How I doomed myself...

[Kevin]

Alright first thing is first. I have a friend and we will just call him J. He has a sister we will call C and she has a boyfriend who is also J's friend, we will call him R.

Okay, so my friend J is friends with R. R and C have been eyeing each other since J and R became friends. Well, R went out with one of C's best friends and that made her mad. Then a while later, C started feeling depressed because she couldn't find anything. R and C didn't want to hook up without J's concent. So they finally got it, R broke up with C's friend and then about 5 minutes later R and C were an official couple. They have been going out for a couple of months now and J is growing speculative. R and C both promised to J that they weren't going to do anything sexual. Well, they lied, and they told me about their exploits. J started speculating them of doing stuff and he didn't like it one bit. Despite the fact that J and R are friends, J still doesn't trust him because R is the kind of guy that is only in relationships for either sex or someone to cling to. Well, last night, I was over and J's house and he was talking about confronting R to pick between him and C. He has good cause to believe that they were doing something so he wanted to know if I knew anything. Of course I did and I wasn't going to tell him. That was until he told me how much R is manipulative and lies on a constant basis. Now, I am friends with C as well, and I see her as a younger sister. I don't want to see her hurt and the stories I heard about R increased this feeling. I had no choice but to tell J about what I knew. I just told him not to mention me at all because C and R talk to my girlfriend and I didn't want her to be dragged into this too. That would be the last thing that my girlfriend would need, because she is slightly unstable. Anyway, Today, J confronted R and C about it. J told them that he knew that they were doing stuff and R pulled this BS out of his rear about how he would just be nothing to either of them. J didn't want C to be hurt like that so he they all "made up" and are cool now. Okay, here is when it gets tricky. C and R knew that someone told J about what they did and their fingers automatically point to me. I try to play dumb and not lead on that I told him. Now C said that she is forgiving and it might take a while but she will forgive the liar, either me or J. R on the other hand blames me right away, said I ruined everything and now hates me more then ever. I tried to convince him that J figured it out on his own but he isn't buying it. Also, R lied to me and told me that J told him that I said something. I talked to J and he said that was total BS and R is manipulating what J is saying again. R is also trying to force feed J ****, like he forgot about the promise and we should really blame K (being me). Well J is my good friend and he doesn't want to see my life go down the toliet and knows that R is the real mastermind behind this plot. Now, all I have to do is wait until C or R tell my girlfriend about this whole scenerio and my life will official go down in a blaze of glory.

Well, thanks for sitting through my little rant. Now lets all pay our respects.

R.I.P.
FF7 Vincent
1985-2003

[Corey]

Sounds like one of those... Problems.

This is a perfect example of how gossip is bad.

[Guest Forbidden One]

[color=blue]I could barely understand half of what you were saying could you space that out a bit? As for your dilema the little bit I did understand sounds like you've been put into a situation you didn't want to get involved in the first place. Sadly there is not much you can do about this but try to explain the situation to your girlfriend, and hope everything blows over. However for the time being I would stay away from R and C since this is the root of where the problems are steming. [/color]

[The (Sic) Shape]

You had me...and you lost me. But I read this over and over until I could find out what was going on.

I can see that your good friends with J and C but you should never tell another friend is screwing over another friend. By telling him that, you screwed over another friend's trust and eventually none of them are gonna talk to you. And on top of that, you're at risk with your girlfriend.

The only thing thats gonna save you now is if your friends and girlfriend decide to forgive you. But I say the chances are pretty slim.

[CaptainInvictus]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by FF7 Vincent [/i]
[B]Alright first thing is first. I have a friend and we will just call him J. He has a sister we will call C and she has a boyfriend who is also J's friend, we will call him R.

Okay, so my friend J is friends with R. R and C have been eyeing each other since J and R became friends. Well, R went out with one of C's best friends and that made her mad. Then a while later, C started feeling depressed because she couldn't find anything. R and C didn't want to hook up without J's concent. So they finally got it, R broke up with C's friend and then about 5 minutes later R and C were an official couple. They have been going out for a couple of months now and J is growing speculative. R and C both promised to J that they weren't going to do anything sexual. Well, they lied, and they told me about their exploits. J started speculating them of doing stuff and he didn't like it one bit. Despite the fact that J and R are friends, J still doesn't trust him because R is the kind of guy that is only in relationships for either sex or someone to cling to. Well, last night, I was over and J's house and he was talking about confronting R to pick between him and C. He has good cause to believe that they were doing something so he wanted to know if I knew anything. Of course I did and I wasn't going to tell him. That was until he told me how much R is manipulative and lies on a constant basis. Now, I am friends with C as well, and I see her as a younger sister. I don't want to see her hurt and the stories I heard about R increased this feeling. I had no choice but to tell J about what I knew. I just told him not to mention me at all because C and R talk to my girlfriend and I didn't want her to be dragged into this too. That would be the last thing that my girlfriend would need, because she is slightly unstable. Anyway, Today, J confronted R and C about it. J told them that he knew that they were doing stuff and R pulled this BS out of his rear about how he would just be nothing to either of them. J didn't want C to be hurt like that so he they all "made up" and are cool now. Okay, here is when it gets tricky. C and R knew that someone told J about what they did and their fingers automatically point to me. I try to play dumb and not lead on that I told him. Now C said that she is forgiving and it might take a while but she will forgive the liar, either me or J. R on the other hand blames me right away, said I ruined everything and now hates me more then ever. I tried to convince him that J figured it out on his own but he isn't buying it. Also, R lied to me and told me that J told him that I said something. I talked to J and he said that was total BS and R is manipulating what J is saying again. R is also trying to force feed J ****, like he forgot about the promise and we should really blame K (being me). Well J is my good friend and he doesn't want to see my life go down the toliet and knows that R is the real mastermind behind this plot. Now, all I have to do is wait until C or R tell my girlfriend about this whole scenerio and my life will official go down in a blaze of glory.

Well, thanks for sitting through my little rant. Now lets all pay our respects.

R.I.P.
FF7 Vincent
1985-2003 [/B][/QUOTE]

"Do you understand the words that are coming out of my mouth?"

"Man, NOBODY understands the words that come out of your mouth!"

:raspberry

Well, looks like you're up **** creek without a paddle. My condolences. Maybe you could murder R and hide the body?

[Ravenstorture]

[color=darkgreen][font=gothic]Well, from what I got, you're life really isn't that bad at all. Firstly, you rid yourself of R, who is a pathetic lying scumbag and who you really shouldn't have around anyway, you got him away from C, which prevented her from being hurt any more, you told the truth to J and I'm sue he respects you more now, you were forgiven by C, which is good, and if you're girlfriend is worth anything she too will realise this and your life will be fire-proof. R is out of the picture, C and J are safe and soon to be happy. The truth is out and you saved the day, you've no need to worry about your g/f finding out.

But then again, I may have not understood also....[/font][/color]

[Harry]

J should kill both C and R and then shoot himself. Also next time you do a story like this, use some names. It makes things simpler.

[Guest dayday]

Ok, I would say this. Tell R and C the truth that you did tell j about them. Then tell C that you didn't want her to get hurt since she is almost a sister to you. R will probably get mad and pull more than BS from behind his back and try to kill you. Get him to calm down and slowly explain everything to R and C. Get C and J to talk about things and see if they're still cool. When they're done talk to J and see how he's changed if any, then talk to C and see if she's if any. Make sure R isn't going to kill you since he's mad at you for ratting them out and if he is, make little contact with him, but still some to make it seem like you aren't avoiding him.

If that confuses you then sorry. Best I could come up with anyway.

[wild thang]

okay, why would your g/f be mad at you for knowing what r and c did and telling j the truth? c could have been hurt by r if she tried to resist what r was wanting to do to her. r has reason to be mad at you because you betrayed his trust in you, but j would have found out eventually, confronted r, and if r is really that manipulative, he would have told j that you knew all along, so j would have been mad at you for not telling him what you knew then.

whoa, confused myself...

[Sara]

[size=1]*stares*

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Okay. Erhm.

Talk to C (when R isn't around.) Explain that you were worried about her, and apologize for lying. Profusely.

I don't see how, exactly, your girlfriend comes into this. I suppose if you're afraid someone else is going to talk to her about it, you should do so yourself.

And, yeah. Next time you have a soap opera you'd like to relate, use some names. /[/size]

[eleanor]

[size=1] Uh...I can't beleive I actually understood that. Try using names, it's probably a 1/20000 chance that we know them.

You know, about three other people have given you good ideas of what you should do. The problem is having the courage to act them out.[/size]

[Ben]

The truth hurts, but your teeth can be broken if you lie through them too much. :p

Tell them all what happened. It may stir things up at first, but in the end it should be all right. Explain your reasons and base them on what [I]you[/I] think of the people involved, not what you've heard about them.

If you actually [I]try[/I] this and it doesn't work, I take no repsonsibility. It was Evil Ben's fault. :shifty: