Burori Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 LOL O.o yes why would you call me junior? anyways I feel that you aren?t really ready for a girlfriend yalborap but if you feel your ready just like emme said all girls love to be treated very nicely and if you end up dating her take it slow. You and her will have a great time together. By the way do you have someone that your trying to go out with yalborap? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest yalborap Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 Yeah. But she was taken, and her boyfriend was an *** who dumped her, and now she won't go out with anyone. Oh well, I might have a chance when school starts up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valen Posted August 21, 2003 Author Share Posted August 21, 2003 Just be nice to her and be there for her. She might just start to like you. ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burori Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 AH the plot thickens. well like I've said to many others talk to her. get her to know you a little better and tell her (if your ready) your feelings about her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest yalborap Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 Well, she knows. But I lie and say I don't like her anymore to keep out of any issues. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burori Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 Well don't lie to her man. If you want her as your girlfriend and she knows you like her. Get her too know you better. show her how sweet and nice you are. make her happy. take her to the mall or to the beach (if there is one near where you or her live) take her to the movies. show her that not all guys are scum Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest yalborap Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 Too damn hard. I need a way to make her like me without doing that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burori Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 Himmm well maybe give her a gift like flowers. or just talk with her. girls don't mind a good talk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valen Posted August 21, 2003 Author Share Posted August 21, 2003 Okay, first off, a relationship isn't easy to make. You can't just wave a wand and make someone love you. These things take some time. Ask her if she likes you like that, if she does, then tell her your true feelings and do [b][i]not[/i][/b] lie to her or yourself. Take it from someone who has been down this road many times, [[strike]Chicks[/strike] Girls [b]hate[/b] it when you lie to them.] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest yalborap Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 But when her friends(who are your friends as well.) are common gossipers, and try and ask her for you, it's not a good idea to admit it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burori Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 Thank you Valen for a second there I thought I was on my own. He's right you know. like I've said many times also, time is a precious and very helpful thing do take advantage of it. (Of time that is^_^) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sniglefager Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Valen [/i] [B]Okay, first off, a relationship isn't easy to make. You can't just wave a wand and make someone love you. These things take some time. Ask her if she likes you like that, if she does, then tell her your true feelings and do [b][i]not[/i][/b] lie to her or yourself. Take it from someone who has been down this road many times, [[strike]Chicks[/strike] Girls [b]hate[/b] it when you lie to them.] [/B][/QUOTE] A wand doesn't work, but I have a feeling that hypnotism would ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest yalborap Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 Even if it did work, I don't want to hurt her in any way. So hhypnotysm out the window. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burori Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 Well tell them not to do what they do. tell her the truth for one never I repeat NEVER hide your feelings from someone you like. it only winds up hurting either you or someone else in the end Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest yalborap Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 Now you got me motivated. I should tell her first day of school. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burori Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 *sigh* just give it time my friend. nothing can really go bad unless you make it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest yalborap Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 Good point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burori Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 ^_^ Glad to help you out. Ah I wish I was 11 again unfortunatly I'm 17 helping out people who has problems I've already faced in life. I love this job. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valen Posted August 21, 2003 Author Share Posted August 21, 2003 Sorry dude, I can't get online as much right now (with school starting up monday, bleh). Good luck and, above all else, be yourself. If someone doesn't like you for you, they're not worth the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burori Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 Alright thanks for the heads up valen. good luck in school. well looks like im in charge of helping you guys/gals out so if anyone needs advice im here to give it and i will do my best to help you all out. so who needs advice? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valen Posted August 22, 2003 Author Share Posted August 22, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Heaven's Cloud [/i] [B]Edit: Sorry Valen is 15...nearly 16...which raises their experience to...just slightly above nil. Don't get me wrong, your advice is every bit as good as, if not better than, my advice for every one that has requested relationship advice in this thread (which is: Shoot yourself in the head!) [/B][/QUOTE] Haha, I could give that advice, but then who would I be able to manipulate into becoming another of my [strike]evil minions[/strike] friends? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burori Posted August 22, 2003 Share Posted August 22, 2003 Huh evil minion friends!!!! Ah man and I was here to help people out with there problems, *sigh* oh well. So who needs help in their relationship or needs advice to get that lucky girl or guy to like you or to notice you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kumori Urufu Posted August 22, 2003 Share Posted August 22, 2003 [SIZE=1][COLOR=darkblue]I have a somewhat complicated issue. There's this girl who I've liked for over a year. I asked her out to the Valentine's Day dance at school, but she laughed and thought it was a joke. I told her it wasn't and then she decided to avoid me for nearly a month. She didn't even try to talk to me until she got a boyfriend. I ended up going to the end-of-the-year dance thingy with a girl who liked me, but I had no idea of it at the time because of my one-track mind. I still like the one girl, but her boyfriend is also my friend. I can't think of anything to do that would result in everything being ok between the three of us. I've tried to tell her how I really feel before, but our mutual friends always seem to get to her first (stupid nosy gossipper people) and misquote what I said way back in February. The worst part is, When I found out the other girl liked me, I realized I sorta had feelings for her too, but by then, it was too late. She got mad at me because I apparently wasn't picking up her 'signals' and so now I all alone, confused and helpless. Can you think of anything I should do? Thanx anyway[/COLOR][/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fiasco Posted August 22, 2003 Share Posted August 22, 2003 Well, you could help me, because right now I'm confused. Heh. There's this girl that I met on the first day of classes, shes really nice and really pretty. She always says Hi to me, and when she sees me in the hall, she smiles and just walks past me, like keeping eye contact and everything. >.< But I don't know if she likes me or not, I really can't tell. Normally I can, but this time, I can't. So umm, help? Is she just being nice or does she like me or what? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burori Posted August 22, 2003 Share Posted August 22, 2003 Humm from what the discription you've given me I'd say that she could be intrested but also I too can't tell you. the only person who really could would be her. My advice would be talk to her get to know her better. Maybe she does like you (more than wanting to be friends) or maybe she's just being nice. To tell you the truth girls are a very complex species of human kind just as man's pride. Talk to her man, but like I've said to many people don't I repeat DON'T KEEP YOUR HOPES UP!! It's the worst thing to do to yourself. The reason for that is because if you do for some reason ask her out and she might laugh in your face or say your not my type you'll just get hurt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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