Pave-Low Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 Who all here would classify themselves as a shy person? Im kinda shy. Im not one to just talk to a stranger or talk to someone much that im not friends with. Also for all you shy people, how do you handle relationships? Im not that shy but sometimwes I find it hard to have a relationship especially if your partner is shy as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mornigndew Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 [color=blue] I'm extremely shy, I write more than I talk. I have to admit, I'm not good at handling relationship. It's hard for another person to understand you if you don't express yourself [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pave-Low Posted November 2, 2001 Author Share Posted November 2, 2001 I know how you feel. A write more as well. I really like my girlfreind alot but sometimes we just dont click, I dont want to do anthing that she might not like and neither does she so we have some problems sometimes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mornigndew Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 [color=blue] You two have problem with communication. I don't know about you, but most people think I don't have feeling. Odd? [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pave-Low Posted November 2, 2001 Author Share Posted November 2, 2001 Yeah, I know but I guess its just something you have to work out. It sucks though. It makes you wish you could just read minds. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coolkam007 Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 i just plain cant really talk to people i dont know.. usually.. if they look like they seem nice tho.. i might be able to mutter a few words.. of course it might be hard to understand.. i usually just keep to the people that i know.. i'm not a huge fan with meeting new people.. tho when im online i'm a lot less shy.. i dont really have anything to be shy about here.. relationships.. well.. i havn't had a real relationship.. away from the internet.. ¬¬ .. but i love my cate.. and i'd turn down someone in real life because of her.. :) thats how much i love her.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mornigndew Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 [color=blue] You may think I'm odd, but sometimes I could read people mind. I really know what they think and want. [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coolkam007 Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 interesting.. i know a little bit about telekenisis.. i'v bent a spoon.. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pave-Low Posted November 2, 2001 Author Share Posted November 2, 2001 Thats basically me right there. I love my girl and if we are still together when we graduate I will Marry her but right now we are having some probs and I just pray they will work out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mornigndew Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by coolkam007 [/i] [B]interesting.. i know a little bit about telekenisis.. i'v bent a spoon.. :) [/B][/QUOTE] [color=blue] What's that? Pave-low, if you have a problem with your g/f right now, then try to work it out. If the problem is communication (speaking), then you should try to communicate to her in another way [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RicoTranzrig Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 [COLOR=darkblue]Hey, that's kinda what I'm going through...but circumstances probably differ a whole lot. People say that I'm one of they most shy people they've ever met...which does ring some truth to it. I rarely talk to anybody but I'm really friendly. Some people think that I'm pissed off at something when I just sit in class without saying much or not having much expression.[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pave-Low Posted November 2, 2001 Author Share Posted November 2, 2001 Well i got to hit the sack for tonight. Thanx for your help though. Maybe we can pick this conversation up tomorrow Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sara Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 [SIZE=1]Eh...I don't talk much...usually... I joined Drama this year, and actually made a bunch of friends. I think I've spoken more at school in the past three months than the last three years.[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gally Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 I hope everything does work out for the two of you. :) I'm very shy in real life, at least around people I don't know very well. I've been called "submissive"...which is sorta related to being shy. I've always been in relationships with a guy who's louder and more out-going than me, though, so I'm not sure exactly how to handle a girl/boyfriend who's shy...my best advice would be to just not worry about it. Nobody's always happy. You just need to be yourself...if you can't do that, what's the point of being in the relationship anyway? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeathKnight Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 [color=crimson][b][size=1]I aint shy... i jus dont have much to say... If i'm in a group i'll jus cross my arms and lean against the wall n listen to them... Nuttin to say.... Call me anti social if you want but i jus dont talk much...[/color][/b][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RicoTranzrig Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 [COLOR=darkblue]Will there ever be a day where I will break my shyness? 12 hard years of trying to get myself to be more sociable and it's not really working out.[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mornigndew Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by RicoTranzrig [/i] [B][COLOR=darkblue]Will there ever be a day where I will break my shyness? 12 hard years of trying to get myself to be more sociable and it's not really working out.[/COLOR] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=blue] You've been trying for 12 years, anyway keep trying. I don't think I'll ever break my shyness. I think too much, I can't talk when I think. My longest record of not opening my mouth (Speaking) is three day. When I try to talk again, I lost my voice [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RicoTranzrig Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 Hopefully I'll be able to break it before I graduage HS...I'm begnning to think there's something that's causing people to be shy...I know there's something other than just because you are... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coolkam007 Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by mornigndew [/i] [B] [color=blue] What's that? [/color] [/B][/QUOTE] its moving, or changing things with your mind.. :) heh.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mornigndew Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by coolkam007 [/i] [B] its moving, or changing things with your mind.. :) heh.. [/B][/QUOTE] [color=blue] Gotcha. Cam, check your PM [/color] [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by RicoTranzrig [/i] [B]Hopefully I'll be able to break it before I graduage HS...I'm begnning to think there's something that's causing people to be shy...I know there's something other than just because you are... [/B][/QUOTE] [color=blue] I'm in college now, I'm still shy. I agree, there's something that's causing people to be shy. May be something about their own experience, my is probably fear, but I don't know what I fear of to cause me to be shy, but I know I fear of something [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flare Falcor Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 I guess I'm shy.... I'm not very good at starting or having conversations with people I don't know.... all my teachers keep telling my parent how I never say anything in class.... though once I know someone, I can talk with them very freely.... one of my friends says I'm a 'shy extrovert'.... I guess I don't say much 'cause I don't want to say the wrong thing or give people the wrong impression, and so I don't say much.... I've haven't had any relationships.... yet.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
No-Name Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 when it comes to guys im not that shy. im kinda shy about asking strangers for directions. im shy around about 60% of girls, but im cofortable around the rest. so i guess im in the middle kinda. altho, im not shy at all on the internet.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RicoTranzrig Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 Well, since it's the net...it's a lot easier to speak, especially here cause there's a "backspace" or "delete" key to make your message exactly the way you want it to be, a lot of comfort having that. Not like in real life where there's no going back, but we still have to deal with that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 I'm shyyyyyyyyyyy just not online.... well even online I am to some extent... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
No-Name Posted November 2, 2001 Share Posted November 2, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Transtic Nerve [/i] [B]I'm shyyyyyyyyyyy just not online.... well even online I am to some extent... [/B][/QUOTE] naww, u cant be that shy on the net, if u blatantly state ur gay, or maybe thats sumthing different, and not shyness...i dunno... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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