Jesus Chicken Posted February 4, 2003 Share Posted February 4, 2003 Ok. Of late a freind of mine, Rachel and I have been fighting... Much to seriously in my opinion. But sadly she wants to make a big deal out of everything I say... For example, we were playing (my band) at a freinds of ours party. And rachel started playing music over the top of us. Without even asking us to stop, or to have a break... None of us were particularly impressed so I walked over and asked her to turn it off. She got really fired up, and since then has been pisssed at me... We worked it out just the other day... And something happenned to her with some girl at school today. Now Rachel is angry at me for no reason. I asked one of her best freinds, and the reason that Rachel gave was "Because" Yeah, so I ask what should I do about it? Sadly she is the "leader" of her group, all of whom I am freinds with, and to complicate things further... Rachel Is going out with a good freind of mine! YEAH, So what should I do? Tell her to get fecked, and hope that she dies in a crash? But she isnt talking to me... So currently I see no alternative. Li'l help? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duo Maxwell Posted February 4, 2003 Share Posted February 4, 2003 Well.. like I said before, you could talk it over with her even if it means kidnapping her and tying her to a chair or you could wait for it to blow over. You really should let her know that you don't have a clue why she's mad and you don't want her to be, and you should also tell her that if you have done something unintentionally that you're sorry. Or you could pretend that she isn't mad at you and act how you normally do.. though that's not actually a good bit of advice there.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted February 4, 2003 Share Posted February 4, 2003 [color=darkblue]i'm sorry, but, unless you're not telling us the whole story, it sounds as though she's being a total *****. also, the fact that she's the supposed leader of her group is pretty insightful. it's seems rather like the power has gone to her head, no? she won't tell you why she's mad. she deliberately messed up your set, then had the nerve to get angry about it, like she had the right to do that. she's trying to intimidate you... & you're letting it happen. i mean, what are you, a mind reader? i see no reason to cater to her, or go around asking what's wrong, or begging forgiveness. she wouldn't actually turn your friends against you, would she? & would they listen to her? i'd write her off until she 'fesses up... & if your friends desert you b/c of her then they weren't even your friends. this seems like a volatile little clique here. this just seems pathetically immature to me. if i were you, i'd be the least involved in it as possible. there's no reason why you should sink to her level. god, am i in high school again? jesus chicken, you are a really cool person, & her behavior is beneath you. besides, when someone messes w/ your music... now that's crossing the line.[/color];) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Harlequin Posted February 4, 2003 Share Posted February 4, 2003 [font=gothic][color=crimson]Yeah my brother...you slap dat ***** down! Sorry....but there were all those style comments you made in relation to Raven. If you want...I could talk to her. Otherwise, which it will be, my advice is this. Don't pay attention, don't let it show that it affects you, don't give her the satisfaction. If she's [I]anything[/I] like most of the females I know....guilt will get her long before it gets you. You being you and all, that margin is probably quite substantial.[/font][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JCBaggee Posted February 4, 2003 Share Posted February 4, 2003 [color=red]Geez, you think she'd at least ask before she messed with your music? She does like the band, right? Anways, like everyone else has said, you need to talk to her. I'm sure it's just some little misunderstanding or someting or other. --Chris[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuperMuffin Posted February 4, 2003 Share Posted February 4, 2003 [color=red] Well I also think you should just ignore her and act as if she werent your friend. She probly just has PMS or something. lol ya never no![/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kent Posted February 4, 2003 Share Posted February 4, 2003 In these situations I ask myself... wwjwd. What would John Wayne do? I would say it sounds like shes got personal problems that have nothing to do with you. Therefore, if you just ignore her and continue on with your life just as you had before (hanging out with the same people and being the jolly ol' fella you are) then she will probably pull the famous... "why are you mad at me"? After about 3 weeks of not remembering why she got mad at you in the first place she will resort to that, I promise. (unless she has a ton of ignorant pride, if thats the case she will just talk dirty about you behind your back and never give up hating you) That is what I would suggest, and I dont suggest things that I wouldnt do myself. Good luck, and remember not to let this ruin your life because that would probably make her all the happier to continue doing what she has been. (just keep on livin and ignore the sucker) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted February 4, 2003 Share Posted February 4, 2003 I'm going to pull a page out of the book of wrist cutter (who's views I don't always share) Give up, when women (no offense, I'm just speaking from experience, this does also apply to some men, but for example purposes I'll use women) want or think something, there's not much you can do to change how they act/feel/say. Esspecially if they act like she does. So ignore her. Or just like... forget it and act like she's not there... that seems to piss people off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen Asuka Posted February 5, 2003 Share Posted February 5, 2003 [color=hotpink][size=1]Well, being a girl, All I have to say about her is that she wants attention. I have a friend who is just like that and when she doesn't get her way, she gets super pissed off. And she thinks the world revolves around her. And I really can't STAND it, but what can I do? I just don't give in. Sometimes I piss her off deliberatley...but we're not talking about me, are we? Anywho, just leave her alone and let her do her own thing. She'll eventually come crawling back to you. Especially if it's the attention she craves and you don't give it to her.[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delian Posted February 5, 2003 Share Posted February 5, 2003 Your friend sounds either like a self-centred, disrespectful drama queen, or she could have PMS. Either way just ignore her and do your own thing. Soon enough, she'll realise you don't give a crap about her mood swings and she'll go back to normal. Personally I would demand an apology.:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stitch Posted February 5, 2003 Share Posted February 5, 2003 leave her alone don't go crawling back cuz she will stamp on u again so just let her be and if she comes back to you then tell herhow you feel and if she inturups just walk away its not worth hanging over her all the time just because she can't accept your opinions! stitch Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Harlequin Posted February 6, 2003 Share Posted February 6, 2003 [font=gothic][color=crimson]You know, if it was anything else, you or I would have come in and told the person to switch their parent's clutch with the accelerator. Well, you would have. I would have done the whole drain the blake fluid thing.[/font][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jesus Chicken Posted February 6, 2003 Author Share Posted February 6, 2003 yeah... Actually I have considered perfoming a little "Mechanics" on her car, and switch the accelorator with the cluch... Do me a favour and picture it, someone driving up, to a busy intersection, and they go to change gear, and speed off. they rush to hit the brake, and they attempt to change gears. Then they slam the other peddle, and the person (hopefully Rachel) in the passenger seat, flies out the window! yeah anyway I think it's sorted, and now she's pissed at my other freind. I think she just wants to blame everything on one person. For a while it was me, now it's a freind of mine. I have finally realised that she is an egotistical drama queen ***** from hell... And that I would be better off if she was dead, or even better, in Iraq *evil grin* Tanks for ye support...! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enishi Posted February 6, 2003 Share Posted February 6, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Jesus Chicken [/i] [B]yeah... Actually I have considered perfoming a little "Mechanics" on her car, and switch the accelorator with the cluch... Do me a favour and picture it, someone driving up, to a busy intersection, and they go to change gear, and speed off. they rush to hit the brake, and they attempt to change gears. Then they slam the other peddle, and the person (hopefully Rachel) in the passenger seat, flies out the window! yeah anyway I think it's sorted, and now she's pissed at my other freind. I think she just wants to blame everything on one person. For a while it was me, now it's a freind of mine. I have finally realised that she is an egotistical drama queen ***** from hell... And that I would be better off if she was dead, or even better, in Iraq *evil grin* Tanks for ye support...! [/B][/QUOTE] That sounds pretty hard... and probably not a good idea. At any rate, it seems that your better off without her... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Harlequin Posted February 7, 2003 Share Posted February 7, 2003 [font=gothic][color=crimson][I]We[/I] like the idea a lot. Applied to a lot of people... But we're like that. Egotistical drama queen bitches from hell aren't that bad....No further comment.[/font][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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