takun ' [FLCL] Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 ahh ok well i have this horrible problem of approaching a girl and im really bad at it and its a girl i really like and cuz all the girls i went out with they asked me.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vash IDK Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 No girl likes waiting around for a guy who beats around the bush. You have to just approach her. It shouldn't be too hard. :) Imagine if she's waiting for you to say something. Do you think she'll wait for long? It's best to be honest about these things as soon as possible, because if you wait too long, you may miss your chance ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redemption Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 Wow. Sounds like you've got a real problem here. Probably the only thing I can suggest is going and asking her out. If not that, are you friends with her? If you're not, try and make friends so you sorta get the gist of what she likes, dislikes, etc. Other than that, I dunno know. Not a real help am I? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James P. Galvatron Posted August 18, 2004 Share Posted August 18, 2004 I like girls at my school to, but I don't ask some people say I have low self-esteem or I'm to fearful of being turned down. I really have no self-esteem or care what others say and I rarely help others thats a perk of being cold hearted. When I saw that some girls I was friends with stopped talking to me cause I was acting like a annoying, dewb, and a jerk I changed my ways. One thing I also have noticed is most girls like guys who are jerks and put down others, but when act like a nice guy you are ignored. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fyxe Posted August 18, 2004 Share Posted August 18, 2004 [QUOTE=Inuyasha7271] One thing I also have noticed is most girls like guys who are jerks and put down others, but when act like a nice guy you are ignored.[/QUOTE] [size=1][color=darkblue]Wow, where did you get that? Talk about shallow. >.< Then again... some girls... are like that I suppose. Can't say I'm catagorized with them though. Haha, I definatly don't ignore nice boys. ^_~ Ahem, anyway... Yeah, I think you should just tell the girl you care for how you feel. If you're close friends with her, nothing should change, even if she doesn't feel the same way. Girls normally like to know when a guy has feelings for them, I sure would if it was me. The funny thing is, both genders like the opposite sex to make the first move, and that proves a tad bit difficult. So I think you should go for it! ^_^[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patronus Posted August 18, 2004 Share Posted August 18, 2004 [quote name='"takun ' [FLCL]"']ahh ok well i have this horrible problem of approaching a girl and im really bad at it and its a girl i really like and cuz all the girls i went out with they asked me..[/quote]One suggestion: learn English grammar and learn it [b]well[/b]. And another, I don't really find it a problem that you can't approach girls. I mean, if they approach you first, what's the harm in that? Edit: Thanks for the heads up Semjaza. ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sara Posted August 18, 2004 Share Posted August 18, 2004 [quote name='"takun ' [FLCL]"']ahh ok well i have this horrible problem of approaching a girl and im really bad at it and its a girl i really like and cuz all the girls i went out with they asked me..[/quote][size=1]Welcome to OtakuBoards. Please be sure to read the [url=http://Otakuboards.com/rules.php?][b]rules[/b][/url] and[b] [url=http://Otakuboards.com/faq.php?]FAQ[/url][/b]. Right now, your post quality is well below what we expect members to contribute to the boards. As for what to do, I suggest you ask her out. Simple enough. Work up the courage and do it. If you simply can't handle that, I suggest you wait a few years and try again later.[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Semjaza Posted August 18, 2004 Share Posted August 18, 2004 [quote name='Leh]One suggestion: learn English grammar and learn in [b]well[/b'].[/quote] I don't know why people here lash out at others for writing things poorly when their attempt at belittling the person in question has a grammar mistake in it, regardless of it being a typo or not. Seems self defeating. Anyway, there's like forty threads just like this here. I'd read them because I doubt anyone will say anything new. I'd just do what Sara said and stop being a wimp. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G/S/B Master Posted August 18, 2004 Share Posted August 18, 2004 [COLOR=SlateGray][SIZE=1][FONT=Century Gothic]You must put some things in to the factor. -Did you talk to the girl in any chance? If not, talk to her. If you don't EVEN have the courage to do that, might as well search for a different girl :). -If you're best friends with the girl, ask her out to a movie. Things should flow well after. -If you're just plain friends with the girl, go talk to her more. Get comfortable. Good luck.[/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sara Posted August 18, 2004 Share Posted August 18, 2004 [size=1]I think that's about all the advice you'll be getting here, takun. Take it to heart, I hope it helps. Thread closed.[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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