Guest Sieg Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 Need some help? Got some problems? The docter is in. I will help you with all your problems and all your help needs. Just put some threads of your problems and needs in this post and I get to your threads as soon as possible.lol I'm allways here to help the people in need. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RPGchick Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 My friend called me at my other friend's house. My friend on the phone said that she had lost one of her dogs and she wanted us to come and find it. Unfortunately, I couldn't leave my friend's house because to go anywhere would mean crossing a highway and my stiff mom won't let me. So, we wished her good luck and went on playing outside. A while later, she called back and started yelling at me because she had found her dog as roadkill. She blamed it on us because we couldn't leave the house. Now she's mad at me and my friend because of me. I don't know what to do.I think I just lost one of my best friends. Help? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sieg Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 [quote name='RPGchick']My friend called me at my other friend's house. My friend on the phone said that she had lost one of her dogs and she wanted us to come and find it. Unfortunately, I couldn't leave my friend's house because to go anywhere would mean crossing a highway and my stiff mom won't let me. So, we wished her good luck and went on playing outside. A while later, she called back and started yelling at me because she had found her dog as roadkill. She blamed it on us because we couldn't leave the house. Now she's mad at me and my friend because of me. I don't know what to do.I think I just lost one of my best friends. Help?[/quote] I dont if this will help or not, but maybe you should say that it was all your moms fault that you coudn't leave your friends house and help her find her dog and blame it on her and not blaming this whole mess on you. If I were you, I say that I was really sorry and probaly ask if she wants a new dog or something to make it up to her, well thats what I would if I was in your possition. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan L Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 [quote name='Sieg']I dont if this will help or not, but maybe you should say that it was all your moms fault that you coudn't leave your friends house and help her find her dog and blame it on her and not blaming this whole mess on you. If I were you, I say that I was really sorry and probaly ask if she wants a new dog or something to make it up to her, well thats what I would if I was in your possition.[/quote] Shifting the blame is never good advice. Quite frankly, I had to wonder what kind of advice you'd be offereing when you said "I will help you with all your problems and all your help needs".. and well, I'd suggest that if you're going to make a statement as bold as that then you be sure that you can pull it off without giving tons of bad advice. (Everyone makes mistakes, sure- but some people are foolish to consider even offering something like this. That's not to say that you're a fool, but be careful of making over-bold statements on issues such as this). My personal advice in RPGchick's situation is this: It ISN'T your fault at all. And nor is it your friend's fault. In most people is an inherent need to find blame when things go wrong. Someone (or God) has to be blamed whenever anything goes wrong (However whenever something goes right it's all our own work or good fortune- we're kind of messed up like that), and it's always desirable for it to be someone other than you. The big thing that needs to be accepted in this case is that there is no-one to blame. Really, I think your friend only blames you because inwardly she blames herself. In reality, this is an incident- something which happened, and the only way to move forward is to accept that things have changed, and more importantly to face the hurt and anger rather than simply lash out at others in blame. Now, this isn't so much advice for you, but for your friend, I believe she needs to know this, and I don't know how you might want to approach that. But ultimately, it needs to be accepted that there is no blame, that the loss has happened, and things need to move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ScirosDarkblade Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Yeah, but honestly who here expected any actual "good advice" from Sephiroth of all people? Shame on you Sephiroth for fooling all these people into telling you their secrets and their weaknesses and everything else that you prey upon and all that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sambo Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 Ok Doctor, I've got a problem. I have been experiencing some chronic insomnia as of late. I have incredible trouble trying to get some sleep and just lay there worrying or thinking about stupid stuff like how much I hate someone. Can somebody help me? This is starting to affect my life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baron Samedi Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 [size=1][color=darkred]Doctor, doctor! Mi favorit tv sho waz just canselld and i miss it alot alredy! wot shood I do?!?!1? i dont like the otha tv shows they are soooo gay. For some reason I get the feel that RPGChick was taking the mickey...but whatever. How can you save all of us when, by my calculations, you are about 20 years old, can't spell pour, know, Havoc, devastation, or bowels. Also, you say you are a Biologicial Weapon Researcher. Who's cooking the snapper? I smell fish.[/size][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheShinje Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 Dr. Zeig, I have this problem typing. I am typing some letters around the wrong way, I have mispelt- g-to-n syndrome, where the two letters are subconsiously mixed around by my brain, or is that n-to-g (syndrome?) so sometimes something become somethign, leaving become leavign, lasagne become pasta. Could you help me with this, havign this typign problem really gets me down, i am soo depressed. thanks in advance for your advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vegitto4 Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 See there is this thing called dyslexia.........it does that to people. -_- Anyways, I have that problem as well.Misspelling words by switching letters. Ii misspell just all the time, as well as something, and other words. it just takes a little more effort to look at the keyboard and know what you are typing. Then re-read it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 I killed somebody who kept saying that they could give me advice when they didn't know what they were talking about. What can I do to stop killing people who think they know everything? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Midnight Rush Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 HELP! I have a magic lamp and I don't know how many times to rub it. I think it is a standard magic lamp, but I'm not sure. Your omniscient advice will be appriciated. How many times must I rub my magic lamp to make the genie come out? (It is a 2002 model) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest HEAVY Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 [quote name='Transtic Nerve']I killed somebody who kept saying that they could give me advice when they didn't know what they were talking about. What can I do to stop killing people who think they know everything?[/quote] DON'T KILL THEM. ATLEAST BEAT THE BREAKS OFF OF THEM. BUT DON'T KILLEM . IT JUST AIN'T RIGHT NOW IF YOU DID THAT TO ME? I WOULD KICK YO a** Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sieg Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 [QUOTE=Sambo]Ok Doctor, I've got a problem. I have been experiencing some chronic insomnia as of late. I have incredible trouble trying to get some sleep and just lay there worrying or thinking about stupid stuff like how much I hate someone. Can somebody help me? This is starting to affect my life.[/QUOTE] Well, I kinda have this, but the thing I usualy do at night is ethir count sheep or start dreaming about something I really like, now I dont know if that will work or not but you should try. If it does not work, then PM me if it dosen't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sieg Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 [QUOTE=Shinji]Dr. Zeig, I have this problem typing. I am typing some letters around the wrong way, I have mispelt- g-to-n syndrome, where the two letters are subconsiously mixed around by my brain, or is that n-to-g (syndrome?) so sometimes something become somethign, leaving become leavign, lasagne become pasta. Could you help me with this, havign this typign problem really gets me down, i am soo depressed. thanks in advance for your advice.[/QUOTE] This might sound kinda odd, that defect to, and what I do is type on my keybord and then look at the screen to make sure that I dont have any mistakes (looking at the keybord and checking the screen to make sure that there is no mistakes) and I know that I answered your quetion to Gogetto (sorry if I got it wrong). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sara Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 [size=1]....Wow. This is going nowhere really fast. ....Sieg. *pauses* Welcome to OB. Please don't double post, and watch your run-on sentences. Punctuation is your friend.[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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