silentdeath Posted March 16, 2003 Share Posted March 16, 2003 ok here is my problem, i've been addressing this in my blog lately but i need your opinion, there is this girl named natalie(a.k.a. cookiemonster74) i met her 4 1/2years ago in the park, ever since then i've liked her,after all she is cute! anyway i've told her that i like her but i am ok that she dosen't wan't to go out,anyway the other 2 boys are 2 of my best friends,1st Andy,andy and i have been friends since 1st grade when hepush a bookcase on me!:laugh:2nd is Spenser who i met in 6th grade,we are all in the same advanced class,natalie has been flirting with everyone cause she'sa flirt by nature!anyway she has been very closeto spenser,as close as friends can get,yet now she told meshe likes Andy!being the good loser i am i am trying to set them up!(A&N),spenser though latelyhas told me that he likes nat,last friday there was a st. pat's day dance,natalie,having already promissed spenser,went with him,she had though asked andy to go where he said no because he didn't wan't to deal with spenser,so at the end of the dance natalie take spenser aside and tells spenser that she likes andy,later that night spenser made a mourning blog,[url]http://tallguy2307.blogspot.com/[/url], my question is should i keep nudging together natalie and andy even though it would hurt spenser or should i make natalie talk to spenser and andy and work it out? your help would be appreciated! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrist cutter Posted March 16, 2003 Share Posted March 16, 2003 I would refrain from meddling in other peoples' affairs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silentdeath Posted March 16, 2003 Author Share Posted March 16, 2003 thanks but all these people are looking to me for answers and i don'y know what to tell them! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genkai Posted March 16, 2003 Share Posted March 16, 2003 Hmm... I would just tell NAat you don't want to get involved, and say thet she needs to figure it out herself.. That's all I can say.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silentdeath Posted March 16, 2003 Author Share Posted March 16, 2003 but i can't,i like her and if she needs me and asks me i have to be there for her! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Zeh Posted March 16, 2003 Share Posted March 16, 2003 [color=003399]You should go and spray Febreeze in all their eyes, and then cover your trail with more Febreeze. If that doesn't solve it (which it OBVIOUSLY will) You should proceed to meddle in their affairs and end up with all of them hating you. Or you could always tell wotserface to give Spencer-boy a chance... Ultimately it's all up to her. If she doesn't like him, why go out with him?[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Semjaza Posted March 16, 2003 Share Posted March 16, 2003 She likes Andy, if I'm even making any sense of that that thing you wrote... So really, why do you and Spencer matter any longer? Back off, let them go out and see what becomes of it. You all getting involved is just going to make things worse for everyone. P.S. - Febreze smells disgusting. Don't buy it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Posthumous Posted March 16, 2003 Share Posted March 16, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Semjaza Azazel [/i] [B]P.S. - Febreeze smells disgusting. Don't buy it! [/B][/QUOTE] [color=teal][size=1][b]*gasp* How could you say that! I agree with Tasis on the "Spraying Eyes With Febreeze" part. Pepper Spray works too.[/b][/size][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chaos Posted March 16, 2003 Share Posted March 16, 2003 Get them all together and then have them sort out their own problems. You can be the middle man, but you are by no means to take the role as a matchmaker. Or you could be like everyone in the clique of friendsof mine and have everyone date everyone for a week and then see how things work out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Asphyxia Posted March 16, 2003 Share Posted March 16, 2003 [color=darkred]Make them all miserable. That's the only way their all going to be happy. Heh. Honestly, it's a no win situation.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Zeh Posted March 16, 2003 Share Posted March 16, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Semjaza Azazel [/i] [B]P.S. - Febreze smells disgusting. Don't buy it! [/B][/QUOTE] [COLOR=003399]Never said it smelled good... Would you follow a bad smelling smell? *huggles febreze shrine* I think she's capable to choose for herself.... Show her this topic, she can decide. [/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted March 16, 2003 Share Posted March 16, 2003 It's not the mans job to decide what the girl should do or who she should go out with. (unless ofcourse you live in like Ancient China, which I'm pretty sure you don't) You're young, chances are it won't matter anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JCBaggee Posted March 16, 2003 Share Posted March 16, 2003 [color=red][size=1][font=arial]If you're afraid to tell her how you feel, at least let her know you're there for her no matter what. She may need a good friend right now more than anything, and being the shoulder to cry on is highly underrated. --Chris[/color][/size][/font] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cloricus Posted March 16, 2003 Share Posted March 16, 2003 [b]JERRY JERRY JERRY![/b] Just step back, not your job to do any thing. Sit on the side line and laugh when some thing happens, I don't care what happens, [i]LAUGH AT IT.[/i] Anyway just don't bother, they wouldn't for you. Eps - Bleh... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vegitto4 Posted March 16, 2003 Share Posted March 16, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by wrist cutter [/i] [B]I would refrain from meddling in other peoples' affairs. [/B][/QUOTE] I would concurr on this situation. Things like this never end up turning out good. Dating between friends is the easiest way to screw up a good group of people. I hate expierence sometimes. i agree with wrist cutter though. if they want answers, let them work it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silentdeath Posted March 16, 2003 Author Share Posted March 16, 2003 thanks guys i'll show her the thread but i do have one complaint... [b]i like the smell of Febreeze![/b] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhys Mayiessen Posted March 16, 2003 Share Posted March 16, 2003 [color=skyblue]Oh wow you have a really complicated situation here. You know I think it would be good if she decided...like the other people said let her see this thread. If you meddle in their affairs they might hate you for that anyways. Just let her decide.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heaven's Cloud Posted March 16, 2003 Share Posted March 16, 2003 [color=indigo]Why would you show her this thread? Just leave well enough alone. In any type of boy/girl situation it is best not to give advice or help that you don't want to give.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delian Posted March 16, 2003 Share Posted March 16, 2003 You have a situation that involves your 2 best friends and a girl. If you don't want to cause any conflict between you and your mates, then it's best to just stay out of the whole situation. The girl needs to decide who she wants to be with. You don't need to be helping her in any way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amibasuki Posted March 17, 2003 Share Posted March 17, 2003 [FONT=arial]really. it's the girl's choice, so I say just let her work it out. no matter what advice you give her as to what she [i]should[/i] do, she's probably gonna end up doing what she wants to do anyway. [/FONT] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Subversive Posted March 19, 2003 Share Posted March 19, 2003 Dude- treat them all as friends, which they are, as normal. Just stay out of the way of this relationship junk, it'll just mess you up. Tell them you don't want any part of it. Ofcourse this is what I say, its up to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silentdeath Posted March 29, 2003 Author Share Posted March 29, 2003 ok just to update you all she went with spenser and now all our lives are a living he** at school, no not really they got togeher but everyone is a little ticked because she did ask andy out, but he went on a trip to michigan and when he came back she was going out with spenser, slightly slutty Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Yokano Posted March 29, 2003 Share Posted March 29, 2003 My friends and i liked the same girl.(If your friend's bigger than you get out the Febreeze!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zemekis_ Posted March 29, 2003 Share Posted March 29, 2003 well, if you have my luck, bud, the best bet is to run like the devil's after you. I've had SUCH bad experiences hooking people up that the sheer mention of it from my girlfriend is enough to ruin my mood. And fabreze smells better than badly-maintained bachelor pad anyday! EDIT: Better idea.. just get out of town altogether. pack it all up. start over. :toothy: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phoenixflames Posted March 29, 2003 Share Posted March 29, 2003 I have to agree with zemekis_ here due to expirence. It has a tendancy to royally screw up great friendships. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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