Women's washrooms at school (not perverted)

[Burori]

Being as who I am now a Janitor I have been to so far four schools. I have come to notice that out of those four schools that female's washrooms areall if not very close to it arevandelised than males. My question to all the males and females is why is that? And please keep this professional.

[Rachael]

Well....as you've probably noticed most of it are threats to other girls on the walls. it's a type of bullying. Many teenage girls choose verbel abuse than physical abuse, and girls use the bathrooms more than the guys (We use it to talk to are other girlfriends, put on make-up yadda yadda yadda) So when girls write that crap on the walls, the victim will no doubt read whats on the walls and feel low self confidence in herself.

[Secily]

[quote name='Rachael']Well....as you've probably noticed most of it are threats to other girls on the walls. it's a type of bullying. Many teenage girls choose verbel abuse than physical abuse, and girls use the bathrooms more than the guys (We use it to talk to are other girlfriends, put on make-up yadda yadda yadda) So when girls write that crap on the walls, the victim will no doubt read whats on the walls and feel low self confidence in herself.[/quote]

That is very insightful of you, and it definitely makes sense...They also write boy's names and, basically, all things they want to be known to others.

[Rei_Man]

Yes.. though I've never actually seen the inside of the girl's washrooms, this was supposedly the case at my old school. And considering the state of the boy's toilets, they must have been pretty damn messy. I don't really have any ideas as to why this was this was the case, so I'll just agree with Rachael's statement, as it sounds pretty understandable.

[wrist cutter]

[quote name='Rachael']Well....as you've probably noticed most of it are threats to other girls on the walls. it's a type of bullying. Many teenage girls choose verbel abuse than physical abuse, and girls use the bathrooms more than the guys (We use it to talk to are other girlfriends, put on make-up yadda yadda yadda) So when girls write that crap on the walls, the victim will no doubt read whats on the walls and feel low self confidence in herself.[/quote]

Damn. And you wonder why men were so reluctant to give women rights.

[Japan]

[COLOR=Navy]At my school, girls usually write either suicidal thoughts or sexual matters with guys on the bathroom stalls.

There a things like, "Don't have sex with Chris P.!!! He has a small dick"

Or saying stuff that another guy is bad at kissing, sex, and so on.

As far as the suicidal messages go, they are mostly written by punks and goths. They have a certain rythme to it.

I swear that the janitors have to repiant the stalls every month.[/COLOR]

[Burori]

Not just repaint....-_-

I swear it'd be cheaper to take the walls around the toliets down and replace them. I was quite wondering why the females think they have the right to do such a thing. Males are of course idiots many times (I'm a guy so =P) But in the end they have no idea who cleans the damn things. Why are women this way in general? They seem to not care about our jobs. Such a mess....

[eleanor]

[color=firebrick] Well, at my school the vandelism in the girls' restrooms are usually made by the same people over...and over...and over again. [Usually insults like: Charlotte is a BEEP or Samantha is the biggest slut in town] And then most of the times the insulted person's...posse or whatever steps up to the bat and writes things like: "No she's not you [curse word]" or "Go to he**".

You can't expect much from teeange girl cliques who are practically failing all their classes, anyway. The thought of someone cleaning off all their junk probably doesn't cross their mind at all. *shrugs* Girls usually have more harsh and evil way of bullying when compared to guys.[/color]

[Doukeshi]

I tried not to go into the toilets at school, I value my lungs. There was nothing really very interesting written on the doors and walls anyway, usually [i]'Becka luvz Maller 4eva'[/i] or other such pathetic nonsense. Exam desks make good reading though lol.

[Skye]

What Rachael said. We had writing on the doors of the stalls, and it was kind of creepy. Half the time it was little hearts with two peoples names, or a message TO somebody, like ?Jessica, Daniel hates you! He?s going out with Marissa!? or something like it. Its not that bad at JE Richards MS, but we had lockers on the walls, so there wasn?t room. But mostly, girls use verbal abuse, because they are easily emotionally hurt.

Gods, I never thought I would say this? why the hell DO we do it? I mean, I never actually did it(though for a while I was obsessed with making the corners of the desks black with pencil; ^_^;). In the bathrooms near out classroom, if you turn your head the right direction, and the light catches it, there are finger smudges that have things written on them. Usually those are for people who want to tell their buds something. Its weird. 0_o I don?t go to public school anymore, so I don?t know how bad it gets.

[Inuyasha311]

Yes at my school alot of girls wrote on the walls. But really nothing to bad,they just put so and so was here! Or some would draw pictures of stuff. But it was something to read while you were in there.

[Roxie Faye]

[color=#9933ff]Oh my gosh. My old middle school used to have so much crap written on the walls. Some insults, some "intitials-heart-initials," and there was this morbid poem written on there once. O_o; I think they do it, because of what Rachael said, and I also think that when they were cutting classes (so many people used to do that and not get caught), they got really bored so they wrote stuff. Pretty stupid. :/

I have to say, though, that at my high school, I haven't a lot of things written on the stalls. A couple here and there, but not really. I think it's because they're too busy smoking, you know? *laughs* haha.[/color]

[Baron Samedi]

[size=1]You must admit, some things that people write are funny. Some of them are disturbing. Particularly one where some guy was offering his 11 year old sister for 'hire'. That was odd. Still, I can't imagine being bored enough to write that crap on the walls.[/size]

[Fall]

[font=Verdana][size=2]I've seen a few girls at my school crying their eyes out because of something scratched into the toilet walls.[/size][/font]
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[font=Verdana][size=2]There's not a single bit of wall in the boys toilets that's gone un-scratched, not drawn on, vandalised, whatever. But it's completely different to the girls. In the boys toilets, you see things like "Munkys Toilet" and there's a heap of sentences scribed into the doors that says "ring 68845059 for a good time" (no. made-up). There is phrases like "Jonny is a ******" and crap like that, but usually whoever it is about crosses it out or changes it to about someone else.[/size][/font]
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[font=Verdana][size=2]...I guess girls are more sensitive about things like that...? I walk past the girls toilets and I can see phrases scratched into the cement I'm walking on. There has to be a huge damn grudge against someone for someone to do that. I mean.. they would've had to sit there for 5 damn hours just to get that phrase scratched in the way it was.[/size][/font]
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[font=Verdana][size=2]This is just at my school... I'm not sure how it's like anywhere else.[/size][/font]

[Guest Heezay]

Wow. Compared to you guys, my school's bathrooms are suprisingly clean. But someone wrote a suicide note(although he didn't commit suicide- I think I know who did it) in freestyle lyrics. Other than that, the boys bathrooms aren't very interesting.

[Black Moon]

Why do we do it? Well, it's been mainly stated above, I'm sorry to admit that when I was skipping advisery or sumthin' I'd write sutff just to make the prep. girls mad. The didn't know who the hell did it, so. *shrugs* We get bored waiting for the bus, and it takes girls longer to got to the bathroom than men. (As you all should know.) Most girls (not me) really bawl their eyes out over stuff like that. They might cry into their friends should saying: "Someone thinks I'm a b****!" Or something like that... which, they usually are, but their heads where hit so many times in chearleading practice to notice.

[COLOR=Red][SIZE=3] [FONT=Arial][B]MAIN REASON:
MOST GIRLS DON'T CARE ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE FEELINGS, OR, THEY GET BORED[/B][/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR]

[Burori]

[quote name='Baron Samedi][size=1']You must admit, some things that people write are funny. Some of them are disturbing. Particularly one where some guy was offering his 11 year old sister for 'hire'. That was odd. Still, I can't imagine being bored enough to write that crap on the walls.[/size][/quote]

or to share with you all this was found:

"This person" is here with "this other person's" Brother. " " - means I don't know who it was cause it was very difficult to read. To make it desturbing this was in a females bathrom in a elementary school. Grade 1 to 4 to be exact.

[Dead-Angel]

This is No_Regrets....again.

All I ever really do is doodle on the walls. Little anime people mostly. And some people even write little comments bout them.It's fun..... but when I hit high school, I quit. I am friends with the janitors sisters. but some people do write some nasty stuff. It's really immature.

[wrist cutter]

I was doing some janitorial work at work yesterday, because they stuck me with the ****** morning shift AGAIN. So as part of it I cleaned the bathrooms.

The women's bathroom was so much dirtier than the men's. No competition - the women's had trash all over, messy mirrors, overflowing trash can... I barely had to do any work in the men's bathroom, it was pretty much clean from the get go.

And women call men pigs.

[Guest Vash331]

I'm a guy and at my highschool the bathrooms usually just have skateboard punk **** on it, like for example:SFN Rules!!! No it Doesn't! Yes It Does! Then why did you guys punk out?! **** you B****
That's about it...oh and the occasional so and so's a slut.
On and if you know what SFN is and you live in tennesse then IM me.
Skateboard punks in Tn go figure.....


Oh and none of us care about janitors, because they're usually old dirty people that never say anything to anyone, no offense to you of course. We make fun of our janitor, his name is Larry.

[Anime Punk 7734]

On our bathroom walls you see "shan's a ho" or "Tony's hot" and really stupid stuff , and gang stuff too , I've only wrote once on the walls and that was "To all the preps who think you're cool ******* the preps , stoners rule !, EVEN THOUGH I DON'T ,NEVER WOULD DO DRUGS , I just thought it be funny as hell , and I did it in pencil so i thought nothing of it. *and the janitor at our school has an escalade, one word , FREAKY!*

[bimbo69]

The toilets at my school can be disgusting.Of course there is writing on the walls but that isnt half as bad as the other things that are done.
They get flooded at least every few weeks because people put toilet paper in the plug holes or too much down the toilet, there is rubbish everywhere even though there are bins. One of the worst things that happen in the girls toilets is when someone knocks over a sanitary bin, it is extremly sickening. I feel very sorry for the cleaner who has to clean it up.
Also it can smell really bad because people dont flush the toilet.
I dont get why anyone does things like that, there is no point to it and being bored isnt an excuse.

[Gelgoog Pilot]

Hmm Not much was ever in our bathrooms at High school...though it did reak in there from time to time.

We called our Janitor Wild Bill...he rocked lol.

Btw...Why is it that women are crueler than guys? I'venoticed this for a while...if two guys who are firends get in a fight they are usually back together by the end of the week. But when ftwo girlfirends fight...man they hold that grudge FOREVER!

[Black Moon]

Girl's bathrooms are probably MUCH worse because most girls don't give a damn about who has to clean them, they "just wanna have a moment of fun" which is a bad excuse, I know. My bathrooms (as in the girls at school's bathrooms) have probably been painted over atleast twice a month. It really appauls me, I know I stated earlier that I'd write something, but it was in pencil, and could easily be erased, but that's still no excuse, either.

[QUOTE=Gelgoog Pilot]
Btw...Why is it that women are crueler than guys? I'venoticed this for a while...if two guys who are firends get in a fight they are usually back together by the end of the week. But when ftwo girlfirends fight...man they hold that grudge FOREVER![/QUOTE]

I take offence to that. I've seen some men that "duke it out" and never become friends again... all over the last slice of pizza. And I'm serious about that.

While I've never been mad at a friend for over two days. And the longest one I had was because my best friend was going out with my boyfriend behind my back, I fogave her after two days, him, five days.

The only majorly bad "girl fight" I've ever seen in my school was over a boy. Yes, a boy that probably doesn't even remember their names. Whitney and Kassidee were fighting over a damn guy (and, mind you, they're in the seventh grade) and Kass. was making death threats. That was the worst in my school's history. Of course, they haven't made up yet, but can you blame them?

Granted, we girls can get a little... testy, but [I]I[/I] think more men have fights resulting in deaths than girls (correct me if I'm wrong). There may be a few times (-cough- about a million) where women take it over the edge... for example, that lady in '93 who cut off her husbands penis. That was over the top, but he lived. I've seen some with men where someone's body is flung all over the street, and I believe that was over something that didn't deserve something so harsh.