DuoMax Posted February 27, 2003 Share Posted February 27, 2003 as the titles says, i think i might be bisexual. I would like a little advice from some fo you people. Thanx. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kent Posted February 27, 2003 Share Posted February 27, 2003 Well according to my psychology professor, "every male has homosexual dreams at some point during puberty." Take that as you will. I can only say to be yourself, and that means listen to your heart. Not anyone elses. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magnum Apex Posted February 27, 2003 Share Posted February 27, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by gokents [/i] [B]Well according to my psychology professor, "every male has homosexual dreams at some point during puberty."[/B][/QUOTE] [font=trebuchet ms][color=darkblue]Eh... not true, buddy. DuoMax, be a little more specific in what you want to ask. It sounds like you're too confused yourself to even ask a helpful question. Just try to really think about what your feelings truly are, before jumping to conclusions. FACT: I've never met a bi guy.[/color][/font] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted February 27, 2003 Share Posted February 27, 2003 Not every male experiences such thoughts, and it just doesn't apply to males. However it has been documented as something very common during adolescences. I dunno exactly what advice you're looking for. Usually if you're questioning then there's not much to do but either be or not to be. Just to live till you come to some conclusion. Either you are or you aren't. Don't let anyone tell you you're not and don't let anyone tell you you are. It's something you need to find out yourself and come to terms with yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheShinje Posted February 27, 2003 Share Posted February 27, 2003 Take Transtic's advice, Just live till you know for yourself, Don't let anyone dictate your decision and you will be fine. It took about 6 years for me to finally realise, heh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cora Jane 2 Posted February 27, 2003 Share Posted February 27, 2003 [quote] [i]Originally posted by DuoMax[/i] [b]as the titles says, i think i might be bisexual. I would like a little advice from some fo you people. Thanx.[/b][/quote] [color=blue][size=1] I guess I just am wondering why you think you are bi. I guess I know many people who have struggled with this, and am wondering what you are experiencing to make you think that you are bi. I guess before I start rendering advice I want to know a little more about you and the situation.[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted February 27, 2003 Share Posted February 27, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by S@bretooth [/i] [B]Take Transtic's advice, Just live till you know for yourself, Don't let anyone dictate your decision and you will be fine. It took about 6 years for me to finally realise, heh. [/B][/QUOTE] lol, took me longer than that to actually come to terms with myself and accept it... then another few months to come out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChibiV Posted February 27, 2003 Share Posted February 27, 2003 When I was 16, I thinking the same too. I thought I might want to be a bi. Strange though, but I got over it couple months later. I'm confused that time, I think you're confuse right now too. Take TN advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted February 27, 2003 Share Posted February 27, 2003 [COLOR=darkblue]I thought you were just joking when you said you having trouble sorting it out! lol I was wondering, how old are you, what kind of thoughts/experiences have you been having, & what makes you think you might be bi? Transtic explains the difference better than anyone I've heard so far [URL=http://www.otakuboards.com/showthread.php?threadid=20887&perpage=15&pagenumber=11]here,[/URL] second post down. Just substitute "bi" for "gay." It would also help if you explained a little further so I can give you proper advice. Transtic, I suppose you've become the guru on this subject around here, whether you like it or not. lol[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Washu Hakubi Posted February 27, 2003 Share Posted February 27, 2003 I never really thought anyone could be absolutely 100% straight, even if there are no indications. I guess I'm going through the same thing at the moment, the only thing you can do is ride it out and see where it takes you. Dwelling on the idea will probably just make you more confused :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KittyLynn Posted February 27, 2003 Share Posted February 27, 2003 No one can be 100% straight because..because. I think that if you think you are gay then you are trying to accept it already, which mostly means you might be..did that make sense...:bluesweat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vegeta rocker Posted February 27, 2003 Share Posted February 27, 2003 if you have valid reasons for beleiving you are than whats the question? Some people assume they are bisexual for the sake of curiosity, not all, but some. I know people like that who think its fun and cool. And they just do it for the heck of it. But if you are bisexual than you actually have to have FEELINGS for other people your own sex as well as opposite. Getting drunk and making out with someone your own sex means nothing. If you can picture yourself having a serious relationship with any sex and be both sexually and emotionally satisfied then in my opinion, you are bisexual. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted February 27, 2003 Share Posted February 27, 2003 [quote][i]Originally posted by DuoMax[/i] [b]i think i might be bisexual[/b][/quote][color=indigo][size=1]So? Why does it matter? It really does not. If you are bi, you are bi; if you are not, you are not. You do not just wake up one day and say, "I think I am going to be bisexual. ^^!". It is just the way your are. Spend time thinking about it, weighing both sides of the scale; but really, there is nothing wrong with either outcome. And I prefer the term "questionably straight". ;)[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cora Jane 2 Posted February 27, 2003 Share Posted February 27, 2003 [font=arial][color=blue][size=1]Piro, how did I know that you would post in this thread... lol... ah well. Like Piro said, you are what you are, and people will have to adjust. Although you may have the thoughts, do you have the emotions? Just things to contemplate. But either way, you are you, and you don't need to change for others. Be yourself, and be comfortable with yourself. And I think Piro is right when he says, "questionably straight". That is something that I have learned because of him, and a few of our other friends... that is a good term. ^_^ But if you don't know, don't keep saying you are, if you want to be fine, say it all you want, but if you don't want to be don't profess it over yourself so much. There are power behind the things you say about yourself, and about what others say about you. You may not know it, but if you, or others, keep saying something is going to happen to you, more often than not it will... like people saying 'you are so fat' the person who has that said to them will subconciously change, and try to lose weight, sometimes it becomes as radical as an eating disorder. But there ya go, that's my two cents. [/font][/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genkai Posted February 27, 2003 Share Posted February 27, 2003 Hmm.. Whatever.. I think that's normal, I guess. How old did you say you were? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sui Generis Posted February 28, 2003 Share Posted February 28, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Cyke [/i] [B][font=trebuchet ms][color=darkblue]FACT: I've never met a bi guy.[/color][/font] [/B][/QUOTE] Right here buddy! Don't try to make rash judgements. Think it out. Use what Lady M gave you. TN does a good job at explaining it. If you can honestly say you'd be able to marry a guy and live with him, then you may very well be bi. Don't over pronounce that you are without knowing for sure. Have fun with life. Don't worry about it, don't let it drag you down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heartless Me Posted February 28, 2003 Share Posted February 28, 2003 There is nothing wrong with that. You are who you are, you can accept it. and if you can accept it and others cannot then the problem is not with you it is with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DuoMax Posted February 28, 2003 Author Share Posted February 28, 2003 Um..gee...all i can say is thanks for the kind words and stuff. i didn't even think the thread would get to a second page.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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