A baby...my own best friend, only 14.

[Lady Asphyxia]

[color=darkred]Okay, first of all, Solitaire, you are a dickhead. I'm sorry, but that is so insensitive, and I am so angry at you after reading that message. For goodness sake, this is a thread about his friend who is pregnant, and saying "Good job ****ing up your life." is [i]not[/i] helpful.

D*Star. To help your friend, I suggest knowing all you can about pregnancy. It's a scary thing, and knowing, or at least knowing about what she's going through is a big help.

She can't be showing yet. At two months, the baby is around 5 cms big. People don't start to show until 4 or 5 months. I'd say she coudl probably continue at school until 3 months or so along. That way, she can form a support system.

Support is a big thing. Try to do something to make her feel special, and show her that it doesn't change the way you feel about her. Perhaps you could organise something like a baby book, a box to fill with treasures, a picture book of you guys together, or something equally special. Reassurance is always good.

Hope I could help.[/color]