He likes me, but I don't like him!

[Ryoko T.D.C.]

[quote name='XBebop']" I jut aw a cop go around the corner. If you keep following me i'll take it as stalking ".[/quote]

[COLOR=Blue]You see, the thing is, my dad IS a cop. :p :rolleyes: Heh, well, acctually, he's a sherif. :p So when I told him about the dude, he was all "no, uh uh. you are NOT going out with him. not unless you go with us and friends."

thanks for the feed back. REALLY. If I see him and he asked to go to the movies again, I'll just flat out say "NO." but nicely. I am not a rude person. (I just have [I]mood swings[/I] .... :D )

Plus good luck with those ladies Dragon W. dude....[/COLOR]

[Chaos]

[QUOTE=Ryoko T.D.C.][COLOR=Blue]I don't like him that way. He is nice, but as a friend. An' I was thinking of the last day of school. I wanted it to be done and over with. Oh, and on the one hand, [B]I AM NOT CONCEITED!!!!!!!!!![/B] :mad: I WAS BEING SARCASTIC!!!! I ALWAYS JOKE AROUND WITH MY FRIENDS AND I ALWAYS SAY THAT!!!! :mad: :mad: :flaming: :flaming:

Cooling down....I'm okay now. I am his FRIEND, but I know he want's to be more then that. Trust me. Okay, I do blame myself for some things. Like not saying no right away. BUT, I don't blame myself for wanting to be his FRIEND. Now I'm not in the happiest of moods, and after reading your post just now, I'm not that much happier. So, thank you very much. :D [/COLOR][/QUOTE]


You have no one but yourself to blame for leading him on, though. It's your own fault for not owning up and telling him you didn't like him like that. You're at fault here; you jerked him around on a lead. Stop complaining and be honest.

And since you were not serious, that would, obviously, mean you are not conceited. So that has no context whatsoever. Please, use common sense next time and stop bitching.

[Guest XBebop]

Now, now Chaos. Don't give the admins another word to filter. -_-

[Ryoko T.D.C.]

[COLOR=Blue] *giggles* Well Chaos, is my fault for wanting to be his friend? No I don't think so. *giggles* [SPOILER]I don't think I'm liking you very much :) *giggles*[/SPOILER]

Anyway, I agree that it was my fault for not saying "no" right away, but I did after awhile. I just said "no, I don't want too, but thanks anyway." But is it my that he started to FOLLOW ME!? No![/COLOR]

[Guest XBebop]

The school year is over so it doesn't make any real difference now anyway. And in High School, unless you're in the same class, you won't even see him during school hours.

[Chaos]

[quote name='Ryoko T.D.C.][COLOR=Blue'] *giggles* Well Chaos, is my fault for wanting to be his friend? No I don't think so.[/COLOR][/quote]


But yet when he wants to return that friendship you complain on an online forum.

[quote name='Ryoko T.D.C.][COLOR=Blue] *giggles* *giggles* [SPOILER]I don't think I'm liking you very much :) *giggles*[/SPOILER'][/COLOR][/quote]


Like I give a flying ****. Your opinion of me has no bearing whatsoever. Kindly grow up. I'm offering you sound advice, but you seem to want an easier way out. Whatever.

[quote name='Ryoko T.D.C.][COLOR=Blue'] Anyway, I agree that it was my fault for not saying "no" right away, but I did after awhile. I just said "no, I don't want too, but thanks anyway." But is it my that he started to FOLLOW ME!? No![/COLOR][/quote]

"You reap what you sow."

[ChibiHorsewoman]

[color=darkviolet]Maybe they're both at fault. Her for not saying no the first time and him for not catching a clue. To me that seems like the most democratic way to look at the situation.

The fact is, it's summer vacation so maybe you can suddenly pretend to go somewhere. It works for my mom when she wants to avoid my paternal grandmother. Sure, it's not honest and you're only hiding from your problems, but for a temporary fix...

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[shadow15]

Frist question I hope your not meg cuz this is ash any way. Don't go out with him what you should do is just leave him alone and if and when he comes up to you. Go up to an adult untill he leaves. If its in shcool then pretend you have to ask the teacher something and say it so he can hear you. that my advice take it or leave it.
luv ash

[Shiro_Ryuu]

Try getting a boyfriend. I know how it is to be in that guy's shoes and its not pretty. I really pity him. If you get a boyfriend, make out with him while the guy who likes you is looking, he'll stop going after you. I don't think that there is anyway to get him off of you unless you are really cold and harsh with him. Maybe rejecting him is nicer than what i have said, you can try that to. Just say "No" and if he persists, use my advice from earlier as a last resort.

[Baron Samedi]

[size=1]Great idea there [b]Shiro_Ryuu[/b]. Yeah, she should just get a boyfriend, and makeout with him in front of the other guy. Yeah, thats much better than...telling him how she feels...and I'm sure the 'boyfriend' will just love being used like that. And you say you pity the guy? Crap.[/size]

[Shiro_Ryuu]

well, if she keeps telling the guy who likes her "no" and he still follows her around not understanding the meaning of "no", what other option is there? Maybe sometimes, words alone won't do the job.

[Baron Samedi]

[size=1]Maybe sometimes respect is a good thing, maybe sometimes a good old fashioned "**** off" would do the trick. It is still better than your way. He'd be more crushed if she made out with some other guy, than if she told him to take a long walk off a short pier. Or whatever phrase you'd feel is better suited to the occasion.[/size]

[ChibiHorsewoman]

[quote name='Shiro_Ryuu']Try getting a boyfriend. I know how it is to be in that guy's shoes and its not pretty. If you get a boyfriend, make out with him while the guy who likes you is looking, he'll stop going after you.[/quote]

[color=darkviolet]Okay first off, that's probably the best way to get him more interested in some sick perverse way because if he sees her doing that he may just become even more attracted to her. You know, the way some people want what they can't have?

Besides, why would some random guy want to just up and be her boyfriend just so he can be used? [/color]

[quote name='Shiro_Ryuu']I don't think that there is anyway to get him off of you unless you are really cold and harsh with him. Maybe rejecting him is nicer than what i have said, you can try that to. Just say "No" and if he persists, use my advice from earlier as a last resort.[/quote]

[color=darkviolet]Candle magick is a wonderful thing. But then again, controlling someone's actions is frowned upon so forget I mentioned that.

I'd say try to be as cold as possible. Become an ice queeen. Or as Reese Witherspoon described Selma Hayeck's character when she first met her in Legally Blonde- A frigid *****. Don't lower yourself to having to use people to get your point across, that's just creepy.[/color]