Bullies.

[Ryoko T.D.C.]

Is there someone at your school who just won't stop picking on you? Does he/she (or it) throw things at you? Does [I]it[/I] bother you and your friends?

If you said yes to all of these questions, then you went through the samething as me. The boy that made my life a living hell is gone now, but he still bugs me.

Heres something he did to me, one day i was minding my own bussnes, eatting my lunch, when Matt, the b******, comes and throws a WET TAMPON in my face!!!!

Now he's in high school, but now my friends make fun of me saying he likes me. YUCK!!!

[Harry]

Hahaha tampon face. Anwyay no, never had that happen to me. Honestly I would've broken the guys nose if he did that to me.

[klinanime1]

I fought a lot when I was younger, so no one really picks on me a lot. Looking like a former senior helped too.

[Tix]

No it never happened to me even if I had many freinds with me to back me up, there weren't bullies really at my school so..yeah well it's a good thing that he's gone but if he'll come back just tell your big brother to break his face...no no just joking well if he still comes to your school just tell someone....hope he won't

[Zen]

I havn't been in any fights since i moved to where i live now. Its been about a year. On several occasions i almost did, but the person who wanted to figth never initiated so it didn't happen. Everyone else who made fun of me was either my freinds which we did that to each other and i revitalized the "Breath Joke", or this little punk kid to whom if i appraoched he would run for his life. I guess i'm just the likable type.

[vegeta rocker]

yeah sure for a few years about 3 i got picked on. But then the way i dress became cool and i was an idol.
No matter what counselors and school teachers say don't ignore them. Then they just keep at it until they get to you.
Least he's gone, for now....................
If he had done that to me i would have calmly asked why he enjoys going through his mommy's things. I would also imply that he buys teddys.

[Shinmaru]

I used to get picked on all the time at Elementary School but it was never anything serious. The only people who pick on me nowadays are my friends and I know them so well, it's pretty easy to come back with a comment or two.

[Ben]

No one was big enough to pick on me. :p And it may have been that my presence prevented any other picking on. :D Or maybe my classmates were just too mature. :blulaugh:

[pbfrontmanvdp]

Even though thats cruel and unusual to do to someone....lol i still think that was a little funny. Anyway though, just think of it this way. Just be yourself and dont worry about what people do to you. It all ends in college anyway, people i knew that werent so popular are equal if not better when everyone goes to college. I was pretty popular but i wouldnt act like a bully to other people, since i knew they had feelings of their own. Just dont worry about it and shrug it off, the more you let it bother you the worse it gets.

[Valen]

In elementary, yes, a lot, but we later became friends after I kicked the dude's butt... then came Middle School. I was fine until I met up with Neil... he's cool though... eventhough I was his punching bag for a year. -____-'

[Kevin]

I have had a bully pick on me. The weird thing about it was that he and I were best friends from second grade until about 7th grade. Then, he said that I stole some sports card from him that was supposedly worth like 30 dollars and he started hating me. So since 7th grade, up until I graduated, he was making death threats to me and has been in many mental facilities. But now that I am out of High School, my chances of seeing him are very slim to none.

[Sniglefager]

I have never really had a bully follow me around or anything, but people have been quite nasty to me.

In Elementary school, I was quite popular. Almost everyone from grades 3-6 knew me, and everyone was quite nice. Then this new kid came in 6th grade. He's a HUGE show off. He did back-flips on the soccer field, he bragged about his CD collection, and he was quite mean to my friends and I.

Then, when we went on a field trip to a camp, it turned out that me and one of my best friends were stuck in a cabin with him for a whole night. I wasn't really looking forward to it at all, but then, in the middle of the night, there was a loud thump. We went to go find out what it was, and it turned out he had fallen out of bed. We laughed ourselves hoarse till dawn. The only problem was that he wasn't seriously hurt. That should prove how much I hate him, because I rarely ever wish physical harm on anyone. Ever since that incident, though, he's become some what of a bully. He even ruined my image in 7th grade, and I was some what disliked by almost half the 7th grade. Oh well, as long as I still have my friends, I don't care what kind of stuff he does to me.

[BabyGirl]

[color=deeppink]In 6th and 7th grade I was an easy target to pick on because I was easily upset, and this coerced my friends, er, 'friends' to start rumors that I was a lesbian. Being a 'lesbian' in 7th grade is not a good thing, for that is still a very taboo subject at that age! I was extremely upset and depressed and just wanted to throw things at them all day. The most horrible thing was that they still pretended to be my friend!

Then I learned social skills and I've never been bothered since. In other words, you are all most likely making yourselves easy targets...I learned that the hard way.[/color]

[Ryoko T.D.C.]

Well me and Matt finaly became nice to each other when it was the last week of school. And the only reason he "hated" me was because he thought I was stacking him because my friends were lieing to him saying I knew where he lived and I barrly knew him! Great friends huh!

[Guest Fiasco]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by spotg67 [/i]
[B]Is there someone at your school who just won't stop picking on you? Does he/she (or it) throw things at you? Does [I]it[/I] bother you and your friends?

If you said yes to all of these questions, then you went through the samething as me. The boy that made my life a living hell is gone now, but he still bugs me.

Heres something he did to me, one day i was minding my own bussnes, eatting my lunch, when Matt, the b******, comes and throws a WET TAMPON in my face!!!!

Now he's in high school, but now my friends make fun of me saying he likes me. YUCK!!! [/B][/QUOTE]

Man, if some kid did that to me, I'd beat his face in, then my friends would beat his face in even more, and any of his crackhead friends came near me, myself and my friends would wreck them. I hang out with all the strong kids, haha, so uh, it comes in handy when in fights and it's un-fair. I mean, I can fight my own battle, but if it's un-fair, my friends all jump in. :)

[Ryoko T.D.C.]

I chased him. But I can't do anything about it at my school. And I had the next class with him to! And the class was wood shop. I wanted to hammer a nail into his eye!

[Guest Fly-T]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Fiasco [/i]
[B]Man, if some kid did that to me, I'd beat his face in, then my friends would beat his face in even more, and any of his crackhead friends came near me, myself and my friends would wreck them. I hang out with all the strong kids, haha, so uh, it comes in handy when in fights and it's un-fair. I mean, I can fight my own battle, but if it's un-fair, my friends all jump in. :) [/B][/QUOTE]

I can tell you soft.....Anyways, I only had one bully in my enitre life....it was 7th grade...it was a little short termed...He was tall as heck....(I was 5'8 and a half and i looked UP to him)...He would keep gettin under my skin....and when he gets under it enuff he expects me to bang wit him(fight)...One time i just got tired of it and squared up(gettin' ready ta fight)....We banged for about a good minute or two....I lost, but lost like a man...then he failed out that winter so that was that...
Now-a-days, don't nobody got bullies....Just a WHOLE LOT OF(and i am NOT exaggerating) Gossip, and Beef....Girls waitin' to scrap each otha...boys gettin sum' etc......

[Ryoko T.D.C.]

Well one time my friends got in a cat fight at break. AND I MISSED IT!!!!

[Fall]

I've never had someone that thought he stood over me, in my life. Though in Year Seven, I got into a fight nearly every day. To be honest, I had atleast seven or eight fights a month.

They were all called for. I never got on with half my grade, and the other half I barely liked.

I had one friend, he was as solid as hell. No-one talked to him, and he never talked to no-one. He was damn quiet around me aswell. He had a huge weakness though, girls. He'd put a girl over anything, even his life, in my opinion (take note of the word "my"). Though he still wouldn't talk to a girl. If a girl came up to him, he would nod his head for yes, and hardly speak a murmer. I had to sort of talk for him.. respectively.

Anyway, his name was Jayden. We stood out for each other, even though there was a very big size difference, muscle wise. This one fight I ened up in, un-intentionally, got really big. Most fights lasted for about two to three minutes. This one went for all lunch andinto class.

Jayden was there every step of the way. At the back of the crowd, not a word from him. I was just beaten on my feet, like most others. I could hardly see the dude I was supposed to be hitting, Tristram.

Jayden pushes through the crowd, one hit, and Tristram was down. You could literally hear the thud a mile away. He was out. Everyone was patting Jayden on the back, like every fight-goer does to the winner. Jayden walked away, out the front gate of the school. Not a word.

Anyway, that's supposed to be a message... maybe.. I don't know, a saying? Wherever there's a fight, there's a winner? Feh. I don't know.. Anyway, bullies are usually always cowards. If someone squares up to them, hey'll cowar down, either that.. or they'll beat the **** out of you. There's always the right way out of it, telling the teacher, moving schools, police, AVO's, etc. And there's the wrong right way, getting it over them. Mostly for your own satisfaction, revenge, though it sometimes works, too. Bullies are wither the way they are, because of their reputation (where every single perosn in the school likes them, loves them to death, or won't comment on them), or they're got no friends, only people who follow them around thinking they're all good..

So.. yeah, I probably did have a bully in my life. Maybe a heap of them.. actually, I might have been the bully, myself. Good always comes to those who wait. Or revenge. Either way.

Fights are always good to watch, and to participate in for the winner, yet they're violence, and soon violence will be seen as history.. other ways will be existant to get rid of bullies, hopefully.

Violence is never the right way. Yet sometimes, it's the [i]only[/i] way.

[Guest nemises]

well i dont like to fight but if some one messes with me ill kick thier a**.

[Guest Fly-T]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by nemises [/i]
[B]well i dont like to fight but if some one messes with me ill kick thier a**. [/B][/QUOTE]

You shouldn't really run yo mouth homie....

Fall, that fight would've had a different outcome here....either this Jayden guy could gotten boo'd because he jumped in or other ppol woulddv'e start gettin in...Most of the cats i know that bully aint really scared of anyone who come they way...
EXAMPLE:
This dude i know that be bullyin ppl(Jamal aka J-sizz) was just chillin dis one day....This thug dude that didn't even go to ur school just rolled up on him and was like "get down punk nig*a" J-sizz was shorter than this dude but they banged for a minute....

Anotha bully i knew back around my set(Mad-Ville) named Pacman but his name was Patrick but we called him pacman cuz he was yellow skinned (not like pac-man) and always ran his mouf'....This neighbor was talking to him (they didn't like each other) and the nay-buh slapped him like he wanted to challenge him in a round of slapboxing...Pac didnt even slap him...he just swung with a fist....

[DevilzAdvocate]

at my school i dont really get piked on i dont no why im not a big strong person so im suprised ive neva been a victim, but if i was bullied i dont think i would do anything about it so that would be my fault.

[Wintermute]

I was picked on for a while a few years ago by an enormous jock. It was a pretty stupid thiong to do on his behalf, in the circumstances. He was on the verge of being expelled for various things, including similar acts of bullying (about which our school has a VERY harsh policy) non-attendance, rubbish grades and so on. Normally telling would be the a last resort, but as he was so close to being chucked out I simply told him calmly that if he ever did anything like it again I would see to it that he was expelled.

Nothing happened after that.
To me, anyway. His life has gone sort of haywire. He's stopped playing rugby, so most of his large quantities of muscle have turned to blubber, he's realised that most of the people he thought were friends don't like him, and also that virtually every single girl in town has either met him and hated him or heard about him and have formed negative opinions from their friends. That's not an exaggeration, pretty much every girl in town knows about him.

I normally think of myself as a nice guy, but I have to admit great pleasure at seeing the dumb **** like this.

[rokas]

[color=sienna][font=comic sans ms][b][i]
I was bullied quite heavily.

In second grade this guy moved to our school. At break we all would play in the playground. I think I played hide and seek with that guy, well whatever it was, he soon came up with a new game- he would chace me and beat me up if he cought me.

I moved to a new school the next year. I had a some "problems" (like short temper) and added to that- I was new. Not long after I came to that school the whole class was picking on me. Seriously- every person in my class had done something bad to me in one way or another, even the teacher. She told me to either ignore or fight the bullies. One day I took her advise and fought them. I got a notice for bad behaviour and beaten up even harder. I mean they wouldn't actualy give me black eyes or brake any bones in my body, we were only 9/10 year old then, but believe me after being spat at, kicked, punched and humiliated I was glad to come back to my old school.

I had to move back to the school I used to go to and got bullied again by the same guy who bullied me in the second grade. He was mad I tell you, his dad left him when he was a youngster, and mabe he made few head dives onto cement, because he enjoyed pain no matter if it's inflicted on somebody else or he himslelf. I would like to see those who said thei would beat bullies up try it on that guy. [/color][/font][/b][/i]

[Fall]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Fly-T [/i]
[B]You shouldn't really run yo mouth homie....

Fall, that fight would've had a different outcome here....either this Jayden guy could gotten boo'd because he jumped in or other ppol woulddv'e start gettin in...Most of the cats i know that bully aint really scared of anyone who come they way...
EXAMPLE:
This dude i know that be bullyin ppl(Jamal aka J-sizz) was just chillin dis one day....This thug dude that didn't even go to ur school just rolled up on him and was like "get down punk nig*a" J-sizz was shorter than this dude but they banged for a minute....
[/B][/QUOTE]That's your school, and it sounds like every other school. My school is like that.

Most bullies don't like it when someone stands over them, talks over them, pushes them around. Therefore they take it out on most people they don't like, you'll notice their victims are either stand-outs, or smaller than them. You'll never see a supposed bully trying to take the **** out of someone bigger than them, unless the bully is in the "cool group", and the bigger dude is a stand-out (a "loser" as some may say).

If the bully is surrounded by friends, bigger than their opponent, or just overall "cooler" by reputation, they won't hesitate to take them on, as the victim, the "loser", will be quite frightened by the bully's friends srrounding him, his size, etc.

Reputation plays a major role in bullying in my view.