He makes my brain fall out of my head but...

[chobit]

[COLOR=DarkOrchid][/COLOR][COLOR=Magenta]...I'm not good enough for him.Hes perfect.His personality is...undescrible.He is always kind,he always laughs and makes people around him laugh.

He is called a "hippie" by my best friend(who also happens to be his cousin!) because he is very into the enviroment and buys all his clothes at thrift stores and washes his hair with soap.

Oh...did I mention hes gorgeous?Like...a Sex God.

He looks at me and I go all jelloid.But I don't feel worthy.I don't get it.Is that what love feels like?And if not,why don't I feel good enough?Is something wrong with me?[/COLOR]

[James]

[color=#707875]Heh, there is nothing wrong with you. I've had this feeling before (not feeling good enough for someone, or feeling like you don't really have a chance with 'em).

But then I realized how silly that kind of thinking is.

I say that because it's really true that "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". Everyone has a different taste. I can tell you that I've had plenty of experiences where people have either been really interested in me, or been totally indifferent. The problem is that if the other person happens to be really good looking or something, it's easy to think that you aren't worthy. ~_^

But really, if he's looking at you and showing interest, you should go for it. If he shows interest, he must be interested. ^_^

I think that this realization -- as obvious as it sounds -- really comes with experience, especially when you have a variety of people who have been interested in you over the years. Does that make sense?

Anyway, good luck. [/color]

[Gavin]

[SIZE=1]James has pretty much hit the nail on the head, I remember going through the exact same experience a few years ago with one of the girls in my year. I used to get really shy around her and end up getting really embarrassed but eventually I worked up a bit of courage and asked her out. Just try and stay calm and you'll be surprised how easily you'll be able to talk to him without going all "jelloid".

As James said if he actually does have an interest in you, and you have an interest in him then go for it, if you don't you may regret it for a while but you'll get over it. To be honest I don't actually think you're in love, to me anyway this seems like a textbook case of simple infatuation, and you'll be surprised in a few years how silly it all seems. [/SIZE]

[chobit]

[quote name='Kane][SIZE=1']To be honest I don't actually think you're in love, to me anyway this seems like a textbook case of simple infatuation, and you'll be surprised in a few years how silly it all seems. [/SIZE][/quote]
[COLOR=Pink]
If this is just a crush...what the hell does real love feel like? :confused:[/COLOR]

[WW2]

He washes his hair with soap.....in bar form. Heh....thats actually the first time I heard of someone doing that.:therock:

As for what real love feels like, I'm really not sure, I don't have too much experience in that area.
Yeah...poor me.

But if you actually think you love him, follow what James and the other guy said. Its not fun letting such feelings torment you for extended periods of time.
Once you bring everything out into the open, and let the um..."hippie" guy know how you feel.
If he shares the same types of feelings for you, then yippee.
If not, your reaction will determine if it was truely love you felt. If you truely love the guy, then you should still desire him to find happiness even if its not with you.

Sorry it that sounds confusing, but like I said I'm not too good with these type of situations.

[Hevn]

[quote name='chobit][COLOR=Pink']He looks at me and I go all jelloid.[/COLOR][/quote]
[COLOR=RoyalBlue][SIZE=1][B]I'm sure everyone goes through that kind of feeling. It's a wonderful and, at the same time,a painfully silly experience. ^_^[/B][/SIZE][/COLOR]

[QUOTE=chobit][COLOR=Pink]
If this is just a crush...what the hell does real love feel like? :confused:[/COLOR][/QUOTE]
[COLOR=RoyalBlue][SIZE=1][B]It might be just a crush... and it also might lead to something big.

The truth is, a time will come when you'll know for yourself if it is love or not. Love feels different for every person and, more often than not, they'll base their description of it using their own experiences. I used to think that I was in love with my first big crush and I felt I was going jelloid whenever I see him or get close to him. Everyone around me said it's just puppy love but I never believed them, then meh.

But it really doesn't matter if it's just a crush or a puppy whatever because the important thing is you loved/are loving. Just give it all you've got and enjoy the feeling because through loving, you'll grow and mature...then someday, you'll finally know what love is. ^_~[/B][/SIZE][/COLOR]

[Vigaku]

That's wierd.

[Panda]

[quote name='Vigaku']That's wierd.[/quote]

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On topic I would have to say this sounds like a crush to me. By no means am I an expert on relationships. I can say in my experience when I felt that way it was always with a crush, that feeling like you are just going to melt into the ground. When I first met my hubby I had a completely different feeling. It was a feeling like I knew he was the man I was going to spend my entire life with. It wasn't a giddy, butterfly feeling- but a warm comfortable feeling like being with a life-long best friend.

I wish you the best of luck sorting out your feelings.

[chobit]

[quote name='Vigaku']That's wierd.[/quote]

Ummmm,well,whatever you think man....

Anyways,I am just posting to update on this.Ok,I mentioned that the SG and me have enviromental club together?Well,we do,I'm a tree hugger too.Ok,now back with the story before I so rudely interrupted myself.Anyways,were in a club together and we talk a lot,and we work a lot on tree stuff.Ok,so next week is Waste Reduction Week,its a big deal and we have a llot of events planned,and I'm working with him on then,so I'm gonna try really hard to let him know I'm intrested.

[Guest Midnight Rush]

[QUOTE=chobit]Ummmm,well,whatever you think man....

Anyways,I am just posting to update on this.Ok,I mentioned that the SG and me have enviromental club together?Well,we do,I'm a tree hugger too.Ok,now back with the story before I so rudely interrupted myself.Anyways,were in a club together and we talk a lot,and we work a lot on tree stuff.Ok,so next week is Waste Reduction Week,its a big deal and we have a llot of events planned,and I'm working with him on then,so I'm gonna try really hard to let him know I'm intrested.[/QUOTE]


Well... enjoy "reducing waste"... I hope we never meet professionally, cause just so you know, if you tie yourself to a tree on land that I'm turning into a hotel, I'll cut you down with it (nothing personal).

Anyways, good luck telling your 'sex god' (although I can't imagine anything as Bohemian as what you described as being 'sexy'). I would advise a sensual indirectness, believe me its VERY sexy.