomorow, which meens everyone is saying good-bye to me at school. In the last few days of being at my school he is seeming to show that he fancys me. i might just be day dreaming, but who knows? maybe he does like me. He has signed my good-bye card in a very *cough cough* lets say, showing your feelings way, I wont go into detail. Anyway he has been very sweet to me, and has givin me lottza hugs an all, and seems VERY disappointed that i am going. I have got his number, but am really embarrised to phone him (don't ask why!) Anyway, what should i do? I am really to shy to ask him if he likes me, and am really worried that he will forget me! *sobs* help me plz. :babble: I will stop talking nonsence now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bing Posted January 21, 2003 Share Posted January 21, 2003 [size=1][color=darkblue] Phone him.Otherwise you will reach where ever you are going, and you will keep thinking 'if only...'. Ring him, and if he turns you down, then it's his problem, and you're leaving soon, so it won't be awkward with him or nothing. Just try your luck, he is acting like he likes you loads, so go for it. I know how you feel, and we've all been in that situation, and believe me, you will seriously regret it if you don't![/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GinnyLyn Posted January 21, 2003 Share Posted January 21, 2003 [color=royal blue]Definitely. Your going to another country bit should help to avoid any long term embarrassment, if any. Don't live in the "if onlys" or "what ifs". Give it a try, and who knows? ...though it'll be rough with the two of you in different countries. And I thought I had problems with different states. *grins at the person that is directed to* ;)[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeathKnight Posted January 21, 2003 Share Posted January 21, 2003 [color=crimson]You only live once. Might as well just go for it, before its too late, eh? Good luck.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhys Mayiessen Posted January 21, 2003 Share Posted January 21, 2003 [color=navy]Yeah I think you should call him. I remember one time this guy moved that I liked and I had his phone number but I never wanted to call him beacuse I was too nervous (I even knew that he liked me!) Anyways he ended up calling me...I'm not saying that, that's going to happen to you, I was probably just lucky.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delian Posted January 21, 2003 Share Posted January 21, 2003 If he gave you his phone number, then you might as well make use of it. No use letting it go to waste...the worst thing he could do is say no...but what if he says yes....If you don't call, you'll never know... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrist cutter Posted January 22, 2003 Share Posted January 22, 2003 You're moving to a new country, start fresh. Throw away his number and never give him another thought. Besides, the fact is, you're moving. If you call him up, it doesn't matter what he thinks of you, you'll never see him again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DKsAngel Posted January 22, 2003 Share Posted January 22, 2003 I think you should call him also, even if your moving you can be friends? like ken said..you only live once. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Semjaza Posted January 22, 2003 Share Posted January 22, 2003 I agree with Wristcutter basically. With someone your age, this isn't something I'd get concerned about. You might as well be moving to Mars, because most likely you'll never be talking to him again. I don't see a reason to set yourself up for unnecessary problems. Let's say he does like you. Then what? You're leaving the next day, and nothing will come out of it, which of course sucks. Let's say he doesn't like you? Well then you have that on your mind, which probably would suck even more... You'd probably never even know his reasons either. However, not really doing anything at all kind of avoids both of these problems. So... I would just say bye to him like you would all your other friends. He had a long time to act on this, and really you two shouldn't have waited til the last day you're in the country to decide to do something. Start new in another country. I know I sure as hell would love to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kent Posted January 22, 2003 Share Posted January 22, 2003 Call him and say you wanna hang out before you leave. Your moving, its not like you will have to deal with a worst case senario. Then, if you really get up some nerve, just out right make a move and kiss him. Your going to be gone soon and you woulnt have anymore chances. Just do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Celia Posted January 22, 2003 Share Posted January 22, 2003 [color=0099FF] [size=1]Wouldn't it be great to call him? I mean...it's not that embarrasing. Just call him and get whatever you want to get it over with.[/color] [/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hikaru Ichijyo Posted January 22, 2003 Share Posted January 22, 2003 You only live once, why don't you call him up ask him to hang out one last time. Tell him how you really feel ^_^ and plant a big wet one on him. Sure this approach, may seem a bit harsh and even brash but..I've learn subtle approaches died a long time ago. Good Luck! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan L Posted January 22, 2003 Share Posted January 22, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Nim [/i] [B]he is one of those british weirdoes that never shows their feelings[/B][/QUOTE] ... Are you implying that all us british weirdos never show our feelings?..? ... .. y'know.. I can actually see where you're coming from.. o_O anyway.. I'd just make the most of the time you have left. Don't bank on anything long-term.. but you never know.. just don't bet on it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Asphyxia Posted January 28, 2003 Share Posted January 28, 2003 [color=darkred]Well, since this is at the bottom of the page...I'd say its probably over. Did you call him?[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nim Posted January 30, 2003 Author Share Posted January 30, 2003 EEEk these days have been hectic 1.started my new school 2.somone has already asked me out (i said no) 3.tonnza homework! 4.settleing in and making friends so far thats all i have been doing, and unfortunatly nope i havnt phoned him yet so i have writen it all over my hand so i dont forgett. Actually i might e-mail him, who knows. thank you so much for all the help, hopfully i wont be as nervous this time! thanks for all the help once again >.< Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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