Vicky Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 You have to help me here! First things I need help on: 1.This guy called Matt invited me over to his house. As we where walking along the feilds going over to his, he asked: "Do you like any boys in school?" I shuved my hands in my pocket. "Nope." I replied. "There all horrid and stupid!" I knew he meant do you have a boyfriend. Then... "Would you think I'm okay?" He said.I continued about the other thing. "I'd never go out with any of them losers in school!" Matt walked slower. "Would you like me?" He said... I need to know if this goofball really is tring to get me. He is a right goof. I hate him! What do you think I should do? I don't like him..but in school he hangs around me and bugs me. How do I let hiim know and how do I get him to stop thinking I like him? 2. This lad called Andrew keeps staring at me. He never leaves me alone. He bugs me and stars...urgh! I need your advice...is Andrew tring to be my new boyfriend? 3. I gave Jarad, this boy in year 7 my e-mail. Now, he is forever bothing and buging me about Draonball z. He phones me ten times a day and all. I have to make up an excuse to get off the phone or off the computer. He pessers me in school...is he being like Matt and Andrew? I need your advice on how to find out what's what and how to let them know... 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Majin Buu Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 Well you cant have other people decide for you, Dont you have any friends you can talk about this too, That know these guys cause i really cant tell you if i dont know them at all. And someone cant be your new boyfriend just by stareing at you all day.. Hes just got a thing for u i guess.. lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vicky Posted June 19, 2003 Author Share Posted June 19, 2003 My otherfriends would probly laugh. But I need to find a way to get jarad off me back! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Majin Buu Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 Cant you just tell him that hes a loser and you want nothing to do with him...? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justin Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 Just tell them all to step back. It's really not that hard. If you assert yourself, and show how you really feel, they will back down. -Justin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vicky Posted June 19, 2003 Author Share Posted June 19, 2003 Trust...round near ur school it is hard. They just keep bothering me! Grrrrrrrr! If I told Matt he was a loser, he'd get his so called 'Gang' on me. I know. He done that before. But I could batter him, but not a gang! He just does this when things never go his ways...that's what's hard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Majin Buu Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 Gang..? Get you..? Ok what is this all about, you mean they will get volient..? Ok this is getting really bad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krillen Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 Make up a lie, tell Matt that you just dont have time for a Boyfriend and that you have no interest in dating ANYONE. Hopefully he will understand, if none of these boys get the hint, then just ignore them and not talk to them, they will get it eventually. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KKC Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 About the little kid in the 7th grade. Just tell him to buzz off. Ignore him. And if that doesnt work..... Start changing the subject of DBZ into something he really really hates. Eventually he will stop calling and stuff because he thinks you'll talk about Barbies or something. That should work well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nezzyjean Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 The kid in 7th grade...he probably doesnt have a crush on you...he probably thinks that since you gave him is email, you are now one of his friends and he is probably all stoked that there's a possible friendship with an older kid...and if he is a real dork in his grade...then he thinks that hangin with an older person will make him seem cool, (which is what most kids that age wanna be) so he is tryin to hang out with you as much as possible. But to get rid of him...say that he's too young for your taste, and that you don't enjoy him calling you so many times everyday. Say something like.."I can understand you calling me maybe once a week..but you are calling me 10 times a day...and I find that a little out of hand." As for the other guy...the opne with the gang...you could tell him that you dont have a bf at ur school...but at (insert other school's name here) you have one. this might work...cuz he didnt ask u if you had a bf,...he asked u if u liked any1 at ur school. SO that might work. Unless he finds that offending..just say that next time he asks. And that Andrew guy...some people just stare at everyone...chances are...he just spaced out. Don't worry about him unless he tries to make a move on you...then you'll kno he likes u. But its most likely that he is just one of those wierd kids who stares. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emme888 Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 Take control..If you like one of them go out with him, but if you don't like any of them tell them to step down. And about the kid in grade 7, it's prolly just a crush and that's all he can talk about with you, cause that's all you have in common. Tell the lil creep to leave you alone, or find a girl in his grade who has common interests as him and set him up. Hope this helps......:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Majin Buu Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 You all keep saying the same thing but she said, If she does say anything that they dont like, they will gang up on her.. Thats what she said. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orien_Xel Posted June 19, 2003 Share Posted June 19, 2003 Hey, hey , hey! You people are all saying things like:"ignore him!""MAke fun of him" etc. That's not cool! YOu have to be reasonable about it. Tell the kid in 7th grade, that you enjoy talking to him, and you share interests with him, but that calling you 10 times a day is not appropriate, and that you have other things to do besides talk on the phone all day. Don't just push him away! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defcon5 Posted June 20, 2003 Share Posted June 20, 2003 Yeah don't make fun of them, let em down nicely. You never know what the future will bring and if you're mean to them they will remember it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KittyLynn Posted June 20, 2003 Share Posted June 20, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Majin Buu [/i] [B]Gang..? Get you..? Ok what is this all about, you mean they will get volient..? Ok this is getting really bad [/B][/QUOTE] [SIZE=1][COLOR=dodgerblue]When she says get her. She means they want her as a girlfriend. Well Vicky, just stand up for yourself and tell them. When Matt asks,"Do you think I'm okay?" Just say,"Your fine, I just don't want you as a boyfriend." Its quite easy, once you feel confident. ^^ -KittyLynn[/COLOR] [/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted June 20, 2003 Share Posted June 20, 2003 Hardly what I'd call problems. Tell them all to bugger off. It's obvious you're not interested in any of them. You're too young anyway. Simple kids doing kids stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Majin Buu Posted June 20, 2003 Share Posted June 20, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by KittyLynn [/i] [B][SIZE=1][COLOR=dodgerblue]When she says get her. She means they want her as a girlfriend. Well Vicky, just stand up for yourself and tell them. When Matt asks,"Do you think I'm okay?" Just say,"Your fine, I just don't want you as a boyfriend." Its quite easy, once you feel confident. ^^ -KittyLynn[/COLOR] [/SIZE] [/B][/QUOTE] Ohhh well i wasnt sure.. Im stupid remember Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Chris Posted June 21, 2003 Share Posted June 21, 2003 [color=green][size=1]well, for the kid with the gang, just tell him you'll think about it. when he asks you if you've desided tell him you need more time. that might work for a little bit. if you're really desprate you can do something that will make him stop liking you. or you can tell him that guys aren't really your style. for the staring kid, just ask him to stop. he'll probably understand. for the dbz kid, just tell him that you stopped liking dbz. sorry if this advice is useless to you.[/size][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stitch Posted June 21, 2003 Share Posted June 21, 2003 ...this is really actually quite easy to handle. 1. To the kid with the gang tell him to bug off and if its one of those violent gangs tell him if they go near you you'll call the cops! if ya don't like those suggestions then act like a total dipwad and be all stupid and annoying and talk about dumb stuff so he'll stop hanging around you! Oh and if you have any really strong guy friends hang around them alot and he might leave you alone 2 to the kid who stare at you! tell him to get off the dope and get rehab! he's more then likly just a weird person like me who totally drifts off and stares at stuff without realizing it unless he makes any advance don't even pay attention to him 3 to the kid who calls you all the time you have a few options option A - never pick up the phone again and throw your computer out the window and then curl up under you bed and never come out of your room for the rest of your life! option 2 - when he calls just tell him you can't talk or your busy it takes two seconds or you can tell your parents to tell him your not home. option 3 - just tell him that you like talking to him and you think he is cool and all but you need to hang out with people your own age if hes a good guy and he is a good friend he'll understand (hopfully) yeah i basically just reapeted what other people said but yeah i hope it helps anyway! stitch;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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