Yoshi Posted June 7, 2003 Share Posted June 7, 2003 James is right. There are a bunch of people out there who are perfect people. Soulmates are not limited to 2 people and its absurd to consider that. And soulmates aren't limited to lovers, first and foremost they are kindered spirits. The whole "love at first sight" deal? Only works if one or both are attracted to each other at first site and work to make it work (beautiful english, bleh.) the thing about love is that everyone in the world has his/her own little definition of love that differs from the non-existant but much sought after norm. This means people love in different ways, people act in different ways, soulmates exist in different ways. The problem with dreams (especcially this idealized crap of one soulmate etc etc) is that it gives too many people an easy way out of struggling but viable relationships and it tends to cause others to ignore people right in front of them. To a point, soulmates are made not born. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XeEmO Posted June 8, 2003 Share Posted June 8, 2003 I think that there are certian people that will get along very well with each other. There are probably plenty of people in this world for everyone. What i'm getting at is I think that everyone has more than one person that they would feel completed them. So no I don't believe that there is ONE perfect person out there for everyone, but I think there is at least one type of person that you would get along with very well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XTreme777 Posted June 14, 2003 Share Posted June 14, 2003 There might be such thing. Who knows?:blowingup Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KittyLynn Posted June 14, 2003 Share Posted June 14, 2003 [SIZE=1][COLOR=dodgerblue]Well I think that there are people out there that you are very compatible with or totally not. Just when people meet those "compatible" people. They think they were destined. They might be, they might not be. As Yoshi said,"Soulmates are created, not born". I think this is true because, the more you find out about a person and such you start to "create" a perfect person in such a way. Did that make any sense? Well anywho..Thats just my two cents. ^^;;KittyLynn[/COLOR][/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna Posted June 14, 2003 Share Posted June 14, 2003 Don't believe in soulmates. I agree with a lot of what James said. Basically it's logical that there are a lot of people that you could "connect" well with. And out of that bunch is a handful that you could develop strong relationships with. Depending on who and how many people you happen to come in contact with you can find a really good person to spend your life with. From there on out, of course, it's up to them to make it work. A lot of the problem relating to the high divorce rate is that too many people maintain a fantasy of finding the "perfect" person and therefore having the "perfect" relationship, and they sit back and just *expect* the relationship to just work out for itself. No matter the circumstances, relationships are like plants: if you don't ALWAYS take care of it, it will wither, and evenutally die. And the ironic thing is that there was nothing wrong with the 'plant' itself, yet the two involved in the relationship deny the part they had in slowly killing it, so they chalk it up to, 'oh, it just wasn't meant to be.' Anyway, I think I've made my point and then some, so I'm shutting up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emme888 Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 I think there are no such things as Soulmates....I think it's insane to think there's one and only one person for you. I think there are tons of people that are compatible to one's own personality and that it's only a matter of finding that most compatible one for you. And there is no such thing as love either, it's all LUST. Whether of the mind or body...Love is just prolonged lust. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akcus Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Emme888 [/i] [B]Whether of the mind or body...Love is just prolonged lust. [/B][/QUOTE] I think it would be very sad if you were to think that there is no love in this world. The idea or [i]prolonged lust[/i] sounds like something you get when your man takes too much viagra. I believe in soulmates. But I don't believe there is only one person for you. It depends on how much you nurture a relationship... its just as easy to blow it, believe me, I feel that I did just ruined my relationship with a potential soulmate a month ago. I really like the idea of people [I]becoming[/I] soulmates. That is the real power of love. For two people to reciprocally make each other their soulmate is what love is supposed to be about. Building each other up and sharing the time you have on this earth [i]together[/i]. That is what I believe. I will find such a person... one day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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