boothten Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 [size=1]Everything has gone absolutely [i]wrong[/i]. I went to a dance today at school, and it sucked. I wanted to dance with a girl a really, really, really *this list goes on and on ^__^* liked. The thing is, some other guy asks her to the dance and she says yes. I was ok with it, but when I found out he went to go dance (slow dance) with the girl he [i]really did[/i] like, I was pissed. The she found out that in the line, he said he was going to ask the girl he danced with out. The girl I lo ... like, heh:bluesweat:, found out and was ... sad. I wanted to kick his A** right then and there, but I didn't.:therock: What would you all have done? Forget her or not?[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silentdeath Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 don't forget her if she is important to you keep trying and never lose sight of your goal, her. will you be my buddy on my list and put me on yours? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kent Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 Dont forget her, just forget him. Shoot man, one dance is not that much, nor is it worth getting upset and forgeting the girl. (especially when your not even going out) I would suggest jumping on your chance next time with no hesitation. I also suggest getting a big set of balls before you try the above suggestion. (they always help) I also wanna remind you that sometimes people have an odd attitude when it comes to liking people and giving someone a chance. For example, if there is a girl that I dont like all that much, but then she walks up and says... "hey, I wondered if you would like to go get a cup of coffee or something"? Suddenly I will look at her in a different light and will most likely give her atleast a chance. This could be just one of many reasons that homegirl went and danced with the other sucker. Good luck and dont give up just yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cloricus Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 Yeah, do what Gokents said. Just go for it, if she says no you haven't lost anything. If she says yes good on you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 Jesus, you're 13 or 14 or whatever. You don't need to be thinking about love. Hell you don't even know what love is! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boothten Posted February 8, 2003 Author Share Posted February 8, 2003 I guess you're all right. I still have feelings for her and won't just give them up, just like that. I'll keep going at it, maybe she will realize how much I do love her. Thanx alot everyone who replied. Any more opinions? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lan21013 [/i] [B][size=1]Everything has gone absolutely [i]wrong[/i]. I went to a dance today at school, and it sucked. I wanted to dance with a girl a really, really, really *this list goes on and on ^__^* liked. The thing is, some other guy asks her to the dance and she says yes. I was ok with it, but when I found out he went to go dance (slow dance) with the girl he [i]really did[/i] like, I was pissed. The she found out that in the line, he said he was going to ask the girl he danced with out. The girl I lo ... like, heh:bluesweat:, found out and was ... sad. I wanted to kick his A** right then and there, but I didn't.:therock: What would you all have done? Forget her or not?[/size] [/B][/QUOTE] What the hell is wrong with you? You have the perfect moment to swoop in and take her but you're thinking of avenging some trivial little thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrist cutter Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 Girls are pretty trivial in general. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by wrist cutter [/i] [B]Girls are pretty trivial in general. [/B][/QUOTE] Pretty much, which makes him wanting to avenge his love's trivial betrayal even more trivial. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boothten Posted February 8, 2003 Author Share Posted February 8, 2003 Should I ask her out? I don't know what the answer would be though. That's the thing that's killing me inside. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lan21013 [/i] [B]Should I ask her out? I don't know what the answer would be though. That's the thing that's killing me inside. [/B][/QUOTE] She knows you right? Does she like you, indifferent about it, writes "I hate [your name]" on her sneakers? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boothten Posted February 8, 2003 Author Share Posted February 8, 2003 She doesn't do that, but I know she still does. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 [quote][i]Originally Preached By Transic Nerve[/i] Jesus, you're 13 or 14 or whatever. You don't need to be thinking about love. Hell you don't even know what love is![/quote] Yes. That is the truest thing that has been said here except wristcutter's post. You don't know what love is yet. Nor do many on these boards, myself included. What you are experiencing is unstoppable, completely uningnorable teenage hormones. They will control every aspect of your life. Dispite this grim news, I still think you make an atempt. You seem to 'like' her. Love is still a long way off. Having someone you like, however, can be just as good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JCBaggee Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 [color=red]Better try for friendship right now. She'll notice you more if she actually knows who you are. Of course, it could backfire into the "we should just be friends" scenario, but that's a risk you have to take... --Chris[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chaos Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Transtic Nerve [/i] [B]Hell you don't even know what love is! [/B][/QUOTE] And you're just the God of Love, right? :p Anyway, I would suggest following gokents' idea of asking her to have a cup of coffee with you...Or, be like me, and drop subliminal hints of gettin it on with her in every other sentance. Mind you, I do that with girls that I'm very good friends with, and in a jokingly manner. This was mostly for comedy. But seriously, asking her to just go and walk to the cafe isn't a bad idea. If you share any classes together [Current Issues would be a [i]great[/i] topic to strike up some form of friendship upon because you can see where she stands in the world on viewpoints], talk about that a LITTLE bit. Try and find a common ground. Be a friend first, and don't rush into anything. Be a bit witty and suave. You need to crawl before you can walk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 You're damn right i'm the god of love! lol In any case, not many people know what love is... many people never will. it's something that cannot be explained. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LiL_MuEsLeE Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 is there a law against 13 or 14 year olds being in love Transtic Nerve? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The One Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 [color=darkred]Hehe, I think he's just pointing out that, in his opinion, teenagers don't know what love is, and thus can't love, or don't have the mental capacity to. I don't agree, but...there you go. Lan, dude, as Nike has always said, just do it. The worst thing that can happen is her say no, in which case you have lost nothing. But if you leave it and forget about her, she might've said yes. The question is, how would you feel having missed that chance. My advice, go for it, even with the other guy there. ______ It is true, teenage love is basically just hormones, affecting our emotions, but can we really dismiss it from being love. Just because the reasons are different from those an adult might give, why does that make it 'less love'? If you try to explain to a teenager that what they are feeling isn't love at all, the chances are they will throw it back in your face and not talk to you for a long while. Another example of hormones... But the reason is because in the teen's mind, they are in love, and, in my view, should be considered as such, and not a hormones driven monster. **I have not been sponsored by Nike in anyway to make this post** [img]http://www.kanal5.se/kampanj/nike/img/nike.gif[/img][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jesus Chicken Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 ....... WTF??!!! Hey, man, don't worry about it. Just ask her out... If you like her, you mightaswell let her know, because chancers are, she will get asked out by someone else, or start to like someone else. So why waste time and let it become more and more of a probability... [insert nike slogan here] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 [quote]Jesus, you're 13 or 14 or whatever. You don't need to be thinking about love. Hell you don't even know what love is![/quote] [b][color=003399]True to only a certain extent. I'm only 16 and I could say that I truely have fallen in love with someone, which I'm certainly not going to go into. Love is but a word which is put to someones feelings towards another person. Where are the age boundary rules? Anyway, as The One said, you have nothing to lose by just asking her. You never know, she might say yes.[/b][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by LiL_MuEsLeE [/i] [B]is there a law against 13 or 14 year olds being in love Transtic Nerve? [/B][/QUOTE] 13 and 14 year olds are more concerned abotu sex, not love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boothten Posted February 8, 2003 Author Share Posted February 8, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Harry [/i] [B]13 and 14 year olds are more concerned abotu sex, not love. [/B][/QUOTE] o_O Okaaaaaaaaay. *slowly walks away from Harry* lol, just kidding. Indeed I have asked her out once before. She said yes, but about two days after, she broke up with me because "She didn't know me enough" *We talk about everyday, like she doesn't know me:therock:* Then afterwards, one of her friends said to me that she still has strong feelings towards me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.L Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 I'm gonna be a real twat now... I doubt you love her m8, loves rare, and when your young its mistaken all too much for a crush or large liking for someone, ur thinkin, this coming from a 17 year old is insane, not really, i take advice from an old lady whos 107, and her life experience are something we will never ever experience. Turst me, it aint love, if it was you'd of been doing a lot more, and your relationship with her would be much closer, you've just got a big crush m8. Just go ask her out, if she says no, then move on... :) Infact, i'd wager 90% of sub 19 yr olds who think there in love, aren't, as its proven, emotions are doubled and sometimes trippled when your young. So there ya go :):rolleyes: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 9Eagle7Dragon Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 Advice on women: THIS IS A GARUNTEE: MEN WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND WOMEN. PERIOD. SAME GOES WITH THE OPPOSITE. Think about it. How crushed can you be? It's not like you proposed to her and she said no. There are worse things in the world, watching Janet Reno for example. (Ok, just my two cents, but still...) Go home, lick your wounds, come back and try again. Bring the calvary. And like said above, don't forget her, forget the guy. ****, I found out a little while ago my would be gf was going out with a guy for the last 2 years. (Of course, I'm doubting weather or not the guy EXISTS, but anyhoo...) You really do NOT want to miss any chances in this (sick) game of love. You grow up to be a tormented 50 year old thinking about how many chances you missed and what you would do in hindsight. I ain't 50, but I got a dad. As far as true love, who needs it when your a teen? I've already figured this all out, so stay with me. It's like my motto: "Get your kicks now." So if it ain't love, that's not a problem. [i]How many people dating each other actually love each other?[/i] It's just to get to know each other. In hindsight, it is sooooo much easier for me to say this than do it. Just know that it's not hopeless, I've been there too. Hell, I [i]am[/i] there. Don't loose faith. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted February 8, 2003 Share Posted February 8, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by LiL_MuEsLeE [/i] [B]is there a law against 13 or 14 year olds being in love Transtic Nerve? [/B][/QUOTE] Now that you mention it... yes, being the god of love, i say there is a law. (ofcourse, you probably see this as my humoungous ego, but it's just my opinion, and no I'm not the god of love, so please don't take that seriously)... when's the last time you've seen a 13 or 14 year old in love? Do you know any grown ups who met each other when they were 13 or 14 and fell in love then? Not many I bet... Look, you like her obviously, ask her out. If she says no, well then oh well. She obviously wasn't meant for you at this time and place in history. Don't destroy yourself over it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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