When is Life Horrible?

[Afire]

[quote name='PainfulLife']*sigh* Ok people I guess I really was still asking for that... but still I can think of worse things than my Dad on national telly or my mom going off and cheating on my dad.... I really could think of worse.... Ok so ... well... I reallly don't feel I should post this to everyone but I feel I am brave enough to face you all now... Ok so you all listen really good... I was raped Ok guys that's my bigo secret and thing I'm stressing over I feel horrible Ok Now you all know.... I have no I dea why I'm telling you all but i guess I feel the need to be I dunno slaped or something I wouldn't mind bashing or anything I really don't not anymore... I should have just come out with it in the beggining ok... so there you all go.... Please just respond and stuff if you wan't to I am posting this because I'm ready... ready for the worlds veiw of myself.... so give it your best shot people!!!!!!!!!![/quote]
[FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=Purple]First of all, I want to ask you a couple of questions. Have you told anyone in your real life that you have been raped? Have you sought any counseling? If you're keeping this as a big secret, you're never going to understand that there is no shame in being raped. No one is going to view you as a bad person. The bad person is the one who raped you. Think of it like being in an accident that wasn't your fault. You might need medical attention or therapy for a while, but you will get better. You might feel better if the person who did this to you is prosecuted so they don't go around doing it to someone else. If it's an ongoing problem with someone doing this to you...for goodness sakes, tell and adult that you can trust or call the police! Whatever you do, don't keep it a secret. That will only keep the shame alive. There are so many people out there that can help you deal with this.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT]

[PainfulLife]

[quote name='Afire][FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=Purple]First of all, I want to ask you a couple of questions. Have you told anyone in your real life that you have been raped? Have you sought any counseling? If you're keeping this as a big secret, you're never going to understand that there is no shame in being raped. No one is going to view you as a bad person. The bad person is the one who raped you. Think of it like being in an accident that wasn't your fault. You might need medical attention or therapy for a while, but you will get better. You might feel better if the person who did this to you is prosecuted so they don't go around doing it to someone else. If it's an ongoing problem with someone doing this to you...for goodness sakes, tell and adult that you can trust or call the police! Whatever you do, don't keep it a secret. That will only keep the shame alive. There are so many people out there that can help you deal with this.[/COLOR][/SIZE'][/FONT][/quote]

thanks... I have gotten help now... I don't need anything more here.... so I might have this place closed or locked soon by a moderator... and to all who have helped thank you and to all who have been weird thank you as well for at least taking time to look at this and respond!