Demonic Angel Posted July 23, 2003 Share Posted July 23, 2003 [size=1]How will you know if a person likes/has a crush on/loves you? o.O Is it by people flirting with you? Being nice to you? Or something than that?[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HammerBlade Posted July 23, 2003 Share Posted July 23, 2003 I suppose one sure sign is when they stalk you wherever you go, spy on you in the shower, is always trying to find out as much about you as possible. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted July 23, 2003 Share Posted July 23, 2003 Ask and you shall recieve Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amibasuki Posted July 23, 2003 Share Posted July 23, 2003 [FONT=arial]indeed. hence the little strip of paper saying: [i]Do u like me? [/i][][i]yes [/i][][i]no [/i][][i]maybe[/i] heh, might not quite want to go about it that way, but if you want to get a straight answer, then ask a straight question. or something like that.[/FONT] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nezzyjean Posted July 23, 2003 Share Posted July 23, 2003 Well..not always by flirting, only if they arent the flirt kind..or are flirting with you exclusively...but if they single you out alot, and, drop hints or what not, that can be a way...that's how I tell n e ways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PsycoGoth Posted July 23, 2003 Share Posted July 23, 2003 Well, I'm a natural flirt myself, and I just drop hints like bombs, try to get to know her better and try to make her laugh more than anybody else if I like someone ^^ Well, that's just me; I'm sorta transparent, so iono if these are concrete answers to your questions, ahehehehehe ^^;;; Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Crimson Spider Posted July 23, 2003 Share Posted July 23, 2003 How to tell? It depends on the person themselves. I've seen people who are rediculessly rude to the person they like, and nice, and sometimes act invisible to them. The best way to find out is to ask their friends. Their friends are bound to know eachother so much that they would know that he/she likes him/her, no matter how much they try to hide it. If the friend won't spill the beans, then they definatly like you, because he told his/her friend told them not to tell anyone. Then again, don't listen to me. I'm not too good with relationships, and stuff like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Change Posted July 23, 2003 Share Posted July 23, 2003 Ok, pay attention to these body language tips...(These are universal). 1. Do the pupils of their eyes dialate (get bigger) when they see you? 2. When you are talking do they lean forwards trying to get a little physical contact, or subconsciously broach it? 3. Do they seem overly agreeable? 4. If you have something in your hands do they try and take it away (more physical contact stuff. I guess what I really am getting at is are they flirting with you? Ask yourself that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted July 24, 2003 Share Posted July 24, 2003 [b]If You are Male:[/b] [list]You won't. Unless you are overly persceptive, women will always be a mystery to us. Your best bet is to just ask.[/list] [b]If You are Female:[/b] [list]Most guy talk to their friends. Either ask the friends or ask the guy themself.[/list] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkside Posted July 24, 2003 Share Posted July 24, 2003 I wouldn't know I have only had 2 girls have a crush on me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Dave Diller Posted July 24, 2003 Share Posted July 24, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by amibasuki [/i] [B][FONT=arial]indeed. hence the little strip of paper saying: [i]Do u like me? [/i][][i]yes [/i][][i]no [/i][][i]maybe[/i] heh, might not quite want to go about it that way, but if you want to get a straight answer, then ask a straight question. or something like that.[/FONT] [/B][/QUOTE] Just be sure that you have them write it in rather than punchouts. There may be hanging chads, which would mean that you'd have to do a recount. :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry Posted July 24, 2003 Share Posted July 24, 2003 You have to play KISS songs backwards and do the death chant to the Lord of the Dark Void. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fly-T Posted July 24, 2003 Share Posted July 24, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Transtic Nerve [/i] [B]Ask and you shall recieve [/B][/QUOTE] Couldn't have said it better myself...If you wanna know, quit being so worried and gather some balls to ask them....It works for me!!:D :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Randleman Posted July 24, 2003 Share Posted July 24, 2003 [color=crimson]"Hey. You're pretty hot. Wanna go out some time?" That first line has gotten me soon-to-be 4 years with my wonderful girl. And those 4 years have gotten me....well.....[i]other[/i] things....:p[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrist cutter Posted July 24, 2003 Share Posted July 24, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Fly-T [/i] [B]Couldn't have said it better myself...[/B][/QUOTE] OK, I'll say it better: Ask and you shall receive. Or at least, type it better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Crimson Spider Posted July 24, 2003 Share Posted July 24, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by KnightOfTheRose [/i] [b]If You are Male:[/b] [list]You won't. Unless you are overly persceptive, women will always be a mystery to us. Your best bet is to just ask.[/list] [/QUOTE] That's so true... maybe that's why I'm not good at these things.:sweat: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charles Posted July 24, 2003 Share Posted July 24, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Demonic Angel [/i] [B][size=1]How will you know if a person likes/has a crush on/loves you? o.O Is it by people flirting with you? Being nice to you? Or something than that?[/size] [/B][/QUOTE] If someone is in love with you--and you've not been in a real relationship with them yet--then I don't think you [i]want[/i] to know. :drunk: Something like love is a feeling that matures and develops over time. You won't need anyone on a message board to tell you when you're in love. But, there's definitely a high level of commitment and intimacy required for true love. People sure do love to throw that word around a lot though. I know people who think they're in love with everyone they date. lol A crush isn't always so hard to detect. I wouldn't say it's so much as someone just being nice to you. There's the flirting you mentioned, of course. It's always best (though not easy depending on who you are) to just ask the person so that there's no misunderstanding. Or you could ask around a bit. People tend to gossip about these things. If that doesn't work, try offering yourself to someone whom you suspect has a crush on you. That sort of gesture won't creep anyone out. :blush: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rain Posted July 24, 2003 Share Posted July 24, 2003 [size=1]I know it's easier said than done, but you're better off just asking the person in question. It's a lot better than analysing everything they do. Trust me, I know how that feels, heh. So yes, just ask. You may get rejected, but at least you know. You don't want to end up wondering about what could have been. Once again, I know it's easier said than done, but trust me, it's for the best. Although, I take my own advice, and it hasn't gotten me very far, relationship-wise :p[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spikey Posted July 24, 2003 Share Posted July 24, 2003 Actually I see a lot of girls flirt with guys. What the girls usually do is act silly talk loudly, try to dress all pretty to impress the one she loves. On the other hand boys try to act all cool, be jocks and all that. But heck I don't even want a girlfriend, so I wouldn't know for sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arkadyz Posted July 24, 2003 Share Posted July 24, 2003 [color=orangered][font=times new roman]Ugh flirtatious girls make my brain hurt...Like this one at work...She flirted with me alot when she first started working there so I asked her out...Well she turned me down...And now a few months later shes back to flirting again even MORE then she was before... Its enough to make ones brain explode...ugh :worried: So even if you just go the straight route and ask them your still left confused sometimes... :wigout: [/color][/font] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazy Ace Posted July 24, 2003 Share Posted July 24, 2003 i dont mind girls who flirt alot. The girl who i have a crush on is a good friend of mine. Her friend to me to tell her ( this was after we had become close friends) and that she liked me a little. Things didnt work out but we are still friends. If girls wanna know if a guy likes them just ask or observe his actions toward her. Thats all i can say Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fly-T Posted July 25, 2003 Share Posted July 25, 2003 Normally I woudln't "Ask her" I would lead her on though.....that's my suggestion.....lead them on...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Randleman Posted July 25, 2003 Share Posted July 25, 2003 [color=crimson]lol, lead them on. make then think you like them, then when they act on what they think, you **crush** their feelings into the ground. lol. I like it.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demonic Angel Posted July 27, 2003 Author Share Posted July 27, 2003 [size=1]Whenever a boy/girl bothers you or flirts with you or whatever they do to get your attention, does that mean they like you or something? o.O[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emme888 Posted July 27, 2003 Share Posted July 27, 2003 They'll come out and tell you...honesty is the way to go. Even if they say no, you'll know that it wasn't meant to be and then go on to someone who really does like you for you. Just be honest, it might hurt if they say no, but if they say they like you too...wow, watch out! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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