chibi_kunoichi Posted February 3, 2003 Share Posted February 3, 2003 here's the dilema: i like this guy matt for the longest time (5 years) and he went to australia for a year and wont be back till december 28th around. i really love him. around a week ago, i almost bumped right into cal (calvin) at school on the stairs and we were like 1 inch apart (our face) and he is actually the guy i love next to matt. now im just as obsessed with cal as i am with matt and i dont know who i like better. so now i got both of them in my head at the same time and its driving me crazy. its like that love triangle on that soap opera passions, except i dont know if either of them like me back. who do u guys think i should like better?matt is kind and sweet, cal is hot and outgoing. ill ask another q later. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragon Warrior Posted February 3, 2003 Share Posted February 3, 2003 Well, we can't tell you who to like. But I say go for anyone who's reachable. You'll see what I mean. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Posthumous Posted February 3, 2003 Share Posted February 3, 2003 [b]Stay with Matt.You say you've been together with him for 5 years.It wouldn't be right to break-up. Chase Calvin with a frying-pan and tell him to go away.Or you can use toilet paper,blender,pepper spray.[/b] just wanted to add a comic relief at the end.Funny right.What's that sound? Person:SILENCE. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chibi_kunoichi Posted February 3, 2003 Author Share Posted February 3, 2003 ohhh no no no no no, i havent gone out with either. thats how long i've liked him! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragon Warrior Posted February 3, 2003 Share Posted February 3, 2003 That's probably what Mztik meant. I voted Matt as well. Just because he seems more better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Posthumous Posted February 3, 2003 Share Posted February 3, 2003 [b]Whoops! My bad. Well all I have to say is it's your opinion. P.S does Matt or Calvin know that you like them?[/b] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chibi_kunoichi Posted February 3, 2003 Author Share Posted February 3, 2003 im pretty sure matt knows i like him since i said "ill miss u:(" when he was on his last day at school, and i bought him a goin away present and got everyone in our grade to sign the card. cal doesnt know tho.. prob, i did add him to msn tho:S he duz look at me sometimes but i still dun know if either like me, plus since matt in australia, i never get to talk to him cuz he around 15 hours ahead of me:S so when he's awake, im asleep (prob;)) plus i fantacize about cal more so that y im askin this q. i asked matt in grade 5 if he liked me. he said no. im in grade 10 now and he's really nice to me. i never hang out with either of them cuz they in completely different groups than me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Posthumous Posted February 3, 2003 Share Posted February 3, 2003 [b]So he said that he didn't like you in 5th grade eh.Maybe he(Matt) does like you, but never has the courage to tell you. You did some nice deeds for him.Instead of calling him or chatting with Matt online you can always send regular mail.You should express yourself in a letter to him.[/b] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amibasuki Posted February 3, 2003 Share Posted February 3, 2003 [FONT=arial]take a look at the list of things you like about them that you made. for cal, it just sounds like you've the the hots for 'im. whereas, Matt sounds like a nice guy if you've liked him for half a decade. I'm not sayin' to drop cal, but keep in mind that lust usually fades after a while. hope this helps a bit to coming to your decision! [/FONT] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charles Posted February 3, 2003 Share Posted February 3, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by chibi_kunoichi [/i] [B]i really love him. around a week ago, i almost bumped right into cal (calvin) at school on the stairs and we were like 1 inch apart (our face) and he is actually the guy i love next to matt. [/B][/QUOTE] It's funny how freely people use the word "love." :wigout: If you love two people, then the truth is that you love neither enough. But, because you said that you haven't even [i]dated[/i] Matt, I know that it's only infatuation. So, the obvious answer is, have fun with Calvin. Man! That sounded so good, I'll say it again. Two times for the good time, have fun with Calvin. How old are you? Fifteen? Give or take a bit? It's beyond me why someone your age would wait for someone they haven't committed to. Heck, you're not in a race to settle down yet, lol. Just [i]have fun[/i]. Plenty of guys will come along that you will like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen Asuka Posted February 3, 2003 Share Posted February 3, 2003 [color=hotpink][size=1]I honestly don't believe you love either of them. Love is such a fickle word, sometimes. But I'd go with the one in grasp. You'd just be sad waiting for the other...[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chibi_kunoichi Posted February 3, 2003 Author Share Posted February 3, 2003 well, gotta love someone in the mean time. so far i got cal's pic on the computer, but not millers (matt miller). ahh i dont think ill show it tho. its not a good pic.reaaallly bad compared to the real thing. w/e. in the pic his hair is dark, but its really dirty blond and he's got blue eyes. (hooootttttt :luv: ) this is from his profile "Oh and my picture is of last year so i may look like a little bltch in it. But i do anyway so it doesent matter hahahah" he's like a comedian:P loves to be funny. ill put up a pic of miller later. miller's got sorta bright brown hair and brown eyes and the cutest dimples:P and ok, maybe its not love i know, more like "god i like them sooo much!!!". oh, and did i mention that cal hangs out with my bro since he a year older? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry Posted February 3, 2003 Share Posted February 3, 2003 If matt really liked you he wouldn't have disappeared for a year now would he? Dump him and go for Calvin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chibi_kunoichi Posted February 3, 2003 Author Share Posted February 3, 2003 nooo k, his dad got transfered to australia and the rest of his family is going with him, so matt had to go with his dad to australia and i dont know if either like me, tho i did get a hug from matt when i gave him those presents for goin away. and cal does look at me sometimes. its not matt's fault he had to go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solo Tremaine Posted February 3, 2003 Share Posted February 3, 2003 What I would reccommend doing would be to wait at least a few weeks and then see how you feel about Cal. Going out with someone you hardly know is almost always a bad idea. But why the rush? Is it just to stop you from having the problem? This isn't something you should rush (although I'd say I have to agree with Asuka, love isn't a term to be used lightly). A year is a long time to wait, and I wouldn't say to drop everyone else just to wait for Matt- for all you know he could be seeing someone over there. Either way, these relationships are probably going to be temporary, especially if he's coming back. Then, assuming you still like him as much as you do, ask him out. Leave Cal for the moment until you get the true measure of him. But then again, I'm 17 and have never had a relationship before in my life. Go nuts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Posted February 3, 2003 Share Posted February 3, 2003 [color=#507AAC]Well, as you said, you aren't going out with either of them. In Matt's case, you've gone for five years without telling him how you feel. So what difference does it make? If you like them equally, then go out with Cal. If you find that it doesn't work out with Cal (and you've got a year to find out), then go out with Matt when he returns. You're not even in a relationship with Matt, so you wouldn't be cheating on him if you went out with Calvin for a little while. At least that way you can actually find out who you want to go out with.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mitch Posted February 3, 2003 Share Posted February 3, 2003 [color=red] I'm guessing you're around fifteen or so. I can tell you you sure as hell won't find true love at the age you are at. So don't use the 'L' word. It's much to strong for what you are trying to say. Just call it infatuation. The 'L' word isn't even yours to use in such this case. You love your parents, but that isn't truly a deep love. So really, I can't explain what true love is, but I can point out and tell you that most likely this isn't. So...erm...take Cal. Give him a ride. Here's to CWB: [i]Have fun with cal![/i][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chibi_kunoichi Posted February 4, 2003 Author Share Posted February 4, 2003 i did tell matt, in grade 5 tho (5 years ago) i asked him if he liked me and he just said no, although we were in gym and i asked right when he ran past me since i was sitting. and its not that easy for me. i am like an almost outcast. just cuz of stuff that goes around the school that is ****in ********!! damn ******* kael!!! he knows it dun make him any cooler by spreadin rumors 'bout his own sis:flaming: :flaming: :flaming: well, i could always tell everyone what he DID do (walk on the kitchen table bare naked wearing my mom's high heels:demon: ) so it wont be easy for me to ask any of them out, 'specially since the next school dance was cancelled due to discovered drunks at this year's halloween dance. so i wont be able to dance wit him or nothin. i have never had a real relationship either, unless u count online, then i've had one fo about 2 months that went really great till i broke up wit him cuz i wanted him to be happy with someone he could hold everyday and not spend his time at a computer, typing how much he "loves" someone (me). fine, how much he's infatuated with me. well so far it goin cool wit cal. tho i never talk to him or anythin, while i was outside for gym barely an hour ago, he was in the caff and kept starin at me (through the window duh) lol and he saw me jump up and down alot cuz it was -41 with wind chill and my *** and laps were so frozen they were stinging (damn winter foot hockey). im still wearin muh jacket cuz me so f*ckin cold. well yah, i'd just feel bad cuz my new years resolution was that i'd wait and not go out wit anyone till matt got back (dec.28) but i l.. i'm infatuated with cal at the same time:S lol u guys have to vote in the poll!! its at 3 to 3 and that no help!:P P.S. sorry fo it bein so long, i like giving detail:p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuperMuffin Posted February 4, 2003 Share Posted February 4, 2003 [color=red]Hey! It's me! The one with almost the same problem....well not really... I have never gone out with someone either and I like this guy who is in a different group than me too! But I would have to say, go with Cal. He seems cool and you may even forget about Matt for a while since he'll be away for so long. And if Cal keeps staring at you dispite the things your bro has said, I think you have a REALLY good chance! Maybe make an effort to talk to him more often. Who knows what could happen! You'll never know until you try!![/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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