Kei Posted March 7, 2003 Share Posted March 7, 2003 [color=royalblue]For me, eh. I guess I'll go from the top down. Hair- A guy's hair is somewhat important. I don't tend to like bald guys, but it depends. I usually steer towards dark-haired guys, but blondes and other hair colors can appeal to me. It can't look all scraggly, though. That'll make me turn the opposite direction pretty quick. Body build & Tone- Well, this can vary. A guy has to be, you know, built, but not "Grrr." Um, like Brock Lesnar bulit. That's both disturbing and scary. Oo He can't be like severely overweight, but I do tend to like slightly chubby guys. This ish so cute with the pudgyness! I really don't care what race a guy is or what tone he has. It's just not important Personality- This is what's a biggie for me. A guy has to be able to have a really good sense of humor, as I'm often cracking jokes. They've got to be able to open up to different kinds of music, as I'm getting into new things like J-Music and such, so it would be nice to have someone to talk with it about. Someone who's gone through their share of rough spots would be nice. But they also have to be intelligent. If someone asks them what 15 minus one is and they still have to do it on their fingers, he's not for me. Overall, we just have to hit off. A good look to a guy is good, as first impressions are always important, and a nice attitude is good. All these qualities add up to a good guy in my book. But I think I'm going to be sitting out the Dating Game for a while, as I just got pretty burned here recently...[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Change Posted March 7, 2003 Share Posted March 7, 2003 My school actualy has a regular calculas class (with about 30 people) and and AP calss with 14...Now we are on the summation of infinite series :P Actualy the worst part of the advanced integrating techniques was not the partial fractions, it was careless mistkes :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan L Posted March 7, 2003 Share Posted March 7, 2003 I don't think I'm really that picky.. heh.. although really, appearances don't bother me.. I mean yeah, as James said, I, like anyone else, wouldn't like someone I wasn't attracted to.. I mean.. that's the whole point.. what I mean is I don't have a set ideal about what my ideal partner would look like.. cos it kind of varies, y'know. I always used to go for women either the same age or no more than 2 years younger.. whereas at this moment I'm actually pushing into the "a little older" region, which I found quite bizarre at first but hey.. it's not as if I'm going for a 40 year old (or even as little as 25) or anything like that (me being 20). but generally I like someone I can relate to. And me being me right now, that means ideally I'd have to have a Christian partner.. not because I'm descriminative of other races, but because you can't really get encouragement in your beliefs from someone of a different belief, or lack thereof. I'm not particularly bothered about intelligence as such.. not in the IQ area anyway.. as long as they're a decent person, fun to be with, and someone I can relate to I don't care what they do or don't know personally ^^.. in short, I'm never sure what I'm after, until I'm after it, pretty much sums me up.. ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mnemolth Posted March 7, 2003 Share Posted March 7, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lady Macaiodh [/i] [B][color=darkblue]11)[i]Judgmental[/i] straight-edger (regular straight-edgers are fine) [/color] [/B][/QUOTE] What the heck is a straight-edger? And just saying 'you' doesn't count! ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChibiV Posted March 7, 2003 Share Posted March 7, 2003 I'm very easy. :D -taller than me -Not too scary looking Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted March 7, 2003 Share Posted March 7, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Mnemolth [/i] [B]What the heck is a straight-edger? And just saying 'you' doesn't count! ;) [/B][/QUOTE] [COLOR=darkblue]What, that expression not used anymore? You know, no drinking, smoking, pre-marital sex... I mean, it's a personal choice, but I hate the ones who go around preaching at me. I went out with one of those types once & it was a really bad idea. He was always bossing me around. PS: Happy anniversary, Tori & Ryan![/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cora Jane 2 Posted March 7, 2003 Share Posted March 7, 2003 [font=arial][size=1]Well?. Let?s see here. What am I looking for in my [I] ideal [/I] partner?. Hmmm?. Ok, I?ll start with physical. They have to be taller than me? and I?m about 5?5-5?6. Umm?. I tend to go for guys with dark hair and dark eyes? I don?t know why, I just do. I like the hair to be shaved underneath, then long over it. But one thing I don?t like that when I have my hair short? that the guy?s hair is twice as long as mine? like I know when a girl has short hair (i.e. Punk, short and spiked) and the guy has hair about to eye level? fine, I don?t mind... but when say my hair is short, and the guy?s hair is to his shoulders?. Umm? I find that awkward, so that bothers me. Well I don?t care too much for hair color? but like I said, I find dark hair attractive? also, any color works (blue, green, purple, black/red streaked). Anywho. I do like a toned body, like in shape, and yes arms are nice? nice arms? lol. And I do like abs? why, I don?t know, I just do! Not to fond of tons of body hair? I don?t know, I just don?t like it. Although I?m not the most athletic person, if he were to play basketball or swim, that is just something that would make me smile, being those [u] were[/u] the sports that I used to do, and I enjoy doing those for fun. Also then I know that they would have a nice build, as that comes with the territory. Ok now to the characteristics. He would definitely have to have an appreciation for the Fine Arts, and participate in them in some way, either musical/theatrical? able to draw is nice to, I LOVE to look at artwork. Umm? I would be grateful if he could sing or play an instrument too. Since in all, I do play piano, guitar, and sing. Music is a big part of my life, so he would have to be able to get used to that, and enjoy it as well. He has to be someone that I click with also. I like a person who enjoys the same things I do. He also would have to be some one whom I could be me ? crazy Cora. Lol. Anywho. Well let?s see here? what else would be nice? umm?. I am also big with writing? well I LOVE poetry. I love to read it, have it written to/about me, and I love to write about others. He would have to be somewhat intelligent. I like someone who can stimulate my mind. I enjoy listening to some one who can talk with me about theology? although; I?m not really all that religious of late. But yeah, I enjoy discussing theology, and different concepts of the like. I love people whom I can listen to and just be captivated by what they are saying. I have a friend that when he talks, people listen, because they are captivated by him? lol? he is a really neat guy. I don?t want a guy who is ALWAYS happy-go-lucky, that drives me nuts. I like someone who is truly down to earth, meaning he has his up days and his down days? Like everyone else. A guy who can sit and listen and be honest is always good too? something that I admire greatly. I want someone, who is willing to talk when they are struggling, so that I can also share that same bond, when I am struggling, he will listen and we will talk. I want some one sincere. Some one who is trust-worthy is also admirable. Oh, and they have to enjoy road trips? I love them, and I love to travel!! I guess what overall what would be nice, some one with the same interests as me. They have to be someone that I ?click? with, not someone who just sits on the outside and is shallow. (Shallowness in a relationship bugs the hell out of me.) And as always, some one pleasing to the eye, yes ?eye candy? is nice. I like some one whom I could look at, and I wouldn?t be saying to myself? ?Omg, he?s so ugly.? He has to be some one who is respectful, who respects my friends, my family, along with his friends, family, and self, and me. And I can say? I probably won?t be on the dating scene for a while? this last relationship sucked pretty badly. And the guy, well trust was broken. I guess that?s more than enough for now, I think that I have rambled on enough. [color=green]~*~Frogger~*~[/color][/font][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrist cutter Posted March 7, 2003 Author Share Posted March 7, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lady Macaiodh [/i] [B]What, that expression not used anymore? You know, no drinking, smoking, pre-marital sex... [/B][/QUOTE] I've heard the term, but I thought straight-edge meant they were against drug-use and that's all. Never heard of it including pre-marital sex, but then again I'm about as close as you can get to living under a rock so what do I know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Change Posted March 8, 2003 Share Posted March 8, 2003 Hopefuly their will be people in college who meet the above said requirments, cause right now, highschool is a cultural and compatibility Waste Land. (I would have put a T.S. Eliot quote here but i could not find my copy of the poem, sorry to disapoint). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen Asuka Posted March 8, 2003 Share Posted March 8, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lady Macaiodh [/i] [B][COLOR=darkblue]PS: Happy anniversary, Tori & Ryan![/COLOR] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=hotpink][size=1]Thank you! ^_^ ANYWHO, about Calculus...we only have about 14 people in our class. Most of them are stupid kids that THINK they are smart, when they are really just trying to show off. This one nasty fat guy sits there and stares at me all class period and it makes me want to throw up. He also talks to himself and hums alot. That's definately the type of guy I DON'T want. His thigh is as big around as my waist.[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Change Posted March 8, 2003 Share Posted March 8, 2003 Sounds rough. Unfortunatly, there are no babes in my AP Calc class. So, back to summing up and testing for divergence of infinte series. :( High school has truely sucked for me. Although I'm 6th in the class with a 4.333 GPA (we have to many dumb kids to offer nice AP classes and honors classes). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Syk3 Posted March 9, 2003 Share Posted March 9, 2003 Ack, this is going to be hard to do, since I have never been in a relationship before, so I'm not quite sure what to expect in the way of what I believe to be the "perfect partner." Bear with me here. >.< First of all, my ideal partner would not smoke, do drugs, or drink regularly. I do not do any of those things, and it is a big turn off when a girl does it. I can tolerate occasional drinking, but the rest I just can't stand. I wouldn't want them to wear too much makeup, either. I mean, sure I like some on a girl, but a lot just doesn't look good in my opinion. Generally, I don't care about the race/skin type. I've been attracted to all, but I usually seem to prefer white and asian. As for hair, this is a real broad subject; long or short, blonde or brunette. But...I can say that I'm not too attracted to red hair. Of course, whatever color or size she wears it, it should be done nicely. I really like dye, like blonde or red, but not completely dyed. It would be nice (if they dyed their hair) that it would be in streaks, or something that otherwise looks good. Eye color does not matter either, but I would preferably like blue or green, which would really add character to both her eyes and her face. For teeth, I really have to say that I fall for braces. v.v The first girl I liked had them, and I suppose it just stuck in me. Her teeth should still be relatively straight, though, and not sticking out at strange angles. If they don't have braces, that's okay because it's not manditory, but it's kind of a plus in my opinion. ^_^ And for the record, I don't have braces, so it's not as if I'm looking for a girl version of myself. o_O Other items on her face (ears, nose, and mouth) I would prefer to be normal size. Not too big, but not too small either. For her over-all body, I'm honestly looking for someone who's reletively normal. Skinny, but not too skinny, and not big. Her height would fall somewhere between...5' 6" and 5' 9". I woulnd't want someone taller than me, I suppose, and not someone really small, either. No real reason, it would just be kind of a turn-off. She should be in shape; she doesn't have to necessarily be an athlete, but maybe work out at a gym. But then, I wouldn't want a big body-builder either, with lots of muscles, since that would kind of be pulling away from her feminine look. ^_^ Now for personality...She would really just be someone I can get along with. A sense of humor is a must, hehe, and someone on the same intelligence level. For humor, I'd like it if they would laugh at my jokes, and make me laugh at theirs as well; but I would not want the laughs to be forced, however, no matter who is telling the jokes. On intelligence, I want someone who understands what I am saying, but not confuse me every time they talk. If they liked anime and gaming, it would make the relationship all for the better. ^_^ But I know how hard it would be to find someone like that, so I wouldn't hold it against them, as long as they can tolerate it. It would be nice if they [i]did[/i] like gaming though, since it would really be great on multiplayer games. >_< Yeah...that would be awsome... On to music, I don't really care what they like. I'm not a [i]huge[/i] music fanatic, so as long as they can get along with what I listen to every once in a while, that's okay with me. It would not be good, however, if they listened to music constantly of a genre I did not care for, because, while I can tolerate it once in a while, the relationship won't be going anywhere if we can't agree on on-going music. Do you know what I'm saying? In conclusion, I'm not really sure if there is such a woman out there, much less one who is single and would be perfect for me. *sigh* That is why, to an extent, this is not really mandatory, as long as we connect and find each other attractive both inside and out. That's all that I ask...lol :angel: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Change Posted March 9, 2003 Share Posted March 9, 2003 How very true... Nothing that is ideal can ever exist... Can it...? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Syk3 Posted March 9, 2003 Share Posted March 9, 2003 :therock: Why do I get the feeling that your post had a hint of sarcasm? lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Change Posted March 9, 2003 Share Posted March 9, 2003 No, not sarcasm, I'm just a fan of the elipsis... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted March 10, 2003 Share Posted March 10, 2003 [color=darkblue]Think about this, though... out of the billions of people in the world, the odds of finding that "one perfect person" are pretty slim. They could be on the other side of the world & you'd never meet. I guess it's good that I like all kinds of guys, & don't really have an ideal.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silentdeath Posted March 10, 2003 Share Posted March 10, 2003 perfect partner? this si new! ummmmm i think i already found her. but she has to be kind, looks do matter to an extent, i'd love her to be independant i wouldn't mind being an at home dad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mnemolth Posted March 11, 2003 Share Posted March 11, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lady Macaiodh [/i] [B][COLOR=darkblue]What, that expression not used anymore? You know, no drinking, smoking, pre-marital sex... I mean, it's a personal choice, but I hate the ones who go around preaching at me. I went out with one of those types once & it was a really bad idea. He was always bossing me around.[/COLOR] [/B][/QUOTE] Oh I'm sure its being used. I'm just not clued up I guess. ;) I suppose I should say something about the topic before the sky falls in on me...:D Ideal partner eh? Hmm...well I'm not picky... She should be tall enough to worship, 5'9" to 6'. She should have long flowing red hair, a blaze of glory, a signature of her consuming passion that burns within. An endless fire that burns for life and love. Her skin shall be as virgin snow, soft, supple and sublime. Her eyes are sparkling emeralds, untamed gems as bright and fierce and independent as she is. She shall have the compassion of a Mother Theresa, the spiritual enlightment of St Aquinas or Thomas Moore, the genius of Einstein, the wit of Oscar Wilde, the imagination of HG Wells, the poetry of Shelley, and the soulful yearnings of Slyvia Plath or Virginia Wolfe. All in all, my equal in every sense of the word. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sara Posted March 11, 2003 Share Posted March 11, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Mnemolth [/i] [B].....All in all, my equal in every sense of the word. :D [/B][/QUOTE] [SIZE=1]I knew somethng was coming, but [i]that[/i] I did not expect. Heh.[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna Posted March 12, 2003 Share Posted March 12, 2003 Perfect?... Ideal? Sheesh... I really have no clue... I mean I like such a wide variety... wait that didn't come out right. What I meant is that.. I guess I don't have an "ideal" persay. I do have ideal qualities, but not a whole person idealized and everything. Oh well ..... [i][b]Physical[/i][/b] - Strong. I don't want him on steriods, but working out is important. *I* work out (haven't been to a gym in over a month >_<) but health is very .... necessary. - Average to tall height. Eye-to-eye and up, I don't want anyone who's shorter than me (I'm 5'4" so it's unlikely anyway). - Hair... doesn't matter. I've tended towards blond guys more than anything I guess, but I've found PLENTY of red-heads attractive, MANY brown/black-haired guys attractive.... yeah, hair's hair. Whoo hoo. I like spiked hair, too, but it's just a perk. - Eyes...... every color can be beautiful. I like Daniel's eyes; they're greenish... a greenish blue I guess, but a little gold mixed in. Very nice. - Clean-shaven and well-kept. I don't like the scruffy-lookin' types nor the greasy-haven't-showered type. If you don't want to/can't take care of yourself, how are you supposed to take care of someone else? - Clothing style isn't important. T-shirts and baggy (not TOOO baggy for goodness' sake) jeans are fine, a button-up shirt and khakis are fine, and a suit is verrrry niiice (for the appropriate occasion of course..... but a guy looks SO good in a suit). - I like a nice mouth.... a nice smile and nice teeth. A mouth that draws me in to where I go crazy thinking about kissing it. [i][b]Everything Else[/i][/b] - Morals are a must (and I use the term "morals" broadly; I have severly high standards, so I'm not going to be specific). Dangit you have no IDEA how HARD it is to come across a good, up-standing young man and isn't a pansy for it. But, I *have* met [i]quite a few[/i], so I know they're out there. Perhaps I should specify, since this is supposed to be idealistic: straight-edge and a virgin to put it bluntly, and by their own choice. - Smart. - A hard-worker, someone who is going to make someone of himself. - Isn't ashamed to cry. I ought to put that at the top of the list. - Humble, but not lacking in self-esteem. The perfect thing about the perfect guy is that he is not perfect, but he always tries to make himself a better person. - Trustworthy. - Considerate, compassion, all those other 'c' words. - Likes music, or idealistically loves it as much as I do. It's my passion. And along these lines, it would be nice if he was a dancer and an actor.... but with these would come egotism which I do not like. But idealistically he would be interested and perhaps participate in the fine arts and not a have a big head. - Overrall a sincere and loving person. But I don't want him sappy about it, just honest. And I want him to show ALL his emotions--when he's mad, when he's frustrated, sad, happy, and I want him to accept all these emotions from me as well. Well,.. I guess that's it. I pretty much summed up who Daniel is, with a few exceptions. I'll say it again: The perfect thing about the perfect guy is that he is not perfect, but he always tries to make himself a [i]better[/i] person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nichire Posted March 12, 2003 Share Posted March 12, 2003 hummmmmm ideal person..... I'm not too picky with phs chara... not at all really But one thing about them... When I look at their eyes, I have to feel all my insides quake and all i'll want is too hold them I like all eyes in general, I think they're the best phs part of anyone. ahhhhhh for hair maybe? oh man... all the ppl i like have different hair....... I guess straight hair with out any of those damned styling products in it I don't care about anyother phs stuff... oh! except! I absolutly hate guys with facial hair!!!! (with the exception of one guy) I want someone that could make me laugh when I'm in the darkest of moods. Someone that'll make me feel cared about. Someone with some things in common with me. Someone that can laugh at themselves and isn't self-obsorbed. And I don't ever want to hear negitive comments about yourself!! I want someone that, whenever I see them my heart beats a little faster, and everything that ever matters to me wouldn't exsit, and it would be the to of us alone, living in that moment. well.... I guess that's a little much to ask from some one... but i've found that connection with 3 ppl... 1 is my boyfriend, one treats me like a little sister, and one treats me like i'm the only thing that matters to him in the world.... sighs..... I hate my love life ~nichi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted March 12, 2003 Share Posted March 12, 2003 [color=darkblue]Why is it such a big deal if someone drinks or smokes on occasion?[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fate Posted March 13, 2003 Share Posted March 13, 2003 [color=teal]Ideal guy... Hair: Blonde, not long, and not too short. Height: Taller than me (5'2"). Weight: He sure had better weigh more than me (112), or it's sad on his part. Eyes: Blue. Unbeatable. Build: Not too big, not strangly muscular, and not hideously obese. Intelligence is a must. I like my guy to have some intellect, and having more than I would be a huge plus. I would like my guy to put up with all of my quirky obssessions with anime and video games. I have posters and whatnot galore, and I don't want him to be taken by surprise. I don't want an overly-social guy, i.e. going out to parties and getting drunk every other day, but I do like an occasional outing, perhaps weekend parties. He has to have a sense of humor, and realize that a joke is just that; a joke. He shouldn't take offense to a joke. I like my guy to be jealous. It's cute when he gets mad, so jealousy is a plus. He knows I like it, too. He has to be, to some certain extent, an egomaniac. I want him to tell the whole world how great he is, and then come back to me and smile in everyone's faces. If I were to pick the perfect person, I hope that every time I see him, it'll be like the first time, always surprising and just wonderful. ...and my heart flutters... No smoking. Period. Ever. I don't care if he's financially wealthy, because I have my own money, but financially [i]stable[/i] is what would make me content. He has to be honest, trustworthy, and da[i][/i]mn sexy. Though my boyfriend may not fit all of the above, he's still the perfect one for me, and that's all that counts.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DKsAngel Posted March 13, 2003 Share Posted March 13, 2003 ahh how ebil..I just couldn resist :D anyways Hair: spiky hair..I love..spiky hair..just love it *drools* but its not all about the hair though...even though I am in love with it..XD tehehe Eyes: color dont really matter, but they have to be nice to get lost in them Height: i like 'em taller, which isnt a problem since I am so short >>is 5'5<< ebil! Other Characteristics: well i dont really perfer guys who smoke >.< but i am open minded about it, as long as they dont push me into it, to me looks arnt everything, its just an extra, i like guys with great personalities, i like guys that can handle me and keep up with my weird mood swings, i also like a guy who can be mature and immature at different points.. and he doesnt have to be the smartest guy in the world or the dumbest, he has to be able to keep up a conversation though, i love guys that I can talk hours on end with about a certian topic..or none at all just randomly ramble about shiznit ^_^ thats basically it, I dont ask for too much I suspose, i never really had an idea for an ideal guy but as i got to be my age i started to think up one...o.o; Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mitch Posted March 14, 2003 Share Posted March 14, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lady Macaiodh [/i] [B][color=darkblue]Why is it such a big deal if someone drinks or smokes on occasion?[/color] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=red] Well, this is all opinion here. But here's what I think: Smoking is a huge turn-off for me. My Mom smokes, and I find it utterly and totally gross. Plus there's second hand smoke which I absolutely hate. The smell of smoke and the overall appearance of a smoker is not too appealing nor appetizing to me. As for drinking--not necessarily. As long as they aren't some destitute, alchoholic wild thang, then it's fine. A few drinks now and then won't hurt anybody. As long as they don't take it too far. That's my take on it.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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