Amphion Posted May 15, 2003 Share Posted May 15, 2003 Okay, im not going to front or anything, I have only kissed a girl like twice. Deal is, Im in a relationship with a girl now that i really really care about, you know like the ones that scare you to death. I want to kiss her so bad but i just dont know how to make the move you know. Im scared of doing something that she doesnt like or at a time she doesnt want to and all. I just dont know how to do it, every time i get that chance i choke. Any advice? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted May 15, 2003 Share Posted May 15, 2003 Shove those anxiety filled feelings into a little bag, and chuck them into a river. Believe me, if she likes you as much as you like her the gesture will be a welcomed thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heaven's Cloud Posted May 15, 2003 Share Posted May 15, 2003 [color=indigo]Well, Amphion, according to your profile you are a seventeen year old guy. Dude, grow some "used in this context the intended word is a curse word, please use your imagination"!!! Kiss the girl. If she doesn't want you to kiss her then you may have one of two problems. 1. You suck at kissing, but practice makes perfect 2. She doesn't like you, so find another girlfriend More than likely she is waiting for you to remove your head from your read and pucker up. Good luck.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaola Su Posted May 15, 2003 Share Posted May 15, 2003 Well, as a chic, the first kiss is the best, and I know I love it when the day of spending time together is over and when you walk her out to the car, or to her door, etc. Just really slowly, hesitating a little bit, move in to kiss her really softly! She should love it! It is very romantic!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted May 15, 2003 Share Posted May 15, 2003 [size=1]Heh, I never have had to worry about this... I always let her make the first move when it came to things like this. So I do not think I can be of too much help here. Just do what you want to do, when you want to do it, and how you want to get it done.[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klinanime1 Posted May 15, 2003 Share Posted May 15, 2003 I may be a girl with romantic tendencies, but a kiss...? How long have you been dating is the main question, and how she feels. Just don't pull it on her out of nowhere. Trust me on that one, 'cause the guy who suddenly kissed my friend hasn't been walking straight for a week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arkadyz Posted May 15, 2003 Share Posted May 15, 2003 [size=1][color=teal][i]Well i hate to sound like a jerk and all but...Just suck it up dude and lean in and go for it. It really is as simple as that. If she likes you it wont matter at all if you suck at it the first time cause first are always special...Thats one of the magical things of a new relationship...Doesnt matter how much you screw up things cause there all firsts :devil: So what ya waiting for eh? Just go for it...Ya only live once you know :demon: [/i][/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cloricus Posted May 15, 2003 Share Posted May 15, 2003 What PiroMunkie said may sound stupid, but it works. Or at least for me... 0_o;!? It?s easy, simple and that way everyone is happy. If you?re really worried just ask if you can, but just ask in a normal way. You don't want to sound like a desperate wa... (<-- you know the word!) If she says no, try again a few weeks/month later, that way you don?t make a fool of yourself and your both clear with what you think/want. Patience. Eps - Peace out! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justin Posted May 15, 2003 Share Posted May 15, 2003 If you want to kiss her, kiss her. It's as simple as that. -Justin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Harlequin Posted May 15, 2003 Share Posted May 15, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Ravenstorture [/i] [B][color=darkgreen][font=gothic]Well, you have to practice for a while before you perfect the art. I think we've done that. [b]How To Spot A Professional Kisser (or Ravenstorture and Harlequin's Guide to Perfect Kissing) [/b] [i]This only applies in public - in private, it is entirely up to you and your partner/s.[/i] - kisses are completely silent, no matter how deep they're going - kissers remain dry after event, there is no wiping of mouths on sleeves or licking of lips - they can remain kissing for anything up to and even over an hour, and there ISN'T a circle of people standing around them screaming something about a crowbar - kisses are often short in public, out of consideration for people who consider kissing a thing of married couples - no pawing of the other person's face, and no grabbing of their partner's head to push their faces closer (this is painful most times) - hands and body relaxed - mouth contact is not broken frequently - usually no tounges are observed of either person - mouths only open enough to convey passion, not catch a soccer ball - no sudden or quick movements - if you can hear moaning, they probably don't know they're not alone - professional kissers ALWAYS know who is within range of vision - quick, momentary kisses are recieved without gasping, swooning or anything more than a slight smile - a small kiss will not distract the giver or the reciever, if executed properly - Kisses are placed on hands and face ONLY in public And the most important one... - kissers always think of the people around them first. People have been punched in the face for kissing in public.[/font][/color] [/B][/QUOTE] [font=gothic][color=crimson]I know that doesn't really help with making the first move, but they're still great pointers. As for making the move...just look into her eyes for a good thirty seconds without saying anything and if she has half a brain she'll get the point.[/font][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zanarkand Abes Posted May 15, 2003 Share Posted May 15, 2003 Just go for it. If you really care about her and she knows it, then it won't upset her or scare her off. Fact is, she might be wanting you to do it. So do it or it will eat you inside untill you do. I know I have been there with my last girlfriend, and once I kissed her, I felt a lot better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Voodookanaka Posted May 15, 2003 Share Posted May 15, 2003 play that disney song, where its all like, gon on and kiss the girl, just to make urself scared even more so. kissing is one of the easiest and most natural things to do, dont pressurise it, jst get touchy feely. Someday ull be like me thinkin bout makin posts saying, i need someay to stop me kissing this girl..... o_O Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amphion Posted May 16, 2003 Author Share Posted May 16, 2003 thanx everyone. But see my case is a little complicated. We have been best friends for several years, and now that we are finally together it still feels a little ackward cause we have both been more like a brother/sister to the other. Thanxs again for all your advice, Its her birthday today so...yeah, ill try and let you know what happens. thanx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Posted May 16, 2003 Share Posted May 16, 2003 [color=#808080]CM, please quit posting with the cApItAlS thing. It's very annoying. I recommend reading our rules, so that you're aware of the quality we expect to see at OtakuBoards. There is a really simple solution to this. Just ask her if you can kiss her. Simple. No need for these fifty step plans and stuff - everyone is different anyway, so they won't always work. Just ask her if you can kiss her. If she wants to, she'll say yes. Otherwise, at least you won't have made a fool of yourself by moving in without her permission.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zanarkand Abes Posted May 16, 2003 Share Posted May 16, 2003 I have to disagree with you James. All of my girlfriends have warned me not to because it makes it somewhat weird. They tell me to just go in and let fate decide. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baron Samedi Posted May 17, 2003 Share Posted May 17, 2003 i have never kissed a girl so ur way ahead of me. from what iv read here the best advice posts are..."I know that doesn't really help with making the first move, but they're still great pointers. As for making the move...just look into her eyes for a good thirty seconds without saying anything and if she has half a brain she'll get the point"(The harlequin) and "Just go for it. If you really care about her and she knows it, then it won't upset her or scare her off. Fact is, she might be wanting you to do it. So do it or it will eat you inside untill you do. I know I have been there with my last girlfriend, and once I kissed her, I felt a lot better" (Zanarkand Abes). and when u do please tell me wot it is like...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Epitome Posted May 17, 2003 Share Posted May 17, 2003 I used to be the same way until I made out with my ex like just before we broke up. You;ll know when shes ready because she shows signs like maybe talking about it or even ask her friends to to talk to you about. You can do it!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red Posted May 17, 2003 Share Posted May 17, 2003 [b][size=1]I agree with James entirely. Just ask - there's no harm in doing so.[/b][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pressure Posted May 17, 2003 Share Posted May 17, 2003 [color=purple][size=1]Zanarkand Abes.. I agree with James.. And being a girl.. Who's been asked to be kissed before.. I've got no problem with it.. Sure.. It may be a bit odd the first time.. But if she really cares.. Then she won't mind.. In fact.. She'll hopefully think it's sweet and rather valiant of you.. ;) *Side Note* Yay.. Voodoo is back! -has a fan girl attack- :twitch: -tackles-[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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