Kesaki_Inedia Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 Why does it always seem that when I have a crush on some guy they end up going out with eigther my sister or one of my freinds? Why? WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY?????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sara Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 [size=1]You're just lucky, I guess.[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ayokano Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 Cuase you never telled them,lol. They don't know that you like them....unless they can read minds.And if you are very close to them,and they know your family,maybe they have a crush on your sister or somebody..... But what do I know:sweat: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kesaki_Inedia Posted July 28, 2003 Author Share Posted July 28, 2003 0.o typical :twitch: Anyways why I'm ranting on about this is because recently I had a humongounous crush on this one guy and I walk into my own room (which I share with my sister) to catch her on the phone hooking him up with a freind from church...:sigh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chaos Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 Why? Because life is like a sampler pack of your favorite product; it gets good...very good. So good that you get to the point that you love it to death. And then it bends you over and rapes you for a few decades. Or it could just be that the guys you're interested in are interested in your friends or your sister. There are more people beyond your house, you know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Sara[/i] [B][size=1]You're just lucky, I guess.[/size][/B][/QUOTE][size=1]This is why we love Sara. :p I cannot say I have ever really had that problem except for once, but then again I have never really had that many "crushes". The one time it did happen, all the person had to do was wait. She knew and understood the situation and understood my ethics behind my decision to wait (and only for a couple months), but I guess she did not feel like waiting. As shocked as I was when I first found out that she was with my friend, I was quick to simply to put it behind me. I was trying to do the right thing and I get stuffed because of it. I simply told myself I was better than that, in which I really think most would agree, and moved on. Pretty simple. Though, I am not sure how this could relate to whatever situations you have been in since you are also on the inverse of having the problem with guys. Oh well...[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OtakuSennen Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 Well... That's a good question, Kesaki_Inedia. (Be warned: I do not know the basics of the situation. I'm just reading between the lines and trying to fill in the blanks.) But I would probably go with this theory: Unless you tell people, others are gonna move in on yo man! ..Sorry. Ahem. You should be open with others about your feelings, if you aren't already. Then, to prevent others from taking your crush before you get to them, stay around them a lot (if you don't already) and talk. Show them your positive points. Then, if the plan works, they'll make the first real move. As for your sister.. Maybe she's just trying to fool around with you and make you jealous. But, I repeat, I don't know the situation and the circumstances. ^_^ Of course, who am I to talk? I've only been in one relationship my entire life, and I'm still in it. (I'm young.. It hasn't been going on for a really long time, ya know) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XeEmO Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 "Marsha Marsha Marsha!"...(don't ask...that's just the first thing I thought of when I read your post) Yeah, like Sara said, you're just one of the lucky ones. It sucks when certain things always seem to turn out wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitty Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 My problem is kinda like yours, Kesaki_Inedia, but I'm not the one with the crush (yet). My friend's brother has a crush on me, but he also has a girlfriend. He doesn't know who he likes more, and I'm starting to get impatient waiting for his decision. A couple more weeks, and I'm outta there! ~A girl who likes a complete weirdo~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boogiepop Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 its because god does not exist or he hates you............ to be blunt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeathKnight Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 [color=crimson]Most likely because thats how it works in cliques, heh. Maybe you arent quick enough to the draw- gotta approach situations and deal with them quickly before that window of opportunity shuts. Otherwise, you could just wait intill a guy has a crush on you and you have a crush back- wait for both of you to "click" before makeing the move. I dont really know what situation you're in, but it sorta sounds like you just have a crush on the guy with nothing being returned, lol. I dunno. [i]Next on News at 10- Ken Howell gives love advice![/i][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kesaki_Inedia Posted July 28, 2003 Author Share Posted July 28, 2003 Well, OtakuSennen, I did tell them. Both my sis and my crushes new girlfreind. How could they do this to me :bawl: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pressure Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 [color=silver][size=1]Because that's what we commonly refer to as [b]life[/b].[/size][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellerby Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 [size=1]Well, you like this guy right? So... that doesn't automatically mean he [i]has[/i] to like you back. He just happens to like your sister.. :( Lucky for me my brother is alot older than me so this doesn't happen. The best thing to do is one of either of these 2 things: 1. If your selfish and want the guy: Tell your sister. And if she's a good sister she'll break up with himbecause she loves you more. That's when you drag the guy into your trap and ask him out! :devil: or 2. If your a good, kind person. Which you are, you'll let them be. YOu should be happy that your sister and the guy you like is happy! Move on to someone else. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Just some of them are sharks! :D This has been... [img]http://www.freewebs.com/ellerby/lol!.bmp[/img] Oh ya! Here's a cookie Kesaki! *Hands her cookie* -=§=- :wave:[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zen Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 Well, you should first hand take charage and tell him you like him instead of waiting for him too make the first move. He may like you, but he probably doesn't know you like him, so he goes for a girl he's fairly sure likes him. Any ways, we ove it when girls takwe charge and ask US oout. WHY DO GUYS HAVE TOO DO ALL THE WORK ANYWAY?!?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkside Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 its the wonders love cycle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest TriGunMaSta68 Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 Maybe you will get thier attention by doing this.....:flasher: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zen Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 Oh yeah, that would deffinetly get there attention. But seriously, try giving him a love note. That shuld break the ice well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kesaki_Inedia Posted July 28, 2003 Author Share Posted July 28, 2003 It's too late now...sigh, and they seem so happy together.:twitch: so I'll kill them both and burn the evidence :devil: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justin Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 Oh, I'm sure that will solve everything...lol... Relationship drama is so pointless. You want my advice? Put it behind you for a long time--the drama, that is. You seem to be a Christian, and God has a will for your life, so seek that instead. -Justin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kesaki_Inedia Posted July 28, 2003 Author Share Posted July 28, 2003 oookay....but can i still kill them? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AkumaAoshi Posted August 20, 2003 Share Posted August 20, 2003 I havn't found my soul mate I'm starting to think I don't have a soul mate. I think all the guys think I'm weird because I never talk and when i do it's about anime and I have two brothers so I act like a boy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AkumaAoshi Posted August 20, 2003 Share Posted August 20, 2003 I havn't found my soul mate I'm starting to think I don't have a soul mate. I think all the guys think I'm weird because I never talk and when i do it's about anime and I have two brothers so I am not girly and i geuss thats why all the guys hate at my school. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Nefertiti Posted August 20, 2003 Share Posted August 20, 2003 Guys are jerks.(most of them anyways) who cares if he going with ur sis or bestfriend, still tell him how you feel and maybe hes always felt the same way and just has never had the guts to askyou out so he figures he'll settle for someone els. but i wouldnt let this bring u down , theres so many guys and i bet you have more admires than you might think. dont hide your feelings for some one you like and could defantly see yourself goingt out with. ^.^ things arnt always going to go according to plan~~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AkumaAoshi Posted August 20, 2003 Share Posted August 20, 2003 don't ask why it's on there twice i don't even know yet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts