Guest Majin Buu Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 I do think that Love is a game. And there are SOO many players out there. The word Love is a very overlooked now adays.. And people say that they love someone and they always well. But then they get dumped and they say that they never get over, such and such 2 days later in the same story all over agian the only differnce is you going out with someone else!. I belive that people dont really know what love is anymore. I myself have given up on dating people.. because its just a waste of time and in the end it only hurts.. And yes you are hearing all this from a guy.. Well if you knew me better you might just understand what i where this is all coming from.. Ohh and the worlds # 1 lie is: "I Love you" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TarMeg1989 Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 [B][COLOR=blue]Good point! Love is just game, but the only problem is you don't win nor do you lose. Love is always good, but can get bad. Such as you loving your parents is good. Getting hurt is a emotion that can never be taken away, but loving is easy to get over. Yes, saying " I love you " is a big lie. It's the one way to seduce someone. Yet agian, some people may not be lying and truely believe it until the person breaks up with them. Anyway, what do I know, I am a kid. *sighs* [/COLOR][/B] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GhostofSalvtore Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 I always thought this was love...... To love is the most important thing in life. But what do we mean by love? When you love someone because that person loves you in return surely that is not love. To love is to have that extraordinary feeling of affection without asking anything in return." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Epsilon Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 Love is kinda like a game I guess...truely I wouldn't know. Once I meet the right guy I know but till then I'll just have chrushs on people and never tell. Or if I do, I'll be sunk! And those guys I have chrushs some are my friends, so I can't tell them. Anyways I think love is the way some one makes you feel when your with them. Then with out them who feel more lonely then when you were really alone. Love can be evil at certain times like right now! Evil love.... [COLOR=red]*bites on toy heart and crys*[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stardust Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 I think it's a trick,we want to love to reproduce.....hormones baby..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Majin Buu Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 Ok but i dont think its all about S E X though or is it...? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stardust Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 i didn't say it was,but that's all a lot of people care about anymore Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TarMeg1989 Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 The lying about "I love you" is not really they love you. They really feel lust. I am sure yall all know that. It's not good when you lie about love because of lust. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Majin Buu Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 U dont love someone just cause you wanna have S E X with them Thats what you call Pimping. Its more than that, to me at least.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TarMeg1989 Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 Yes, indeed. You just don't love someone for LUST! What kind of love is only about S E X, none of course. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Majin Buu Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 I think i am in Love with someone but i cant tell... How do you know? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TarMeg1989 Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 Hmmmm... You really can't tell if you are in love. I guess it is a matter of feeling not knowing. But, yes, you'll know you are in love once you feel that feeling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Majin Buu Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 What feeling, Man love is so confuseing... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest dayday Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 If you feel happy around that person and you don't want anythig bad ever to happen to them. If that ever happens, you'll definetly know after that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Epsilon Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 If you feel that way about her tell, her she'll under stand if you just tell her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Majin Buu Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 Ok then i am in Love.. Ever since like the 3rd grade i have had a crush on someone, and then in Fourth grade we became friends and hung out alot.. But then when we reached 6th grade we was best friends and i still wanted to go out with her but i never asked cause i felt too close i guess, But then 7th grade came. and things change.. We never hung out, never talked and it was like we had forgotten one another.. But still i always tried to be there for her when she needed me and she would tell me everything.. until i moved. After i moved she promised she would call everyday and she did for away but then she started to drift away.. and we never talked.. But i still think the world of her, I try to tell her but since shes so far away it doesnt really matter to her anymore and she. has forgotten me... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest dayday Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 Wow, that's sad. You should tell her anyway. If she still wats to go out with you then she will. Just not physically. You'll just keep calling each other a lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Majin Buu Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 Ohh i have told her i tell her everytime i get a chance too, and she doesnt really seem to care Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarK DeatH Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 I don't think love is just a game... Until you find out the true meaning of "love", then maybe for you it is, but love is a flame... A flame that burns... Not just an illusion, but a real flame, that if you get too close to it, it will leave a scar that will never heal inside of you. I don't konw if I really know what "love" itself is, but what I feel towards one person, I believe is real love... Not only to want to go out with someone, it is to really care about that person, and to not care if that person loves you in return or not... But only to feel pleasure for helping that person and to have that person near you. At least that's how I personally feel... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OtakuSennen Posted July 18, 2003 Share Posted July 18, 2003 Well.. Hm.. It's sorta... A quest for happiness, like you'd find in some video games... You need to find that one person that you would be with forever.. Then, do something. *wink wink* But it's not just that.. It's also just finding support in a significant other. Enjoyment from a significant other... It's really hard to describe, but I feel this way about someone and it's mutual... You can't know what love is until you've been in it, I think... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sara Posted July 18, 2003 Share Posted July 18, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by TarMeg1989 [/i] [B][B][COLOR=blue]Yes, saying " I love you " is a big lie. It's the one way to seduce someone. [/COLOR][/B] [/B][/QUOTE] [SIZE=1]I believe saying "I love you" is one of the scariest things you can do. I've said it to someone...and I don't believe I was trying to seduce them. It's a crazy feeling, saying those words, and [i]meaning[/i] them--and having your breath catch in your throat because you're afraid you won't hear their echo from the person you spoke them to. Hearing those words back is the best feeling I've ever had, bar one. I don't think love is [i]just[/i] about finding your "soulmate" or whatever you want to term that. And while I can do nothing but smile upon those who believe they have, I can't downplay what other people feel, either. I've never been on a date. I've never been in a dating-type relationship, serious or otherwise. Never had a boyfriend--the opportunity has been there, but I believe I did the right thing by not dating him. I've still loved people. I've cared about people more deeply than I've ever cared about myself. There are people I know who I believe I could happily spend the rest of my life with. I tell them I love them. It's true. How is that a lie? I have some wonderful friendships which I could see potentially turning into dating relationships. It's merely potential--I don't believe either or us would ever actually take the initiative in such a thing. There's always the fear that it would turn sour and end in a bad way. Neither or us would want that to happen--to the other person, or to ourselves. No one ever wants that to happen...but when there's been a deep friendship, when things end, you lose more than a boyfriend or girlfriend. You lose whatever you had before the relationship turned in that direction. I don't know if I would be able to risk that again. Losing a friend hurts badly enough, without the added pain of a romantic-relationship break-up.[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Change Posted July 18, 2003 Share Posted July 18, 2003 I wonder about love alot (probably because I am a hopeless romantic, which I am busy curshing)...So to help myself cope, I break love up into three catagories... Agape-Compassion for your fellow man love... Phileo-Friendship love... Amoure-Let's get it on love so to speak... I have a lot of agape, probably too much. Phileo I'm really short on, and Amoure is almost unheard of...It really sucks for me cuase I do like the ladies ^_^ Since my last relationship ended on a sour note, I have been in limbo, waiting to move on to the next jungle...I've just learned to ask more questions before I go leaping off any cliffs...Love is more fun than logic, one cannot prove this, but it is, as in the same sense that Mt. Everest is, and Almer Cogen isn't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jesus Chicken Posted July 18, 2003 Share Posted July 18, 2003 [color=blue]Hmmm...Personally I only really know about it at all. I only know two people that could possibly be in love, and I don't know. They are my great aunt and uncle. They have been married for 60 years, so yeah, I think there is definatley something there. Of course marriage is no test of love. I know some people who think they are in love..but they obviously don't know what love is, because they think they love too many people in the same way. I think thats rediculous. Obviously if you feel the same way about two people, it isn't love. Isn't love a singular person thing. You can't feel it about more then one person. If you feel the same way about more then one person, it's probably just lust, or affection, but it sure as hell isn't love. Not to mention any names of people I know. Anyway, the guy this is directed at probably won't read this and it's not my place to say anything regardless. Yeah, my opinion is love is something you feel about one person and you will never really know what it is.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spikey Posted July 18, 2003 Share Posted July 18, 2003 Love is a deep caring between two people. That's all I really think it is. I don't think it's a game at all. That's like saying our whole life is a game, and were playing it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Taylor Hewitt Posted July 18, 2003 Share Posted July 18, 2003 Love... I've never really been in love. Well I can't say that. But I've had my heart broken a million times each time more painful. Love hurts. Love hurts alot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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