J.L Posted February 4, 2003 Share Posted February 4, 2003 Well, we havn't got off on the right foot, but everyone seems to be opening up so to speak, so heres a little dilema i have... In 2 days a lass i have been with for about 5 weeks elaves to goto a different University in Manchester, now, i dont quite know how to said goodbye, and u'm kinda confused whether i'm sad or not? On the other hand, i have a lass who i could quite happily go out with...see the dilema?...i'm confused lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted February 4, 2003 Share Posted February 4, 2003 [color=darkblue]well, i'm not sure how far that is from where you are (not too familiar w/ england, lol), but if it's going to be a problem meeting up w/ her for regular visits, i'd say move on to someone else. you've only been dating for 5 weeks, anyway. not exactly a deep relationship here. why don't you keep in touch w/ her by e-mail just as friends? maybe one day you'll live near each other again & you can go from there. p.s. you've only made 3 posts, so why don't you hang around awhile & get to know us? there are a lot of really cool, nice people here. you just need to find a few you connect with. :) (the main reason i responded was to tell you that. you just need to learn the rules around here. you're new, it's no big deal.)[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silentdeath Posted February 4, 2003 Share Posted February 4, 2003 i'm nice and a newbie so easy to relate to any way..... i agree with Lady Macaiodh in the fact that 5 weeks is not a long relationship.unless you can truelly see yourself with this "lass" then you should let her know and you could get a long range dating thing goin on.otherwise go with Lady Macaiodh's e-mail thing. will you two be on my friends list? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kent Posted February 4, 2003 Share Posted February 4, 2003 Yea, Im with lady m on this one about needed to stay here. I used to not be willing to give this place a try, but after time I began to notice that bunches and bunches of different people were slowly showing me what a great place this is. As for your dilema... That is quite the dilema, I will give that to you. I would suggest giving up on it and going to see what its like with the other "lass." Personally I can tell you that long distance relationships dont work, but theres no one who doesnt know that. However, if you really love the one thats leaving, stick it out and see what happens. Love is rare, and I mean RARE. So just let me say good luck, decisions of the heart are for you alone to make... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.L Posted February 4, 2003 Author Share Posted February 4, 2003 u can add me, ya seem friendly enough Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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