vegeta rocker Posted October 10, 2003 Share Posted October 10, 2003 Do you believe in bad luck/karma? I have been having bad luck for awhile and keep cutting and bruising myself. My roommate thinks it's because of this guy i liked. See there was this guy (isn't it always a guy to bring bad luck) and i really really liked him. Well i found out that he was engaged and i felt horrible. I liked him that much. I couldn't think about much else. I had never seen her so my roommate came to the conclusion she looked like jabba the hut. Well nearly every day after that i told her he wasn't going to get married, i just knew he wasn't. Well he later asked me to help him with a project, which i did, and he came to me the next day we would work on it and said he and his girlfriend had broken up. That very day i hurt my foot while on the project. The next week i got a NERV anime pin through my finger. He asked me if i had an eraser and when i reached in my bag to get it it stabbed me! Then just a few weeks ago i cracked my thumbnail halfway down and had to pull most of it off. Now he acts sarcastic and arrogant with me, even more than usual since he is kind of a jerk anyway. So is this bad luck brought on by wishing them to break up constantly? Or is it just a coincidence? Keep in mind i wished it every day for about 2 months, and i meant it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
satan665 Posted October 10, 2003 Share Posted October 10, 2003 I think maybe you are just so caught up with the idea of him, that you are losing focus. Basically you are thinking too much about him and not nearly enough about whats going on around you. It understandable but I think it is just making you clumsy. I do believe in Bad luck and Karma a little, but I don't think that you have it in this case! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyo no Ryu Posted October 10, 2003 Share Posted October 10, 2003 I kept wishing hurricane Issabel would hit my house. When it did it was great fun. I kept screaming hail the hurricane. My power went out for 6 months. Ive had bad luck all my life but it got worse last summer when I broke a mirror... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dagger Posted October 10, 2003 Share Posted October 10, 2003 I don't believe in bad luck. If you feel unlucky, you'll probably end up [i]being[/i] unlucky. It seems to me that people like to blame their mistakes on bad luck rather than taking responsibility for them, as they should. Superstition is really just a kind of self-fulfilling prophecy. You'll be a lot more relaxed if you don't worry about the negative effects of, say, walking beneath a ladder. I do believe in karma, but not as a supernatural force. Behaving inconsiderately and cruelly towards others will eventually come back to haunt you, no matter how long you get away with it at first. Conversely, kindness is usually rewarded, if only by an increase in your personal satisfaction and happiness. ~Dagger~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pagan Posted October 11, 2003 Share Posted October 11, 2003 I don't believe in luck at all ,I believe in fate. Everything is already planned out and there is nothing we can do about it. We can't stop the future from happening all we can do is enbrace it. Some people do have bad fate though. They are fated to die or lose $100 or something. This will happen whether they have "good luck" or bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie Posted October 11, 2003 Share Posted October 11, 2003 [color=indigo]Don't worry vegeta rocker, I am right along there with you. But the guy that I love is still with his girlfriend and they are moving to Georgia in 2 weeks. Me and this guy have known eachother for over a year now, and we've been through hell. Now he's moving away. I always wish that he would leave his girlfriend here and take me with him instead, but as the saying goes "If it wasn't for bad luck, I wouldn't hav any luck at all." I have tried extensively to get over him by seeing other guys, but it doesn't work out. I try to ignore him, it only makes it worse. If I act as if nothing is wrong, it makes it worse. I will be happy with him one minute and then I will think about him moving with his girlfriend, and I grow angry and depressed. People create their own problems, and it hurts to think that to myself because I should have stopped this situation a long time ago. But it wasn't entirely my fault. I believe in bad luck/karma and fate. You reap what you sow and everything happens for a reason. The both intertwine, in my opinion. [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vegeta rocker Posted October 11, 2003 Author Share Posted October 11, 2003 thanks animangademon, yeah it totally bites. But now my bad luck seems to be letting up a bit. I actually hope they get back together since it seemed so devastating to him. Long as he's happy, doesn't mean i have to like it though. Maybe it is just me, i will try and think more positively from now on. By the way, i just dropped a can of very heavy dog food on my toes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted October 12, 2003 Share Posted October 12, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Hells Fire [/i] [B]I don't believe in luck at all ,I believe in fate. Everything is already planned out and there is nothing we can do about it. We can't stop the future from happening all we can do is enbrace it. Some people do have bad fate though. They are fated to die or lose $100 or something. This will happen whether they have "good luck" or bad. [/B][/QUOTE] All people die. I simply can't wait untill you experiance a life-shattering event and begin to question your belief, for fate is something I can't make sence of. If everthing is planned out, what's it for? What is the use of fating a small child to starve to death on the street, or a twenty year old man to die of brain cancer? Or, for that matter, why fate Einstein to create the Atomic bomb? It killed millions of people, and i know he didn't make it for that reason so please don't bring it up. Anyway, on to my answer to the original question. I don't believe luck just happens. I believe you can make your own luck through hard work. Just as you make your own bad luck by not working hard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vegeta rocker Posted October 12, 2003 Author Share Posted October 12, 2003 I think luck and fate go hand in hand. Maybe it is your fate to have good or bad luck in your lifetime. Or really what we see as luck is just the product of our own choices. Like my roommate, she failed some classes. That wasn't bad luck, she didn't pay enough attention to school. It was the inevitable result. What is happening with me is not like that. I haven't altered my behavior in the least and yet these things continue to happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie Posted October 12, 2003 Share Posted October 12, 2003 [color=indigo][i]This one's going to be short, so please don't get angry with mods.. About you always getting hurt...maybe you're just a clutz:p It's okay, I am a clutz too. I run into, trip over, and fall over anything, even if it's moving. And this proves that Friday the 13ths are truly bad luck days. It was 6 years ago, 6th grade I was leaning off my to get a pen and I toppled over, taking the desk with me...Yeah, yeah, laugh it up people.[/color][/i] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delian Posted October 12, 2003 Share Posted October 12, 2003 I always tell my friends who have issues similar to yours that not everything is about them.... You really must hold yourself in such high regard to think that you could make something happen, like ending someone's relationship just by wishing it so... Honestly, no one is that talented. I suggest you stop stressing youself out on all the negative stuff that's been happening lately and focus on any positive issues and experiences that come your way....no matter how insignificant they might seem.:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vegeta rocker Posted October 12, 2003 Author Share Posted October 12, 2003 I never said i made their relationship end. I said maybe just because i wished it would i brought bad upon myself. If i had the power to end the relationship i wouldn't feel bad at all. Okay vegeta rocker think posistive thoughts......... this would be much easier if i didn't see him every day. bleh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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