Have you....

[Amity]

Have you ever felt so needed? As if you want someone to be with you and for tghem to never parrish from your life? My mum died last night....please tell me....how did you feel? Right now...I feel nothingness....

[Kanariya]

Oh...oh man that's hard to hear. Sorry about the loss, may she rest in peace.
I feel needed once I am hurt. I always wish my friends were there; they always cheer me up and make me feel better. When we all die, I hope we will have a good time in afterlife.

[Guest .h4ck]

im so sorry to hear about that, you will feel sad and empty for a while but it eventually passes. no one said life was fair or good, you just got to face it head on, or you will be taken over and fall in despair for the rest of your life.
if you dont feel well, i find that being with friends helps alot, and keep your mind busy.

sorry if i just upset you more, its not the intended purpose of this post, its just advice.

once again im very sorry to hear about your mom.

[the_fizz]

[COLOR=royalblue]I know how it feels to loss some one like that you see I lost my son when he was born. It was about two years ago and that the pain will never goes away fully but it will get easier to live again in time. I know that you might not think that now, but that old saying time heals all wounds really is true. Just take the time you need grieve (cry, be anger, ect.) and don?t fight it. Best wish in your time of need.
THE FIZZ[/COLOR]:wigout:

[Oukan05]

I'm so sorry about your mother. I hope you'll be alright.

The only time I felt needed was when I'm hurt. Everytime, I would go walking with a sad look on my face. My family and friends can always tell what's wrong and always come to help. This made me feel better. It made me feel like I was never alone in the first place.

I, too, had loses in my family. Last year, my uncle passed on November and my aunt passed after Christmas. I was devistated, but my dad always tells me that they're in a better place where they will never suffer. He is right. I remember everyday that my aunt and uncle are living up there with no pain, sorrow, suffering, and problems.

So, always remember that your mother is in a wonderful place with God; where pain and sorrow will never exist. Her love will always be in your heart and your family's hearts. Always remember that you are not alone. She and God are watching over you; always remember that.

I hope you feel better.:) :angel: :angel:

[Ani_Freak]

[COLOR=indigo]I'm very sorry, as others here, for the loss of your mom.

I, as many others too, have lost very dear relatives in life. I lost my grandparents, lost some uncles, even cousins. The pain will be there, for some time, but eventually, it will lessen a little. The important thing is to know that you loved her, with all your heart and soul, and that now, she is watching over you, as another guardian angel, so you'll be alright from now on.

Try to do some other things, talk with other relatives, friends and collegues. I'm at your service, as I know many others here at OtakuBoards are, for anything you want to talk about. That's what it's all about, support and friendship.[/COLOR]

[COLOR=teal]Take care and God Bless[/COLOR]

[COLOR=red]Ani_Freak[/COLOR]

[Guest rttocs77]

I'm really sorry about your loss; I know how you feel. In my personal experience, the death of someone close to me takes a while to sink in. For me, the first few days (even weeks) are kind of a haze. It's like being in total shock that the part of your brain that gives you grief and sadness temporarily shuts down. I would, in your situation, try to prepare myself for the 'hit.'

[Dagger]

I honestly have no idea what to tell you. I'm not very good at being comforting, but I will say this: you're a wonderful person, and I know that you're strong enough to get through this. I'm so sorry. Please PM me if you ever want to talk about it, and in the meantime, just focus on getting through things day by day. Take care of yourself, Amity.

~Dagger~

[Queen Asuka]

[color=hotpink][size=1]I have no idea how I would react if my mother died, so I know you must be going through hard times, especially if you two were close. But just know that she's always there for you, despite the fact that she's passed on. And whatever you do, find someone to talk to. A friend, a family member, a stranger...but it always helps to be able to talk with someone about the things you are feeling.[/color][/size]

[mangagod]

I have never known the true meaning of family, I dont know my parents and I do fell some what eampty but it has also strenghtinged me. For the times ahead stay strong and dont give in to the worlds influnce so eazly. After all we all never reayyl die if we have ones that still love us. For if there are reacrents of your deeds your memory and soul shall alwas be alive.

[PiroMunkie]

[size=1]Well, I cannot say that I feel sorry for you, because I do not. Not that I have anything against you, I just do not know you enough to feel any real sympathy towards you.

In fact, the only reason I am posting in here is for the sake of variety. I am getting tired of seeing all these "I'm sorry for your loss" comments that seem so very empty. Depending on how long this topic lasts I can bet that most of these people will more or less have forgotten about this in about a month-ish, unless they actually take the time to start talking to you and such. Heck, even I am going to forget about this.

This may seem kind of harsh, but I believe it is better than just another "I'm sorry" post. This is honest, at the very least, no matter how brutal my honesty may be.


People come and people go, as they say. It is the natural process of life for people to die, it happens every day. Thus there is no real point in feeling sorry about it. However, people are social creatures and we make emotional attachments to people, and when these are broken it can be fairly heartbreaking. You just have to get over it. Why should you be sad that she died? You should be glad that she lived. You will always have memories. However these memories should not make you sad that they have stopped, but they should make you happy that you have them. Do not cry tears of mourning, but tears of joy.

Why people make such a big deal out of death is beyond me. Death is cheap. It happens any time, anywhere, to anyone, and in a vast variety of ways. Life is short, death is forever. Cherish the fact that this person got the chance to live. Some people do not even get that chance.

[i]" It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. "[/i][/size]

[XC SpydeR]

I know this goes against the rules, but I give my condolences.

[Amity]

Thanks...Everyone of you. I really appreciate it, really. You know...I do have friends and I will talk to them...right now, I consider each of you a friend for trying to comfort me. Even though I haven't really talked to any of you too much, it still doesn't mean that you aren't my friends. I'm talking to friends right now. And those people, are you guys. Thanks.

[Oukan05]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Amity [/i]
[B]Thanks...Everyone of you. I really appreciate it, really. You know...I do have friends and I will talk to them...right now, I consider each of you a friend for trying to comfort me. Even though I haven't really talked to any of you too much, it still doesn't mean that you aren't my friends. I'm talking to friends right now. And those people, are you guys. Thanks. [/B][/QUOTE]


:angel: Hey, that's what friends are for right? I'm glad you're feeling better. If you need anyone to talk to, feel free to ask. That's what we're here for; and I'm glad to be part if it. Take care; and [COLOR=purple]HAVE FUN FRIEND!!!!![/COLOR] :) :) :)

[Amity]

Hmmm. Thanks.