Very Personal Problem

[Guest Taylor Hewitt]

Child rape is even worse than regular rape. Which isn't very "regular" to start with. But look at it this way. Someones life is changed forever because of a bunch of ******* morons who should burn in hell. Excuse my language I get angry and emotional easy.

[WW2]

I'm sorry to hear about what happened to you. Gosh, it must be hard going through life with such a burden, and not telling anyone.

Normally I would say you should forgive and forget, but not this time. What those guys did was inexcusable, who could do that to family? Anybody who does such a vile act should be [spoiler]painfully castrated and beaten to an inch of their lives.[/spoiler] I hope that thoughts of what they did haunt them til the end of their days.
All this may sound a little harsh, but I can't stand people who would do something so sick, and dishonorable.

But it seems you're trying to get over it, and forgive them. That type of inner strength is noble and deserves some type of merit.

But, again, this is all my opinion.:D

[Patronus]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Taylor Hewitt [/i]
[B]Child rape is even worse than regular rape. Which isn't very "regular" to start with.[/b][/quote]

[size=1][color=000066][b]Actually, it does happen often...Alot, actually.

Anyways, dayday, I'd kill thos bastards. But thats just me..

-L/Z[/b][/color][/size]

[Celia]

[color=0099FF][size=1] I am so sorry about what happened to you.
But I think you should at least tell someone that you trust to help you. Raping is a very serious thing, and you shouldn't bring it on to the internet.

That's my opinion.[/color][/size]

[Vegitto4]

Well, here comes my punishment. They should all be taken into the woods and..........(this statement is rated [b]R[/b], veiwer disrection is advised)[spoiler] have there dicks nailed to a tree, then, light them on fire, hand them a butter knife, and say these words. " Cut it off, or watch it burn"[/spoiler]

terribly sorry, i get rather......interesting when that kind of things come about.

[Guest dayday]

Okay, I've learned that some of you are rather, how should I put this...crazy. Yeah, that's it. I'm not going to have any of them killed or what Vegitto4 said. But that one does sound rather interesting. Maybe I'll try it :devil: But to be serious no, I don't think I could get them killed. And if I tell my parents they'll go off. They have a shotgun in their bathroom closet and my grandpa has a sword in his. So that might get them a little worked up.

[Ryan]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by dayday [/i]
[B]Okay, I've learned that some of you are rather, how should I put this...crazy. Yeah, that's it. I'm not going to have any of them killed or what Vegitto4 said. But that one does sound rather interesting. Maybe I'll try it :devil: But to be serious no, I don't think I could get them killed. And if I tell my parents they'll go off. They have a shotgun in their bathroom closet and my grandpa has a sword in his. So that might get them a little worked up. [/B][/QUOTE]
[color=royal blue][size=1][font=century gothic]

Then take the shotgun and the sword and hide them where they can't find them, then tell them, then when they get calm again then maybe you can give them back.[/color][/size][/font]

[Justin]

Vegitto4, there's no excuse for that kind of language. It's nothing but empty words and showing out. We can do no more than offer sympathy and [i]sound[/i] advice. This goes from here on, for everyone, no matter what your feelings on the situation.

Now, what they did is horrible. You should tell your parents, regardless of the weapons they have. Justice [i]must[/i] be brought about. At the very least, you should confront all of those involved as possible about it--and not softly.

Finally, you should call the police. They can prosecute for statutory rape until the age of 19. You should make sure you don't miss what chance you have--you my live to deeply regret it.

I think it's unbelievably honorable and I think much higher of you, simly for the fact that you're so forgiving. However, that doesn't mean you should allow what was done to you go unpunished.

Again, my sympathies to you. But my pity goes to them. For even if you never take action, I believe that God will.

-Justin

[Guest Chris]

[color=#707875][b]god, that is so horrible. i wish there was something i could do, but there isn't. what would your brother do if he found out? if he's the kind of brother that would stand up for you, i'd tell him so he can have a word with that friend of his. if he's the kind that would kill the friend, don't tell him. death is a last resort, only use it when nessesary.

but start carrying a knife or someting. learn self defence. it doesn't matter if they're nice to you know, unless they're truely sorry for what they did (which i doubt since they've done it more than once and will probably do it again if you don't do something about it) they deserve servier(sp?) puneshment. i'm not sure if castration is the right answer, but if you were my sister, i'd surely think about it.[/b][/color]

[Guest dayday]

My brother just spent the night at his house the other night. And yes he'd be the type would would kill him.^_^;; So that's not a very good idea.

[amibasuki]

[FONT=arial]regardless, you should tell your parents, if you haven't done so already. what if one of them does it again, except something worse happened to you? your parents might have been able to do something to make sure that it wouldn't have happened. when all is said and done, it's best to just get it all out and done with, or it will chew at your mind until you go crazy. and who knows? maybe your parents will be a little understanding that you don't necessarily want them to get a really serious punishment, especially since one of them supposedly changed. off subject and out of curiosity, how old were they at the time?

and I know if I had a daughter, I'd want to know if she was raped, even if the news would be hard to take. if you had one, wouldn't you?[/FONT]

[animeforever105]

Wow! yeah I must say go see a counsler about it. When I was in 3rd grade a simaler thing happened to me. But it was only one guy. I don't know what happened to him. I did see him in a restruant a year ago. He really was a nice guy and he didn't hurt me either. I haven't really done anything about my situation either so all I can say is go to a counsler. Or at least someone you trust so much you feel you can talk to them. Or a trusted pastor or something. At least you know one of the guys has changed. That's really sad. Were they drunk or something? It's really sad what some people do to other people.

[color=teal]EDIT:[/color] [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by amibasuki [/i]
[FONT=arial]regardless, you should tell your parents, if you haven't done so already. what if one of them does it again, except something worse happened to you? your parents might have been able to do something to make sure that it wouldn't have happened. when all is said and done, it's best to just get it all out and done with, or it will chew at your mind until you go crazy. and who knows? maybe your parents will be a little understanding that you don't necessarily want them to get a really serious punishment, especially since one of them supposedly changed. off subject and out of curiosity, how old were they at the time?

and I know if I had a daughter, I'd want to know if she was raped, even if the news would be hard to take. if you had one, wouldn't you?[/FONT][/QUOTE]

Yeah. You're totally right. You should tell your parents if you haven't. I know I need to tell mine. I'd want to know as well. It will start messing with your head. I know awhile ago I'd just be sitting there and all of a sudden the memory would come back into my mind. Or if somebody mentions something it will remind me of him and then I immeadiatly think of that. I think I'm going to stop this post here and try to figure out how to tell my parents.

[color=teal]Please do not double post. There is a button right below your post that says Edit, where you can add whatever you need to say without breaking the rules. Thanks! -Syk3[/color]

[eleanor]

[size=1]Hm...what Chris said is nice. You should learn some self-defense....very useful, hehe. O_o[/size]

[Guest dayday]

I do use self defense now. And it's interesting it happened to someone else. Makes me feel a little better. But I was much younger than you still. And no they weren't drunk. That's the way they always were. The one that changed, he changed but not much. He's been smoking for as long as I can remember. I saw him yesterday too. We just waved and said hi, nothing much. But I think they did get drunk a lot but not while they were doing that to me. The friend of my brother, I actually liked him. So that's why I wasn't really much upset with him. But I still was because of what he did. And I don't think this would be the time to tell my mom about it. We're having money problems and the bank keeps saying we don't have anything left. Plus, my dad doesn't really stay home. He comes in and out all the time and he picked up smoking, but he uses "Black and Milds". So he smells like it when he comes. So, I want to wait for a better time to say something about it. He's never home and always showing up and takes me and my brother to get food then comes home and goes to sleep on the couch.

[amibasuki]

[FONT=arial]but what if the best time to tell them never comes? [/FONT]

[Guest dayday]

Well, then I don't know. If it never comes I guess I'll just have to live with no one knowing. There's only one other person I would trust to tell but she would have to tell my mom. So, I don't want to do that. I would have to live with myself and the way it is. But I hope it does come, and soon.

Plus, if it ever happened again, something else might accidently happen. My mom would know someone did something to me then. It would be hard to hide I was pregnant. So yeah, that could happen the next time. It wouldn't be right for me and would mess up my life because my mom would never let me do anything. If I just had a child and tried to help myself but still with plenty of support from her, then I know I could make it on my own. I know someone who's done that too. She had a son when she was 12 and her life is almost perfect. That's how I want to turn out.

[Guest Taylor Hewitt]

I support you dayday. You know that. I'm always there for you. I know I'm not really "there" but you know. I think it's not a good time either to tell your mom or dad. Maybe after the money troubles clear up but... :) You are a very brave girl to continue with life like this. The positive attitude and all is wonderful.

[Emme888]

I'm so sorry for what happened to you, dayday; the best thing to do about it is to tell your parents and they'll find you help.

I had a friend who had been raped, She was so scared cause' for some reason she thought that she had brought it on herself.

JUST REMEMBER YOU DIDN'T DESERVE IT, AND YOU SHOULD NEVER FEEL LIKE IT WAS YOUR FAULT...NO ONE EVER DESERVES TO BE TREATED LIKE THAT. AND THAT YOU ARE A WONDER PERSON INSIDE AND OUT!!

okay, now that I said that, you should really get some help. At first you parents may be mad, but remember they're not angry at you. In the case of my friend, her parents were tottally mad, then they were mad at themselves for not seeing the problem...ugh! what a tough problem you have.

LIKE I SAID ABOVE, IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT, YOU'RE A GOOD PERSON, YOU DIDN'T DESERVE IT AND EVERYBODY AT THE OB'S LOVES YOU FOR YOU AND YOU HAVE FRIENDS AND FAMILY THAT WILL SUPPORT YOU!

If you every need an ear to listen to you, you now know where you can turn to. I'm so sorry for you, talk to me whenever you need to, and you will be in my prayers. God Bless you soul, for, we, the children of god are the purest soulS and need the most protection.

Good luck, my dear new friend...

[Guest Taylor Hewitt]

Yeah it's not your fault. Never ever feel that way because it's not true. It is your cousins fault and I'm sure they feel bad now. I hope they do.

[Jubei Yagyou]

I had a friend that was raped, but the difference is she didnt know the person, they abducted her at 12 at the mall of america and made her do some nasty stuff. She had many boyfriends (including myself) that she wouldnt do anything physically with because of the incedent. It sometimes messes up the relationship because most guys act the way they act (you know what I mean) and they dont like you anymore. And I got a Question, Are you from the south of the U.S cause that happens alot down there.

With much sympathy,
Jubei Yagyou

[Ayokano]

Oh yes,almost every day in GA...:sign:

Well I'm sorry this happen to you dayday.But I think you are a very storng person mentally cause you live with the fact that someone did something very bad to when young.I don't know anybody that has been in something like this before.I have no real good avice,because everybody has said what I would say,but I'm sorry.

[Guest XBebop]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Vegitto4 [/i]
[B]Well, here comes my punishment. They should all be taken into the woods and..........(this statement is rated [b]R[/b], veiwer disrection is advised)[spoiler] have there dicks nailed to a tree, then, light them on fire, hand them a butter knife, and say these words. " Cut it off, or watch it burn"[/spoiler]

terribly sorry, i get rather......interesting when that kind of things come about. [/B][/QUOTE]

LMAO! You are my king.. lol

But realy. Dayday, i feel sorry for you. No one should have to go through rape..It is the 2nd most thing i am against other than suicide. Hmmm, you were 3 when you were raped the first time? God..******** perverts [spoiler] I'll crucify them, cut out their tongues and send them to HELL! [/spoiler] . Tehm the raped you when you were 7 or something? God. These guys can't get a ******** girlfriend so they rape a 7 year old.. * starts to twitch * WHERE ARE THEY?! Sorry, i get emotional easily, not very usual for a guy, eh? Anyways. Tell them to go get a girl that isn't half their own age and the go ***** a tree...

I realy do think cursing is allowed on this subject. But, once again, very sorry, i do get emotional easily ( AKA: Weakling..damn, i watch too much Love Hina >.< ).

-XBebop: Out to get these idiots! ( not kill them, just give them a rude awakening..in Hell..)

[Vicky]

Man, that's so sad...
Nothing ever(not even close) to that happened to me. I feel really...sad now...but at my age now, I doubt it's a problem for me. For these reaons:

1. A brotehr that will kill any one who lays there hands on me(more like 3 brothers)

2. I learn Tae kwon-do

But it's so sad...I wish I had a sister, if I was yours and I knew I'd be after them before you could say 'Redrum'. So, I think you should talk to your parents or your any on you trust. Once, when I was about 9 I heard about a murder on the news. All year I kept a pen knife in my shoe. I still keep it with me. That's what scares me...what happened to you. I feel so sorry. darn it! Wish I could help... I feel really bad because I can't help and never really come close to anything like that... There was once when I was on my bike and this guy came up to me(old person) and said:

"Mmmm your on yer bike!"
Something like that. He sounded really drunk. As he walk by, I jumped off my bike and pegged it, but of coures my big brother James was playing football and saw it. He ran after me and picked up a glass bottle, smashed it on the wall and told the guy to back off. I think the guy was drunk, but I was half way down the road. I was only 10, so I was really shaken up.

But I feel so bad. You have to talk to your parents. That's why I wish I was older then some one in my family, so I could be like my big brother...but I feel so bad...You need to talk to your parents. Or atleast take knife or something to protect yourself. (mmm, I think that's a bad idea...for you maybe). But I'm fine, but that's why I know Tae kwon-do and carry a knife. But, I'm so sorry...

[Guess?]

I was reading some of these post and i think you should hurt each one very badly. Or get a big guy to rape them.

[Vicky]

No. 2 wrongs don't make a right(what made me say that?) That would get you into trouble and then the whole thing would be on you. So, bad idea. They should pay, but I think not like that.(don't ask why. My secert life) Jail...that will do it and don't bother with them.

Let the dipple(police) sort it out or your parents dayday