Break-ups!

[BigCajones]

[COLOR=indigo]I've recently split up with my girlfriend and when the break-up takes place you can get loads of unnecessary commotion like threatening to get people to beast you up, which is all very stupid if you ask me!

*Argues with her right now* It can really get to me at times, and it's funny how after you split up they say they never loved you lol. Insults, threatens and constant arguements is it really worth it?

I just like girls that decide just to be friends it's so much better and I have more respect for them (not that anyone cares). I was just wondering has anyone else been in this situation or what happens when you break-up with your girlfriend/boyfriend? I suppose there are explanations sometimes like if you cheat, but I didn't I just got a bit overprotective, but I had the right after things I had been hearing! :( [/COLOR]

[COLOR=firebrick]This did hurt me alot as I'm very self-conscious and take it to heart when being insulted and threatened *feels hated*. I'm sure I will be fine (hopefully I will move on too), but if anyone has any suggestions or solutions to what I could or should do that feel free to post!

Thanks for your help and opinions on break-ups ...
Grant :demon:[/COLOR]

[treton_noir]

[QUOTE]I just got a bit overprotective, but I had the right after things I had been hearing![/QUOTE]
tell me about it, man...


anyway, splits are never any fun, but they do work out easier when people are mature about it instead of being the way you described. if she acts like that, let her go. just ignore her and let her make herself look stupid.

my best advice is "dont even bother with it. leave it alone."

[BigCajones]

Well basically I sneakily read a few of her text messages and came across quite a few where boys are chatting her up and asking for stuff .. enough said there. I was pretty sure that she liked them or maybe she was just leading them on, but that's still not good.

[color=red]Example- 'Oh I'm so ugly', 'You looked really nice today' blah blah! Also before she noticed I was reading them I read this message like well it's up to you if your sure you want to (he had asked her for like sex in the last message :flaming: ). If I only could have seen what she had sent him. :([/color]

I say to her I'm just overprotective, and she's like 'NO you just don't trust me I hate that and so on!' Then I hear she sneakily goes to the pub with this boy and others when I had gone to the cinema, because that's where I thought she was going, but she changed her mind. Yeah I was very suspicious as she had cheated on one of my mates in that same very pub ... scary! She said she didn't do anything and I honestly believed her, but she kept getting angry and then we decided to just break up ... Yeah I loved her, but I couldn't cope with that all the time. Yes we still have arguements and when we are friendly chatting online she still has a bit of evil in her just rubbing it in my face, but that's just childish. Would you believe she is nearly two years older than me lol.

Oh well there are plenty more fish in the sea as the expression goes and don't worry man I'm trying my hardest to ignore her and move on as quick as possible. I'm not trying to hurt her, because then I will be as bad as her, but she basically wanted to break up with me (for some petty reason probably, because she does like one of those blokes ... understandable with plain old me :(), but still she's the one trying to get her older mates on me, which is way out of place if you ask me! Hopefully she's calmed down and I can live my life normally again ... Oh and thanks for your interest *feels happy* :D

[Semjaza]

It also depends on how recently it is. People tend to say stuff they really don't mean, especially in the hours (maybe days) following the breakup. I personally try to avoid doing it, but I know many people that do. I'd just step back a little bit until things cool down and then you can get a clear grasp on how things are.

[Bremma]

My last breakup was mainly hard on me. My boyfriend wasnt sure if he truly loved me. I just didnt want to accept it. we're good friend now, but i was torn up for about a week, and I still get a bit choked if they ask if I have a BF or why we broke up.
The one before that was my fuat that we broke up... I cheated with that boyfriend with the one I just had. It wasnt intentional. We were haing out at one of his panrents freinds house and we just kissed. I broke up with the one guy cuase I wount feel right about staying with him and havng the other on my mind. He said to his current GF, a friend of mine, that he thought the relatioship was breaking anyway. Oh.. and they both had the same name.. odd, eh?

[Tommy Vercetti]

Lol the last person you want to talk to about relationships and break ups is me. I never seem to choose the right girl i mean for example i went out with a girl and it was going well then people started like flirting with her, a bit like wat happened to you cajones and so i like dumped her then she got these guys to come beat me up which was quite annoying lol. I then find out like a year later she has become a lesbian which i feel for some reason that i made her turn lesbian. I then get tricked into going out with her cousin which wasn't really funny lol and then that ends with the cousin telling me to F**k off. Today at school i was walking along and my ex girlfriend said i went out with a `slag` referring to her cousin. Well thats my story and i don't really have any tips on relationships but just don't get them to end like mine lol.

[Mitch]

[color=red] Hah, how sentiments but shallow our years...: Dodges punches:[/color]

[spoiler]I hope you move on and are able to piece it all together, dear Cajone-Man.[/spoiler]

[Bing]

[size=1][color=darkblue]Of course you can get another girl, you have Big Cajones! Heh, this girl, is she says she never loved you, is obviously not worth it. The threats and insults mean nothing, it's just her last attempt at getting something out of the relationship, especially as you broke it off.
And listen, if anything does happen with aggresive older kids, I'm here for you![/color][/size]

[BigCajones]

LOL cheers man it's good to know I have friends that care! I wouldn't mind getting beaten up to be honest 1. I can get the done in 2. I will wake up to reality 3. It will show these guys are real tough beating up someone 3 years younger than them, ooooh hardknuts! I also know this guy she is going to get is a rapist, so he can get in trouble with police for assault and that as he's 18!

Evil side- :devil: *searches for girls*