stardust Posted September 4, 2003 Share Posted September 4, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Hells Fire [/i] [B]I need help a girl at school likes me, but she's a Freshman and I'm a Senior. In my state its illegal to date someone that younger than you, but she was so cute and nice so I dated her anyway and she eventually became my girlfriend. We tried it for a while and it didn't work(I broke it off because me and my High School Sweet Heart made up and I still loved her). She was really sad and went crazy talking about taking her back. Now the girl is blabbing about our secret relationship and the teachers suspect that she was my girl, but don't have enough proof yet to bring me in. I asked her to stop talking but she's blackmailing me and says she won't stop until we are together again. How do I keep her from talking? [/B][/QUOTE] What do u mean it's illegal to date sumbody younger than you?How can that be,I'm going out with a sophomore. How can a law keep you apart?You've got to be kidding....explain this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest rich Posted September 4, 2003 Share Posted September 4, 2003 I know its illegal to commit sexual relations with someone undera certain age but...ummm, so which state do you live in anyway hells fire? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pagan Posted September 4, 2003 Share Posted September 4, 2003 I live in a subarb of Atlanta Georgia and their it is illegal for a 18 year old to date, well not date but have sex with some one like 5 years younger then them. She is 13 and I'm 18 and we go to one of those school where your in High School at 8th grade. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drix D'Zanth Posted September 4, 2003 Share Posted September 4, 2003 Here's the tough reality here Hells Fire. If you have sex with her, and : -her parents find out. and/or -you break up with her and/or -she doesn't really want to, before during or after the actual process and/or -someone finds out and/or -either of you admit to it. You will go down for Statiatory Rape. Not good at all, you will probably end up for a few years in a state prison, or fed institution. Don't have sex, or if you do, make it so damn good that she wouldn't dare bring up charges. ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valen Posted September 4, 2003 Author Share Posted September 4, 2003 Heh, then it should be easy. You can hold out a few years i'm sure. But remember, as long as you two didn't have any sexual relations going on, she has nothing. You need evidence, which is what she does not have, correct? Sorry everyone, too much stuff going on at once around here. ssjBrolli, glad to have ya back! Stardust, thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie Posted September 5, 2003 Share Posted September 5, 2003 Hey Kitty, Babe, if he's trying to talk to you then that is a sign that he is interested and you should try talking back. Being shy towards him adn not talking to him is not a good sign to him. Shying away gives him the idea that you're either taken or not interested..trust me, it has happened to me.. Just talk about normal things like school, adn what he likes to do for fun, little stuff like that until you are comfortable being around him...then the talk of relationships will come later, maybe not right away but it takes time...pm me and let me know how it goes okay? If anyone needs advice pm me or email me, I don't mean to brag but I have been great at giving advice, just let me know the situation and what you need to have answered Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelus_Necare Posted September 5, 2003 Share Posted September 5, 2003 I've had an interesting couple of days as far as relationships (or lack thereof) goes. it all started when I met John about a year ago, he seemed to be the nicest guy I have ever met. Knowing me I instantly fell (wich isn't really common of me) for him. This little game of flirtation and denial went on for a good year untill three months ago. John had told me that there would probably never be a chance for us, but that was the problem, he said "probably", and I'm the kind of person who needs to hear "no" or be led on for another three months. John and I are really close and what I found out a few days ago made me livid. It turns out he's seeing some girl over the internet who lives in texas no less named Danna. I wouldn't have had a problem with it if he hadn't gone out of his way so I wouldn't know about it. His excuse was that it didn't seem to be going anywhere so he wasn't going to tell me, yet it was going somewhere alright.... This really hurt me and turned into a good half-hour screaming match on the phone, and then another ten minute fight when I went to his house to get my dvd's back. But we said our peace, finalized things, and I appologized (why I have no idea) for being a complete ***** as he put it. Now things have cooled off and he's being really quiet, I told him to do what makes him happy, but this little fling wouldn't last for long and I would do my best to be there for him when I can. Long and complicated huh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlie Levoy Posted September 5, 2003 Share Posted September 5, 2003 Listen Angelus if you to really care for each other have something really special than eventually he will come back to you. It doesn't matter who he's seeing at the time his heart will tell him that you two should be together unless it's not as seriouse as it seems. Then it's a 50% chance that you two just remain as friends and help out each other when needed and their's a 50% chance that you get back together. At least you still have a chance though.;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie Posted September 6, 2003 Share Posted September 6, 2003 Angelus, It sounds to me like you need to forget about him..If he was going out of his way to keep that from you, when supposedly you 2 were good friends, then I wouldnt worry bout him..He sounds like a jerk..The way he's acting isnt what you deserve adn that's no way to treat a good friend..Besides, there are better fish in the sea.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Posted September 6, 2003 Share Posted September 6, 2003 Well, Angelus, it seems that he was cheating more on Danna by flirting with you (although that depends on your definition of "flirting"). He might have been trying not to hurt you by not telling you about Danna, although he could just as easily be a jerk. I'm just assessing all possibilities, here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Scarface89 Posted September 7, 2003 Share Posted September 7, 2003 hi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burori Posted September 7, 2003 Share Posted September 7, 2003 [SIZE=1][FONT=century gothic]Scarface please don't leave any spam on this thread. It's doing a marvelous job staying on this long. As for your predictament Angelus_Necare Just let him go. It's ovious he isn't right for you. give it time. you'll find the right one. That's what I'm doing right now ^_^ And yes I know time sucks (sorry if that seems offensive)[/FONT] [/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlie Levoy Posted September 7, 2003 Share Posted September 7, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by ssjBrolli [/i] [B][SIZE=1][FONT=century gothic] That's what I'm doing right now ^_^ And yes I know time sucks (sorry if that seems offensive)[/FONT] [/SIZE] [/B][/QUOTE] Hey what's that suppose to mean.:therock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burori Posted September 7, 2003 Share Posted September 7, 2003 I meant in real life my love. I love you with all my heart and soul. You are my Sky and My heavens. You are my very soul. please don't hurt me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valen Posted September 7, 2003 Author Share Posted September 7, 2003 Angelus, you did right. Some people see internet relationships as just a play thing and it wouldn't bother your partner, girlfriend/boyfriend, etc in the least, but for those of you who think that, it's a complete lie. Those that really care about you in that way will be very hurt if you do something like that. Just a tip. But in all seriousness, what you did was exactly what you had to. Don't let this little thing hold you back at all. Go meet other people and move on with life. Happiness is waiting for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie Posted September 7, 2003 Share Posted September 7, 2003 Yes, happiness is out there...I know it doesn't seem like it and you don't want to believe it, but it is..maybe where you least expect it...I know how you feel cuz I am in the same position you are..The worst thing is what we are feeling now and it's hard to get over it..I myself am struggling through my unhappiness and well I guess depression.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burori Posted September 7, 2003 Share Posted September 7, 2003 Exactly the way you should see it is. If you arnt together now then you werent meant for him and he wasnt meant for you. Theres prince charming out there looking for you all you have to do is find him. You'll do fine though. I'm at the moment (in real life so dont hurt me Charlie) looking for my princess to save and spend the rest of my life with. It takes time though just let time and patience happen and you'll find him. I garanty it ^_^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlie Levoy Posted September 8, 2003 Share Posted September 8, 2003 Sorry about this post it has absolutely nothing to do with the present. I need to make sure I'm on the last page from now on.Silly me.^_^! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Magdalena Posted September 8, 2003 Share Posted September 8, 2003 Angelus... were you even going out with him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie Posted September 8, 2003 Share Posted September 8, 2003 *Squints in confusion at Charlie's question* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelus_Necare Posted September 8, 2003 Share Posted September 8, 2003 thanks for everything everyone, I've had the weekend to cool off about it and things are running a lot smoother now. John and I still aren't talking but I said my peace to him and whatever he decides to do is in his hands. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burori Posted September 8, 2003 Share Posted September 8, 2003 Glad to have help. We are always here to help you out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie Posted September 8, 2003 Share Posted September 8, 2003 Not a problem babe..If you have anymore trouble be sure to let us know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Magdalena Posted September 8, 2003 Share Posted September 8, 2003 Aren't you going to answer my question Angel? Were you going out with him? Was he your boyfriend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drix D'Zanth Posted September 9, 2003 Share Posted September 9, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Angelus_Necare [/i] [B]thanks for everything everyone, I've had the weekend to cool off about it and things are running a lot smoother now. John and I still aren't talking but I said my peace to him and whatever he decides to do is in his hands. [/B][/QUOTE] Good idea :) I hope your concience is clear, I am glad to have helped. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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