thoughts.... and questions that need to be answered.... any ideas?

[Cora Jane 2]

I have been hearin rumors about my guy... i dont know how i should broach the subject... currently i am making him guess, because i want him to say it not me.. i just want to know if they are true.

like for one....
"Does ---- have a kid?" first off i was like not that i know of, but if he wouldnt tell me that... i mean really... come on now.

i've heard a few others... but i mean really... if it is true... what would you say? to the fact of your guy havin a kid and not telling you... i mean i had a friend who did, but we weren't dating... ya kno....

one last thing... we are both really honest with each other.... and like i guess i feel bad about the whole situation, but i just want to know the truth, and possibly what other rumors i might hear... and yea.... i am making him guess until friday when we get to talk... or possibly thursday...i guess it all depends... ya kno....

well any ideas...

[Queen Asuka]

[color=hotpink][size=1]Well, in my honest opinion, if this guy really does have a child already and you're dating him, I'd steer clear. The relationship could end up being the same situation for you as it was for other girl. But before you make an assumptions, you should really ask him about it. You need to be straightforward and honest or you will end up with nothing but heartache...[/color][/size]

[treton_noir]

hmm...
*cracks knuckles and rubs scruffy chin*

having a child is a very serious matter. if your guy does, in fact, have a child, you, of all people, should know. if he would be one to hide something like that, im not sure if seeing him is the best thing for you to be doing.

on the other hand, if your relationship is as open and honest as you make it out to be, then you should have nothing to fear. if he is completely honest and open with you, you should dismiss it without a second thought. trust is very important.

now, he could be hiding his parental status to avoid scaring you away. but for a parent to be that ashamed of their own child...

i think you need to just ask him. if he does, youll know. if not, then you can just laugh it off, i guess.


*im not sure if ive helped but hopefully ive given you something to think about.

[Sui Generis]

Its 5:30 in the morning, why not....

Ok first off you have to remember as far as you know these are rumors. Don't act differently towards him just yet. A relationship is based on trust, once you lose that trust its over.

Does he or does he not have a kid. Can't help you there. Did he tell you he was a virgin or was he expirienced. If he told you he was a virgin, then you have no reason to suspect other wise.

Its really hard to give advise not knowing what the guy is like, but oh well.

Hm...I'd say just straight out ask him. Be seriouse about, don't beat around the bush.

Normally if he avoids the question, trying to change the subject, then well you know the answer. I don't think he will though.

But yeah just ask him straight out, that way you know you'll get an answer. Besides you're a senior, and you're almost out of high school. Don't let a high school rumor ruin your relationship!


I don't even know if that made sense or not, giving relationship advice with no sleep...wow I'm smart.

[Cora Jane 2]

well for those of you who responded to the last post, ---- does not have a kid! yay!! well i hope all y'all are doin well... i have to get ready to go to honor choir.... ttyl