Help!!

[PiccolosGirl]

I'm practically in love with my best friend, should I tell him or not? I don't know how he really feels, he could be lying like I have when someone askes. If he likes me then should I go out with him? I don't want to ruin our friendship though...:confused: Soooooo confused here. Could I get some people's opinions?

[Sara]

[size=1]Nope.

You're young, and any dating relationship you enter at this period of your life has approximately no chance of lasting. Keep the friendship; it'll be more important to you in the long run. ^_~[/size]

[Guest Randleman]

EDIT;

forgot to check ur profile for your age. forget what i said. Sara is right. (as always)

[RicoTranzrig]

[COLOR=darkblue]It's good to tell someone how you feel and be honest. But you also have the choice of witholding your words and rethink things, maybe how you feel about or what you say to him will change overtime. I think the important thing is to keep your friendship so you can get to know him more.[/COLOR]

[WW2]

I too agree with Sara. You just seem too young to be dealing with these types of relationships.

You should definately just be friends now. If you're still friends a couple of years from now, and you still have feelings for them, you should then tell them how you feel.

Just give it time.

But then again, what do I know about relationships.:D

[Raiha]

[color=royalblue]Well..........your age isn't toooo too young. If that makes any sense. I know people your age who are in relationships that are somewhat healthy. As a female that has had her share of romance, I wouldn't recomend it just yet. Give yourself time to think, and this sounds terribly cliche, but listen to your head; not your heart. I tried the whole emotional thing, and it gave me a major heart/headache. Not worth it just yet.[/color]

[Patronus]

[size=1]You're too young to know what love is. Believe me. I've been through it.

-L/Z[/size]

[Ayokano]

[COLOR=red]Yeah...to young....

But you should tell him how you feel.You and him should not get into a relationship right now.Being the youngest telling you this,close to your age,well younger,from all the times I whached Boy Meets World,it takes a mircale to pull of a relationship when you are young.Boys in my Middle school are going out with girls,and it never works.

Also,when you are young,you and I,are going through changes.We want to see parts that are hidden,and we want sex.Sadly that is why I think we in the U.S have so many 15-17 years with babies.You could get HIV and AIDS if you have sex,so keep it at friendship,and if it last long,after collage,get married.Do not quit collage over this boy,cause it goes into more troubles.

So like I said befor,tell him your feelings,stay friends,and after collage get married :D[/COLOR]

[Sandy]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by aYokano [/i]
[B][COLOR=red]
So like I said befor,tell him your feelings,stay friends,and after collage get married :D[/COLOR] [/B][/QUOTE]

Yeah, [i]that's[/i] how life works... :rolleyes:

At your age it is just a crush - trust me! I had several crushes on several of my friends at your age. I thought "this was it, if only I tell her...". Of course that was ridiculous, and would've just ruined everything. Now I'm just happy I have my friends as friends.

Fourteen is not such a bad age for starting a relationship, it's just not a good idea to start one with your best friend. It has too many risks.

If you still are sure you want him, I suggest you go into yourself, and explore your feelings: can you imagine sharing a future with him? What would your possible kids would be like? Do you think he feels the same? What exactly is it you feel?

These are just some questions for you to ponder - and you should really ponder before you act, okay? :)

[Delian]

I have to agree with the above posts. You being too young is a good reason, but admitting your feelings could put both of you in an awkward position and could possibly ruin what sounds like a perfectly great friendship..... Give it time, when you both are more grown up and a little more mature, if your feelings are still there then you can tell him how you feel. For now, just enjoy what you have :D

[Guest Taylor Hewitt]

Whoa you are younger than me. And I haven't even kissed a girl... well... bah nvm. One important thing is does your parents know lol...

Best of Luck

Taylor Hewitt

[Guest Fiasco]

Just wait, maybe a few more years, like 2 more, then tell him you like him. Don't tell him you love him because that might change things even more. So yeah, just wait a few more years.

[wild thang]

i agree and disagree with most people. youre too young to know what true love is, but if you have a crush on him and youve been good friends for a while he may like you too, so go for it. i went out with one of my friends and when we broke up we became even better friends. now that i think about it, that was weird.

by the way, im only 11 days older than you are.

[Sandy]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by wild thang [/i]
[B]i went out with one of my friends and when we broke up we became even better friends. [/B][/QUOTE]

I don't think it's such a good idea to say "this happened to me, it'll happen to you too". People are different, and although I'm glad you and your friend could stay as friends after a deeper relationship, in most cases it just won't happen. Just like you said, it feels weird, and many people can't stand the akwardness and perhaps humiliation.

But it's of course Piccolo's own choice, we're just here to give suggestions. :)

[Ravenstorture]

[color=darkgreen][font=gothic]I reckon if you tell him a) how you feel, and b) how important the current status of your relationship is to you, and c) that you are prepared to leave your feelings as they are and not take any action on them, he'll respect your honesty, and maybe help you through what, in all likelihood, is a crush. That is, if you trust he will respect your feelings enough to not feel uncomfortable around you, and if you trust he won't jump on you before you finish the sentance, yelling something along the lines of, "Wow! I can't believe you feel that way too. Marry me!"

I don't suggest pursuing your feelings as of yet, but keeping things from your best friend never did anyone any good.[/font][/color]

[Guest dayday]

You're never too young to know what true love is. I'm younger than you and I fell in love.(nobody needs to say anything about this so mind your own business) If you do then just tell him how you fell. You don't have to listen to what other people say or think. It's what you think that counts.

[Guest Taylor Hewitt]

Exactly. As long as you can... do it... and you have the oppurtunity to... do it... then... do it.
You get my drift? Anyways don't listen to some of the people here who say you're too young. You're younger than me - so what. But still if you should keep it from him for a few years.

[nezzyjean]

I agree with dayday, about never being too young to kno what love is, but you shouldnt tell your friend that you love him...just tell your friend that you have a crush on him, if you decide to tell. But dont tell him its love just incase he doesnt feel the same ;)

[Nats]

I personally think you're too young to love but old enough to date. You need to think about this, if your friend feels the same way you 2 could be a cute couple...that's until the the romance ends then how will you feel? You 2 may never be friends again so not only will a relationship fail so will a friendship.

[Genkai]

Too young, too young.. Why do you all say that? Love is love is love. It's her right to like him... My grandparents were a couple since they were 10, and that only ended when my Granddad died.

I don't think many relationships at this age go on forever, but it's very important to have them.. Learn from your mistakes, and who knows? Maybe he is The One.

[Guest Taylor Hewitt]

Yes but sexual intercourse is meant to be had between a man and a woman. Not a girl and a boy (well a kid and a kid). I've heard of pregnant teens but pregnant kids.

[Raiha]

[color=royalblue]Then I suppose you haven't heard about the arranged marraige between an 8 year old girl and a 9 year old boy in China....and the child they had together.

Anyways, I think Raven's advice is rather sound...can't go wrong.[/color]

[bra]

Well if you take it from me, just say what you feel and all that fun stuff. If your friend feels the same way, that's great! If he doesn't, well, at least you got it off your mind. It's better to let it out then bottle it all up inside of you. If you do that then there will be some consequences later on. Take it from me... one of your buddies is still looking out for you!!!! :) :P

[XeEmO]

There are so many posts like this. I agree with most of the people who posted already. I don't think you're old enough to get into anything serious.

Edit: This is the 100000th post in this section. I just thought that was neat...*is crazy*