Ellerby Posted June 18, 2003 Share Posted June 18, 2003 [SIZE=1][COLOR=green]"To like, or not to like? That is thy question." :P A little spin off of Shakespere. Anyways, there's this girl who has been my friend for AGES! (meaning only 2 years) Now we do alot together! We walk dogs as a job togther, we tell eachother everything....untill now! "DUN DUN DUN DUN!" I think I like her...but I'm not sure. You see, to me. Liking her is kinda weird because she's such a good friend. That's it. A friend. No more! She doesn't really trust anyone anymore. Especially me! I have no clue why. So I was wondering if anyone (particularly girls) could help me. It would do wonders! :D[/COLOR] -=§=- :wave:[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stardust Posted June 18, 2003 Share Posted June 18, 2003 Yea-if you could help it,I wouldn't wander down that road.....why?I know it's not what you want to here,and most people will tell you go for it,but see, i actually did like my guyfriend. You know what he did? He started obsessing over it,ignoring me, and even when I told him I like sumbody else,he still thinks I like him!He even got a girl in my dance group to pretend to go out with him so i wouldn't like him anymore! I'm not saying this girl will do all that,and you should follow your heart,but you need to be careful!Besides that, if you DO go out with her,you probably won't be friends again...but i don't know,I'm only 13......but that was from my experience. PM me if you need more advice.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RPGchick Posted June 18, 2003 Share Posted June 18, 2003 before you do anything, find out if you really do like her. if you value her as much as it sounds like, and you really do like her, ask yourself if it is worth it-worth taking the chance of ruining your good friendship. if you think it is, you have to let her know. i know that if my best guy friend told me that he liked me, i would be a little suprised at first, but you never know, she might like you too and is going through the same problem. my best guyfriend found out that i liked him, and he reacted basically the same way as stardusts guyfriend, and now we hate each other. just remember, if you have a good friendship, you should think weather or not you want to take the chance to ruin it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Semjaza Posted June 18, 2003 Share Posted June 18, 2003 I am incredibly confused by one statement you made: [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by §corpio [/i] [B][SIZE=1][COLOR=green] She doesn't really trust anyone anymore. Especially me! I have no clue why.[/color][/SIZE] [/B][/QUOTE] You're basically best friends of a sort, yet she doesn't trust you? The "especially" part throws it off even more. So I honestly don't know what you could be advised to do if she doesn't trust you. Perhaps a reason why she doesn't trust you [i]especially[/i] would help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stardust Posted June 18, 2003 Share Posted June 18, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Semjaza Azazel [/i] [B]I am incredibly confused by one statement you made: You're basically best friends of a sort, yet she doesn't trust you? The "especially" part throws it off even more. So I honestly don't know what you could be advised to do if she doesn't trust you. Perhaps a reason why she doesn't trust you [i]especially[/i] would help. [/B][/QUOTE] she could not trust him because she suspects he likes him. My guyfriend found out on his own and then he wouldn't tell me anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sui Generis Posted June 18, 2003 Share Posted June 18, 2003 [color=indigo]Personally I think that her not talking to you could mean one of two things.... A) She likes you and is too shy to admit it or B) She doesn't like that you like her in that way and is trying to distance herself from.... But I couldn't tell you which one it was just because I don't know her. I mean its not a lost cause. Just try to keep talking to her. I'm sure things will work out eventually. Man the way things are going we will need to just open up a Relationship Advice Forum and have like the "Love Police" or something. Must be the love time of the year....blech[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Semjaza Posted June 18, 2003 Share Posted June 18, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by stardust [/i] [B]she could not trust him because she suspects he likes him. My guyfriend found out on his own and then he wouldn't tell me anything. [/B][/QUOTE] That's certainly not the impression I am getting from his post. It's not even worded in a way that would imply that. Who knows though. I'm more than likely wrong anyway heh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TarMeg1989 Posted June 18, 2003 Share Posted June 18, 2003 Hmmmm... I have something totally different. One thing, I had a best guy friend. I told him everything too. Guess what? I started liking him too. I was too afraid that if I told him he would get freaked out. Then I talked to my other guy friend about this crush. Turns out my guy friend had said the same to him. So we liked each other. Chances are yall 2 may be more than just friends. But if you really like her, and you have to know for sure. You should tell her, then again I would be pretty siked if my bestfriend liked me. So maybe you should tell her if yall feel the same for each other. Or when the like becomes love. Well, who knows, I am a 13 year old wanting a commited relationship. What do I know. ~Megan :worried: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyGirl Posted June 18, 2003 Share Posted June 18, 2003 [color=deeppink]It's sexual tension. :p Nah, I'm kidding. I used to get crushes on guys I'd spend a lot of time around because they were so nice and I felt so honored that they'd want to spend a sliver of their life with me. I think it's a part of growing up; becoming good friends with the opposite sex and then developing crushes on each other. Yeah, Scorpio, I would let her know if I were you, but that's me...and I've had some crushes, eh, 'crushed' due to admitance [I can't spell that] of my feelings. ::shrug:: Most likely you won't be able to contain the feelings anymore and you'll have to tell her eventually...at least that's how things always went for me in the past! Heh, good luck with that, I hope that your friendship isn't ruined in the crush process [becaues that's the worst when that happens] ^_^[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dmitri_Dragoon Posted June 18, 2003 Share Posted June 18, 2003 I myself have never been in a relationship. But I could have. I was at one time in the same boat as you §corpio. But I did nothing and found out after it was to late that she as well had feelings for me. As I said it was to late to do anything because she had moved and I lost contact with her. I'm not sure if this is the right advice seeing as how I failed. But you should tell her, but still take your time about it. Find when the time is right and let her know. She is probably showing less trust to you because she feels the same for you, but is afraid of ruining your friendship, so she is distancing herself from you without really knowing it. But as I said, tell her, but just take your time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhys Mayiessen Posted June 18, 2003 Share Posted June 18, 2003 [color=indigo]I think you should just stay as friends. If she doesn't feel that way about you...don't tell her you do! That was a stupid mistake when I told the guy I like (who's been my friend for 3 years) that I like him. We grew farther apart. Its just better to stay as friends.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellerby Posted June 18, 2003 Author Share Posted June 18, 2003 [SIZE=1][color=green]This has been great help everyone! I haven't told her yet but...you know are friendship is all the same. But, ya know what? I'm don't really like her anymore. All I wanna be is friends. So, thanks anyway. (I'M FREE!!! YES!)[/color] -=§=- :wave:[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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