liamc2 Posted February 17, 2003 Share Posted February 17, 2003 Good Gravy Jenna. Well actually [i]Bad[/i] Gravy. 12? It's starting to make me think what I'd do if my soon to be twelve brother died on me. Jenna, all I can do is say I'm sorry for you and I'll be praying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Posted February 17, 2003 Share Posted February 17, 2003 [color=#808080]Aw Jenna...I don't know what to say. I remember how you used to talk about your little brother on here. This seems so sudden and shocking... I don't know what I can say at a time like this. And I don't know how comforting my words on a screen can possibly be...if I were there in person to offer my condolences, maybe then whatever I say would have more gravity. I guess I just want to tell you that I'm here for you. It doesn't matter whether we are close friends or not friends at all...if you [i]ever[/i] need someone to talk to about anything, you can always talk to me. Even if you just need someone to be there and to listen...and to try and understand. I'll always be here at any time for that.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red Posted February 17, 2003 Share Posted February 17, 2003 [b][color=003399]I really just don't know what to say.. except to offer my condolences and say that you can talk to me any time if you want to.. I lost someone close to me in my family once too.[/b][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
black cat Posted February 17, 2003 Share Posted February 17, 2003 its really sad and i wish i could do more but sadly im almost across the counrty from where you are. *hugs jenna* everythings gonna be ok. i'm here for ya and if you need someone to talk to pm me. i really hope you feel better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Na'dou Posted February 17, 2003 Share Posted February 17, 2003 I'm sorry to hear that you lost your brother....I haven't lost anyone like a sister or brother, but I did lose my grandfather when I was 7,8,9? Somewhere around there.... I loved him, but I'm not sad he died because he taught me alot, and I still remember his teachings. If it weren't for him, I wouldn't be as diciplined(SP) as I am now. He was a great grandfather and I loved him, but I didn't cry when he died...and I didn't feel sorry for him because I knew he had not left any of us. If we remember our family and friends, and we remember the things they've taught us then they're never really gone. They're always with you! They pointed it out on Kingdom Hearts! And Celiean Dion's song "My heart will go on" Is also good to listen to. If you really listened, she's telling you exactly what I'm telling you right now. And like everyone said, he's in a better place. I know I may seem naieve(SP) but it's a true fact. As long as you remember the ones you love, then their hearts will go on... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JCBaggee Posted February 17, 2003 Share Posted February 17, 2003 [color=red]My deepest sympathy. I'm here if you ever need to talk or a shoulder to cry on. --Chris[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justin Posted February 17, 2003 Share Posted February 17, 2003 I love you, Jenna. I know you love your brother a lot(I can remember you speaking of him over the past year or so), and I promise I'll pray for you, him and your family. You also know I'm here to talk any time you want to. -Justin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yu Yu Hakusho! Posted February 17, 2003 Share Posted February 17, 2003 Dang! Your BROTHER??? That is close....I don't think I could handle it if someone that close to me passed away so suddenly. I'm so sorry to hear about that. Though it's unusual to hear that all of a sudden he died. I'm here for you, we're all here for you. I'm so sorry to hear about that, but all I can tell you is that these things happen every day. Everyone will loose someone they love dearly one day, be it tommorow, 50 years from now, or in an hour. You can never tell what will happen next. Just keep your eyes and heart open like you always do. Once again, I am so sorry to hear about that. Hope everything goes well in Michigan with you and your family. Take care and God Bless... *everyone in group hug hugging Jenna* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chaos Posted February 18, 2003 Share Posted February 18, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Meier_Link [/i] [B]Madre, I believe you have a problem with me now, since u gave me that childish little angry face. I know what I'm talkin about so worry about the topic and off me please. As I learned from these posts, this has happened before? where he stops breathing? When was the last time u had a doctor check up with him? You live in California, I believe. Some babies are born with a tumor in their throat, the tumor grows as the child grows older. In my hometown Dowtown Sacramento, there is a hospital that treats this tumor. But then again that might not be the case, maybe yur brother has a different problem, and I understand you couldn't have done anything at that time, but a child's birth disease is the parent's fault. No offense to yur parents Anyway, you talk about how yur brother told u many stuff in life, this is a fascinating story, it reminds me of Anime movies instantly. HAHA, I remembered how happy I was when my grampa died, he can't boss me around no more, and I have less people in the family to use money on. Do u understand? One more thing, everyone here is offering some help by replying to yur topic. I'm sure it makes u feel better that so many people care for u. Don't u feel special? Medra or Madre? calm down, I'm not trying to be anyone's enemy [/B][/QUOTE] ...You are a ****ing idiot. You're laughing when someone's brother, of whom she LOVED, not hated like you apparently did with your grandpa, died. Have some respect, moron. By the way, I'm a guy, and not a spanish woman. Any person with some common sense could figure that out. [Damn laps in memory] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Meier_Link Posted February 18, 2003 Share Posted February 18, 2003 how annoying, have you forgotten the rules of the forum? You've broken them. insulting me and trying to cover yur profanity with symbols. And talkin off topic. I don't go into people's profiles unless they were my friend, like Sarasan, and Madre is Spanish not French Why havn't the administrator done his job, I'm not gonna argue or reply to anymore of yur posts, u can say whatever u want EDIT: and again, you added to his spam even tho u could have just private messaged him, against the rules. I've clearly stated I didn't want to be yur enemy or didn't mean to hurt her, but you two are misunderstanding me. I have no respect for people that threatens me and call me names, that's really low and childish stuff for forum members. Take it to the Roll playing forums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phoenixflames Posted February 18, 2003 Share Posted February 18, 2003 I really don't know what it's like to be 3,000 miles away from your family, but I do know what it's like to loose a very loved one. My Grandmother was probably the most influential person in my life other than my uncle Brady, but he lives in southern California so I don't get to see him much. My Grandmother died the day after my thirteenth birthday, and it just shattered me. As impossible as it seems, you do stop greiving and hurting. Even though you still miss them horribly every day, you can just remember that they're still with you if not in body, then spirit. You'll see him again someday. I promise. If you ever want to talk, I'm here. k? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Syk3 Posted February 18, 2003 Share Posted February 18, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Meier_Link [/i] [B]how annoying, have you forgotten the rules of the forum? You've broken them. insulting me and trying to cover yur profanity with symbols. And talkin off topic. I don't go into people's profiles unless they were my friend, like Sarasan, and Madre is Spanish not French Why havn't the administrator done his job, I'm not gonna argue or reply to anymore of yur posts, u can say whatever u want EDIT: and again, you added to his spam even tho u could have just private messaged him, against the rules. I've clearly stated I didn't want to be yur enemy or didn't mean to hurt her, but you two are misunderstanding me. I have no respect for people that threatens me and call me names, that's really low and childish stuff for forum members. Take it to the Roll playing forums [/B][/QUOTE] Lol, first of all, they automatically cover profanity with asterics, in case you havn't noticed. There are younger members, and it helps sensor things; Medra wasn't doing it to be nice. Second of all, I have to agree with him. I'm not trying to make enemies either, but you seem to be making light of the information about BabyGirl's brother dieing, not to mention you were saying that you were happy when your grandpa died because you didn't have to pay money. That is the most selfish thing I've ever heard. You arn't doing anything but make Jenna feel worse, at least I would be, what with asking if she feels special and whatnot. Anyway, on topic, I have a 12 year old brother and I really do not know what I would do if I ever lost him. :( The most I can relate to, however, is my great-grandmother passing away a few years ago, which was a real blow to my entire family. My condolences to you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vegitto4 Posted February 18, 2003 Share Posted February 18, 2003 omg jenna i'm really sorry. i'm usually the one that says" it sucks, but oh well. " I dont know the situation, and well, id ont know. I'm really sorry. I can't relate to that yet, but i just want to offer up an ear that will listen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iggy Posted February 18, 2003 Share Posted February 18, 2003 Im really sorry you had to go through that Best wishes go out to you and your family members I wouldnt really know what it feels like I'm sure it sucks worse that I could probably imagine but anyway I'm really sorry for your loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GotenksSSJ343 Posted February 18, 2003 Share Posted February 18, 2003 I'm sorry about what happened to your brother I guess sometimes things happen that we don't want to happen. The closest member I lost was my mothers dad...my grandfather but I was little so I don't remember much. I hope you cheer up soon. Best wishes to you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
black cat 2 Posted February 18, 2003 Share Posted February 18, 2003 mierer do you really think people care if they breack the rules to stand up for someone they are trying to get to feel better? i dont think so. why cant you be a little more nice and offer advice to her? you might have been happy when your grandpa died but you just remimded me of someone in my school who i hate and when his dad died he was running around with a sign on his back that said "my dads dead today is the best day of my life". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Meier_Link Posted February 18, 2003 Share Posted February 18, 2003 syk3, yur saying that just so people will hate me, just like those other members, and i don't like that. You are one of them just misunderstanding me. You told me that I was happy cuz i didn't have to pay for his death? that's not what i said, and I'd be more than pleased to disrespect u, but yur a moderator. Lucky bastard Anyway when I asked her if she felt special? I meant it in a good way. I don't care what u think, and for the rest of u members that don't like how i think, just mind yur own business ****! Sarasan, where the hell are u Edit: Black cat, so u admit they were breaking forum rules, good girl. And I did offer her my condolences, I just didn't say so, i'm not another one of u weak people. And i'm sorry how u feel about that kid's old man. But o well, Cela V Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted February 18, 2003 Share Posted February 18, 2003 Here, I'll let you all read it from my mouth. Cut your bickering. This topic doesn't need anymore crap from any of you. Medra, I know you mean well, but there's no need to drag it on esspecially in this thread. Meier_Link obviously couldn't understand that Eric was disabled and nothing could have been done to prevent his death. As for you Meier_Link, I suggest you grow up. You sound like my brother... when he was 8. I certainly hope you have more maturity than that of an 8 year old. Your comments are rude, outlandish, and outright unacceptable here. If you choose not to listen to the MULTIPLE warnings given, then listen to this one because I, unlike them, CAN do something about you. You're a newbie (please don't waste my time if you got upset that I called you that if you are one of those people, I simply won't care) and you have a lot to learn. Your antics, or your behaivor, or whatever you want to call that crap you're posting, is not going to accepted while I'm here. This is your final warning, and if I get note from anyone that you have acted up again or if I read it myself, I will see to it personally that you are removed from here. Now can we all grow up here and start thinking before we post anymore emotional remarks towards others. There's no need to provoke anyone here and if I see it I will delete any further argument. I hope I'm understood. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heaven's Cloud Posted February 19, 2003 Share Posted February 19, 2003 [color=indigo]I believe I talked to you about your brother when I first joined the otaku boards. I was going through a rough time when I first joined, and you helped me get some stuff of my chest, ghosts that I never really cleaned out of my closet. I am eternally grateful to you Jenna, and I will always be in your debt. My deepest sympathies go out to you. I have a younger sister and I could not imagine what it would be like to lose her. I hope this passage brings you comfort, for it often comforts me when I think of love ones that I have lost..."When I am saddned by thoughts of my fallen brothers, I gaze to the stars and listen to their whispers of reassurance whistling through the wind." Again, my deepest condolences Charlie[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delian Posted February 19, 2003 Share Posted February 19, 2003 I am so terribly sorry. I think almost everyone knows how much you adored your brother and my deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. I pray that you will find comfort in the wonderful memories that you have and the time,(however little it may be) that you spent with him. You never got your chance to say goodbye but he knew how you felt about him...As long as he lives on in your heart, he'll never be truly gone. I know words can provide little comfort from the helplessness that you feel, but just know that your brother is at peace now... You're a beautiful girl and Eric must have been the luckiest kid to have a sister like you. Again, my deepest regards for you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Celia Posted February 19, 2003 Share Posted February 19, 2003 [color=0099FF] [size=1]I am so sorry... I can't really express myself here but I hope you feel better. I know it is hard to loose someone that you loved. But don't be blaming yourself that you can't do anything about it. Hang in there! [/color] [/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChibiV Posted February 19, 2003 Share Posted February 19, 2003 I hope you feel better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red Posted February 19, 2003 Share Posted February 19, 2003 [b][color=003399]I may be a little late with this, but please try and stay on topic instead of arguing. This really, [i]really[/i] isn't the place for it.[/b][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Meier_Link Posted February 20, 2003 Share Posted February 20, 2003 Celia, I'm pretty sure she's not blaming herself, she admitted it wasn't her fault by the way, i wonder if anyone here is replying to the thread just becuz she looks good, besides me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted February 20, 2003 Share Posted February 20, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Meier_Link [/i] [B] by the way, i wonder if anyone here is replying to the thread just becuz she looks good, besides me [/B][/QUOTE] Ok, this is getting out of hand. That comment, although not rash, was certainly very rude. Let me not warn you again. Didn't anyone ever teach you manners? If you don't have anything nice to say, please don't say anything at all. Oh and I'm sorry you are embarassed about being b*tched out by me. lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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