chobit Posted September 16, 2004 Share Posted September 16, 2004 Ok,I have two friend ok?J and A. And a boyfriend called E. 1 Both A and Jess think E taking me away from them. 2 J hates A and A wants to be her friend. 3 A feels liek a 3rd wheel around me and J. What do I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Midnight Rush Posted September 16, 2004 Share Posted September 16, 2004 Number 1. Whats more important to you? E or J or A? 2. Think about the true motives of all these peoples actions/words 3. Write down all of this, and then compile a logical conclusion based on a combination of common sense and Aristotalian logic. 4. Make a decision, and STICK TO IT!!! If these are REAL friends, and they see that one is really important to you, they'll understand. And won't mind. Things will heal in time...its just a teenage thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrist cutter Posted September 16, 2004 Share Posted September 16, 2004 Can't people just solve their own problems these days? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chobit Posted September 16, 2004 Author Share Posted September 16, 2004 [quote name='wrist cutter']Can't people just solve their own problems these days?[/quote] No,that would be too easy and make less costly internet bills. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skye Posted September 16, 2004 Share Posted September 16, 2004 [quote name='wrist cutter']Can't people just solve their own problems these days?[/quote] [size=1][font=veranda]XP Wrist cutter! [quote name='chobit']No,that would be too easy and make less costly internet bills.[/quote] XD I say: Okays, A wants to be friends with J, right? But J doesn?t like her. Now, J and A don?t like E at all. Am I right? Well, A seems to be making an attempt to get along with your pals, but it doesn?t seem to be working. Why don?t you go off on your own for a bit, and when you?ve calmed down and had you time, see if you can solve the problem then.[/size][/font] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chaos Posted September 16, 2004 Share Posted September 16, 2004 Screw them all. Do what you want to do. Both A and J have no right in telling you what your boyfriend is or is not doing. Furthermore, A is helpless because it seems like a lost cause to be a friend of a nobody who whines about someone [i]else's[/i] significant other. Get you some booty from ol' boy and forget what the hell everyone has to say, because, in the end, it's not the path you took to get to the end of the road, but who you stepped over on the way. EDIT: PS. I'm so stealing those shades. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverCyclone Posted September 16, 2004 Share Posted September 16, 2004 Dont listen to Chaos, he says that in every freaking thread he's ever replied to about personal problems. :p I say that J should really stop hating A and be A's friend. A sounds like a kind of emotional person and I dont work well with emotions. E appears to be fine where he is. J sounds like a high strung person, and A sounds like...um..."its" just trying to get along with everyone. Uh...heh...lookin back on what I said, i realize that I actually just complicated things...Alright...less intricate conclusion. I would say talk to them, but that rarely works, so...find out why J hates A, why A feels like a third wheel. Solve for J, and then find A and holy crap I JUST TURNED THIS INTO A MATH PROBLEM! But try to figure out why J hates A, and then if you can solve that problem, they wont feel so alone when E comes around, and A will be happy. ...You know what? I am horrible at emotional problems and will probably delete this post later...oh, no hard feelings Chaos, I'm just fooling. :cool: Oh, and I friggin LOVE your avatar chobit! ...ok, you can all shoot me now... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delta Posted September 16, 2004 Share Posted September 16, 2004 [COLOR=DarkRed][SIZE=1] Hmm... Your problem lies with J. She/He/[b]IT[/b] hates everyone but you. Don't worry about what your friends think of your boyfriend; that's not the problem. Talk to J and if IT doesn't want to make friends with A and accept your boyfriend, leave IT. Replace J in your circle of friends with your boyfriend. You don't need problem-makers like IT. I may be cruel but I'm deadly serious. Love and peace! :love2: [/SIZE][/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sara Posted September 16, 2004 Share Posted September 16, 2004 [size=1]Your friends think you're spending too much time with your boyfriend. Are you? If it's bothering them, talk with [i]them.[/i] Don't ask strangers for advice. As for how your two friends get along...you can't do much about that. If one dislikes the other, you can ask why, but you're not going to change her opinion. Again, you should talk with the people involved, not ask for help on a message board. You're unlikely to hear anything worthwhile on the topic.[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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