Cora Jane 2 Posted April 15, 2003 Share Posted April 15, 2003 [font=arial][size=1]Is it possible to be completely weirded out by something that you thought would never happen? Well today that is what happened to me. I talked to my friend Zach. I also talked to a few other people who gave me some nice information, that I know when I see someone imparticular, they will be sorry they talked about me. *sigh* Ah well. Ya, Zach and I went from talking daily, to not talking, to talking again. He even called me tonight. I guess that is why my blog post tonight was a long. There is alot to think about. He want's me back? What should I do?[/font][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Semjaza Posted April 15, 2003 Share Posted April 15, 2003 Well I don't read your blog honestly. I feel uncomfortable reading those things. However, from talking to you... I think Zach was your last boyfriend correct? The one who cheated on you, lied to you and made you miserable right? Well I think the choice is rather obvious. You seem much happier with the current guy you're more or less dating (last I saw heh), so why mess that up? It already seems to have more of a chance than the last guy anyway. Otherwise, life and people in general will always suck. It's what they do best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted April 15, 2003 Share Posted April 15, 2003 Isn't there already a thread complaining about boys? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hikaru Ichijyo Posted April 15, 2003 Share Posted April 15, 2003 I don't know the situation but from what I'm reading....here it sounds like this is an on again off again relationship. Personally my advice (which I say now you shouldn't take unless your sure) is to move on to something new. On/Off relationships aren't healthy for a persons physically and emotionally. Not sure how many times you two have done this but...nothing really good can come out of an unstable relationship...besides...more confusion and probably hurt will come down the road. Though once again I don't know the full situation but if the case scenario from the top is the situation your in, heed my advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest dr.septagon Posted April 15, 2003 Share Posted April 15, 2003 boys are complicated? Every girl is like an enigma code with a different sequence! LOL :laugh: :mrt: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wizard-of-oz Posted April 15, 2003 Share Posted April 15, 2003 i'll tell ya what to do. come up behind zach with a stick. stick it between his legs while hes walking. he'll fall and you laugh. then if he says something about it, run away and sing the "bling bling" song. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kei Posted April 15, 2003 Share Posted April 15, 2003 [color=royalblue]Well, like Rick said, on/off relationships are really horrible and messy. A couple of my friends had some like that, and they all turned out for the worse. I wouldn't suggest getting back together with Zach, as probably you two will end up right back where you are now.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry Posted April 15, 2003 Share Posted April 15, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by ZxFrOgGie13 [/i] [B][font=arial][size=1]Is it possible to be completely weirded out by something that you thought would never happen? Well today that is what happened to me. I talked to my friend Zach. I also talked to a few other people who gave me some nice information, that I know when I see someone imparticular, they will be sorry they talked about me. *sigh* Ah well. Ya, Zach and I went from talking daily, to not talking, to talking again. He even called me tonight. I guess that is why my blog post tonight was a long. There is alot to think about. He want's me back? What should I do?[/font][/size] [/B][/QUOTE] That's so true, I mean why can't guys be like girls, completely straightforward and never complicated. Oh wait... As for going back to him, don't. He'll have the impression that no matter what he does you will be crawling back to him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarkM Posted April 15, 2003 Share Posted April 15, 2003 Second Times are usually better in my oppion, i think you should give Zach one more chance.But its your personal choice, if you still have feelings for him then go for it, but if not...then dont. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest dr.septagon Posted April 16, 2003 Share Posted April 16, 2003 Kill him and make it look like an accident, then you will no longer have any guy problems...jokin Go up to him and start singing 'its over, its over now, mover over...' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wintermute Posted April 16, 2003 Share Posted April 16, 2003 I had a messy time recently with an on/off thing. I would definately advise not doing it. Whatever broke you up the first time will likely resurface in some form or another, and it won't be pretty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Crimson Spider Posted April 16, 2003 Share Posted April 16, 2003 Ever seen the movie House Guest? Something like what that gothic daughter going through. I say no, but don't listen to me because I have had no experience with relationships. They're more complex then a logerithmic binary. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cora Jane 2 Posted April 16, 2003 Author Share Posted April 16, 2003 [font=arial][size=1] [i]Quoted by dr.septagon [/i][QUOTE] boys are complicated? Every girl is like an enigma code with a different sequence! LOL [/QUOTE] True, girls are complicated, but I must say that boys as well are like codes, some of them are unbreakable. [i]Quoted by Harry[/i][QUOTE]That's so true, I mean why can't guys be like girls, completely straightforward and never complicated. Oh wait... As for going back to him, don't. He'll have the impression that no matter what he does you will be crawling back to him. [/QUOTE] Now wait a second here... boys, well in my experience have a habbit of not being straight forward. Some girls are straight forward, I know I am. And as for me crawing back to him, hell no. I am gonna make him work to get me back. Damn. I ain't that dumb. I may have a few things that I do, but sh*t I am not gonna go crawling back, he c an come crawling back to me! [i]Quoted by hot head[/i][quote]Second Times are usually better in my oppion, i think you should give Zach one more chance.But its your personal choice, if you still have feelings for him then go for it, but if not...then dont. [/quote] Hot head, I must agree with you there, but I don't know if I want to start from square 1 again. But I might. We'll see. To everyone else thanks for the replies. I guess I am thinking. But I know that I am not gonna go back unless he works for it first. So yah, I guess that things will work out one way or another. We will just have to see. Peace Out!! ~*~Frogger~*~ [/font][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry Posted April 17, 2003 Share Posted April 17, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by ZxFrOgGie13 [/i] [B] [i]Quoted by Harry[/i] Now wait a second here... boys, well in my experience have a habbit of not being straight forward. Some girls are straight forward, I know I am. And as for me crawing back to him, hell no. I am gonna make him work to get me back. Damn. I ain't that dumb. I may have a few things that I do, but sh*t I am not gonna go crawling back, he c an come crawling back to me![/B][/QUOTE] That's the way you see it, but the way he will see it is that you are crawling back. I mean, first he cheats on you, then he says he's sorry, and then you come back. He'll either feel like he can do whatever, or he will actually be sorry and wont' do anything like that again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cora Jane 2 Posted April 18, 2003 Author Share Posted April 18, 2003 [font=arial][size=1]Harry, see I don't really know you, but still, I think you are right when you say that "He'll either feel like he can do whatever, or he will actually be sorry and wont' do anything like that again." Personally I am hoping for the better. But I do know one thing, I gave him fair warning that if he does mess with me again, that if he pulls something, that he better be good in fights. I mean... did I say that out loud... But yeah, I am not one to get screwed over twice, and if/when that happens, all hell breaks loose. Let's put it this way, I learned to fight, and I got some good connections. Lol. Anywho. I'm done rambling for now. [/font][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hikaru Kaiba Posted April 19, 2003 Share Posted April 19, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by dr.septagon [/i] [B]boys are complicated? Every girl is like an enigma code with a different sequence! LOL :laugh: :mrt: [/B][/QUOTE] My thoughts exactly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Asphyxia Posted April 22, 2003 Share Posted April 22, 2003 [color=darkred]Heh. Well, it really depends more on if you still want him. If you do, you're going to muck up your current relationship, considering you're looking at another guy. But you'd need to be careful that you're not going to do something that will make it look like you're crawling back. Wait for a while. Let him beg, I suppose. Just something that will reassure you that he doesn't think you're a dog, and that if he whistles, you'll come back. Honestly, you're a pretty strong person, from what I know about you, so chances are you already know what you're going to do. Let us know how it turns out.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cora Jane 2 Posted April 23, 2003 Author Share Posted April 23, 2003 [font=arial][size=1]Well as for me and Dan, things are history there. He finally got the nerve to ask one of our good friends out. Which took him alot of nerve. I know that I am definately going to make sure I do not seem that I am crawling back. He is actually working his way back to me... *smiles* Anywho. I know to some that may seem harsh, but hell, he is the one that is wanting me back oh so badly.... lol. But yah, I think we [b]might[/b] hook back up... but I know one thing.... I don't like getting screwed over twice... and well I'm not exactly that nice of a person when that happens... on second chances especially. *sigh* Ah well... life goes on.[/font][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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