Justin Posted October 19, 2001 Share Posted October 19, 2001 What do I do? I seem to lose control everytime I turn around. I can't do anything about it because I don't know how. I'm not going to say anything about it on the boards, I'll talk to select people via AIM. But, I just want to know: How do you all deal with extreme grief? Have you ever felt it before? I mean the kind that eats at you from the inside out. I mean the kind that can kill you. It can take you and make you emotionally dead. That is the kind that I speak of... -Justin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mornigndew Posted October 19, 2001 Share Posted October 19, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Justin [/i] [B]What do I do? I seem to lose control everytime I turn around. I can't do anything about it because I don't know how. I'm not going to say anything about it on the boards, I'll talk to select people via AIM. But, I just want to know: How do you all deal with extreme grief? Have you ever felt it before? I mean the kind that eats at you from the inside out... -Justin [/B][/QUOTE] [COLOR=blue]Grief, I hate to be in grief. I don't what to say, because I don't know what happen. When I'm in grief, I told myself that no one care about me, except for myself. Whether I'm happy or sad, it's still me, so get over it. I kind of use hatred to make me feel better, but I wouldn't recomend you to do that.[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shy Posted October 19, 2001 Share Posted October 19, 2001 Grief can overwhelm a person. it happens to me a little too often for it to be huge deal anymore. Just talk to people about how you feel and it will pass. You said AIM people only? I only have MSN, if you do wanna talk to me... [email][email protected][/email] take care... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justin Posted October 19, 2001 Author Share Posted October 19, 2001 I may take you up on that offer. However, not right now. I'm talking to several people already... -Justin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mornigndew Posted October 19, 2001 Share Posted October 19, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Justin [/i] [B]I may take you up on that offer. However, not right now. I'm talking to several people already... -Justin [/B][/QUOTE][COLOR=blue]Hope you feel better[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justin Posted October 19, 2001 Author Share Posted October 19, 2001 Tommorow morning, perhaps. After I am done with tonight. Uh oh..I believe Vaughn just pulled into the drive-way. That means it is time for me to leave... -Justin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*GaLxY-GiRl* Posted October 19, 2001 Share Posted October 19, 2001 [color=red]My life is what I like to call a, Cluster-F*ck. If it's not one thing, it's another. Sometimes I can't escape the grief either. When I'm lucky enough to escape to my room, without being grieved in the present......some idiot has to dredge up the past. "How did he do it again?" ; "Were you seriously_________?" ; "Your life isn't as bad as you make it out to be, .... or is it?" I suggest listening to some classical music; it truely has the power to pacify anyone's emotions. If you're still looking for someone to talk to....IM me(profile.)[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted October 19, 2001 Share Posted October 19, 2001 I honestly can't say I've ever felt extreme grief yet. I'm afraid to.... no one ever close to me has left or died, and I hope that never happens.... and I don't know how I can handle it.... I can barely handle feeling for people whom I love that go through that, let alone myself.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeathKnight Posted October 19, 2001 Share Posted October 19, 2001 i've lost 1 grandmom 2 grandfathers... My sister... i worry about... i havent seen her in... 7 years... My biological mother turned into someone i do not even know anymore... My dad... haha... my biological dad... i have never seen him... My girlfriend moved away to dallas.... Life... haha... what a joke.... As a certain man once said... Life is a roller coaster.... Mine... is a crashing airplane..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Will2x Posted October 19, 2001 Share Posted October 19, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by DeathKnight [/i] [B]i've lost 1 grandmom 2 grandfathers... My sister... i worry about... i havent seen her in... 7 years... My biological mother turned into someone i do not even know anymore... My dad... haha... my biological dad... i have never seen him... My girlfriend moved away to dallas.... Life... haha... what a joke.... As a certain man once said... Life is a roller coaster.... Mine... is a crashing airplane..... [/B][/QUOTE] id like to comfort you Justin and Dk Would you mind taking my name out your sig -thanx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeathKnight Posted October 19, 2001 Share Posted October 19, 2001 eh? you worried that i'm watching you? heh... -.-;;;.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted October 19, 2001 Share Posted October 19, 2001 i know how you feel. someone close to me committed suicide when i was fourteen. i went to my gymnastics class (my passion, my life) to get my mind off of it, but it wouldn't work. i burst into tears in the middle of the floor. my coaches asked what was wrong. i didn't answer, just walked off the floor, & never went back. that night i wrote my first real poem. poetry is good for dealing w/ emotions. it will be good as long as it's real. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeathKnight Posted October 19, 2001 Share Posted October 19, 2001 i can truely say... i have seen too much in life.... to cry... there is too much pain... to cry about... i dont cry anymore.... it doesnt matter anymore... if you get cut... dont cry about it.... for... many more cuts are to come... too many for a lifetime... Too much pain... for a lifetime... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyGirl Posted October 19, 2001 Share Posted October 19, 2001 [color=deeppink]Justin, I'm so sorry I couldn't finish talking to you last night. My mom kicked me offline from her computer when I wasn't supposed to be online in the first place. When she got off, I was too tired to get back on...I'm sorry :( [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justin Posted October 19, 2001 Author Share Posted October 19, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by BabyGirl [/i] [B][color=deeppink]Justin, I'm so sorry I couldn't finish talking to you last night. My mom kicked me offline from her computer when I wasn't supposed to be online in the first place. When she got off, I was too tired to get back on...I'm sorry :( [/color] [/B][/QUOTE] Its perfectly alright. I understand that life is random, therefore, I hold nothing against you... -Justin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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