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ok, theres this dude in my pe class, and man is he hot! i know his name is raymond and we've been in the same class for...well, this is the second week=.=;; today my way stupid::i wuvs ya kat!:: friend told him about my crush on him. i ran away before he could responed...and yeah. i would love to get to know him better and stuff, but im afraid of 'coming off too strong' as i've heard i do...
yeah, so help?


my friend just said she doesn't think he heard that part so...
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Humm well to tell you the truth. It's not a bad thing to go up and talk to him. I suggest take him somewhere private and talk to him. have you noticed anything different about his behavior towards you? Has he started to notice you in anyway?
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Well, my advice to you is just play it off, as if nothing ever happened adn you have NO IDEA as to whats goin on, if he says anything to you then just kinda play along w/his lead and maybe something will happen..he may even tell you that he likes you too...so ya never know, just play clueless..if you need further help just pm me, mkay?
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O.o animangademon are you stealing our customers? lol you know you dont have to work on people all on your own thats why me and valen are here for. If you would like you can be a good part of this thread. (the pay sucks but the works good) lol anyway if your interested. And scrmngfangrl glad we could help. Tell us if anything good (or bad) happens. we will be here to comfort you if you need it.
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dude, i LOVE you guys!!!::grabs a n s and sqeezes to death::
thanks so much for your advice.
i went up and talked to him during pe. he has such a sexy voice. and he draws. so we talked and watched him draw. he's really cool, if you over look the fact that he doesn't really have a clue what anime is=.=;; i don't think he heard about the crush. thank goodness. yeah, it was really cool.
thanks again, i love you guys more than you know!
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What you should do when you like someone is flirt with them and she how they take it. See how they react to you. If you become friends with him,even better! Just don't get too close as far as being friends goes,I know that never ends well.Try to stand close to him and see if he moves away or sumthing. Also,did you know if somebody thinks you're attractive their pupils will dialate when they see you? I heard that somewhere awhile ago.Anyways,I hope things work out well with you and Raymond.
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Guest ~(Neo-Bebop)~
OMFG! MY GIRLFRIEND JUST DUMPED ME! WWWAAAAHHHHHH!!!

not. Anyways, I want you guys to tell what does love feel like?

Is it:
1. When you feel buterfly's in your stomach ( it's an expresion ) and you feel a bunch of warmth and happiness swarm over you.
2. Or, when you just want to hold the person tight and kiss them until they die. lol

I..Just need to know, being a 13 year old that is more mature, yet less mature than everyone else. I need to know becuase i felt the #1 and #2 about this one girl..Then, i found out all she wanted was sex and it went away.. I made her really mad when she broke up with me, heheheh
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update:just cause!^^
dude, i told my friend some things i shouldn't have...yeah and she told him!!! he was kinda cool about it, man, KAT YOU ARE SO DEAD!!!
well, we talked again today, joined by some other people who should have stayed away! he's messing around with his friends girl::sniff:: yeah, i think the whole subject got broght up cause stupid kat kept saying crap about us together, she should have stayed away! yeah, but he didn't come out and say, first he asked if i had ever messed around with a friends b/f. what am i supposed to make of that?

i get 1&2 with Raymond, and finally got my heart to slow down. man, he is so cool!
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I'm 13, but i have a pretty good knowign of it. Atleast, alittle. I felt love once, or what i thought was love. I had this girl freind and i felt tottally happy when i was around her and it was great. But, we seperated. But i got over her quickly when i found another girl i liked. So, i guess you could say when you are holding her and never want to let go. Just to stay like that forever.
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Okay Neo Bebop, when you are in love with someone it's when you feel affection towards that person. Like if they start crying (even though your not family) you just want to reach out and hold them and let them cry on your shoulder (so to speak).

When their not crying you still want to hold them and show them that you care and let them know that to you they are special.

That is some what how you know when your in love, but the holding and kissing them till they die is also a sign to.

Scrmngfangrl, I hate to say this, but it either means that he has messed around with his bf's girl, that he is doing so in the present, or (hopefully) nothing at all.

Talk to him more about it and see wether or not you can get a clear answer on this.;)
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O.o dude your getting women to want to do it to you at the age of 13? tell me your secret. lol just kidding. no one can truly say what love is. love can be a show of you about to fly when you see that person. love can also be a strong feeling to jumpp the person you like and hug him/her to death (not literally)
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First scrmngfangrl, I agree w/Charlie..talk to him but don't get too close to him, cuz if he messes w/gurls who are in a relationship what makes you think that he won't mess around w/gurls if you 2 hook up..it sounds to me he can't be trusted, as of now anyways...but just keep talking to him, ppl change so just keep being friends and I advise, at the moment, don't take it any further...

As for you Neo, dude, you're 13..there is going to be ALOT more opportunities to fall inlove..you may be feeling lust or infatuation and how old is she, she's just wanting sex? Then don't bother hun, you are TOO, and I do stress too, young to be worrying about sex..there is sooo much more to live for and there are many more girls who will want you for who you are..

But ssjBrolli is right, no one knows the "true" meaning of love..There are so many interpretations on love..everyone has their opinions and thoughts on what love is..It's a different feeling for each person..some ppl feel butterflies, some just want to hold and kiss their partner, some just want to be w/someone, some can't stop thinkin of a person..the list is infinative..
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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by scrmngfangrl [/i]
[B]update:just cause!^^
dude, i told my friend some things i shouldn't have...yeah and she told him!!! he was kinda cool about it, man, KAT YOU ARE SO DEAD!!!
well, we talked again today, joined by some other people who should have stayed away! he's messing around with his friends girl::sniff:: yeah, i think the whole subject got broght up cause stupid kat kept saying crap about us together, she should have stayed away! yeah, but he didn't come out and say, first he asked if i had ever messed around with a friends b/f. what am i supposed to make of that?

i get 1&2 with Raymond, and finally got my heart to slow down. man, he is so cool! [/B][/QUOTE]


AH poor girl come here. *hugs her* It's okay. I'm sure hes getting presured thats all. has he dated anyone before? tell me more about whats going on and ill help you out here.
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sorry, guys. Just had to ask. As i said, i'm a bit more mature than most people my age. I know i'm going to have tons of oppurtunities to fall in love but, hell. It wouldn't hurt to know what it feels like, would it? heh.
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