Guest Akito Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lady Macaiodh [/i] [B]this would all be so much simpler if we could read minds... [/B][/QUOTE] But then, it would be impossible to hide secrets. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkey Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 Steady relation for me! But I can enjoy some quick relations when I'm taking vacations on another country... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Smoky Joe [/i] [B]Steady relation for me! But I can enjoy some quick relations when I'm taking vacations on another country... [/B][/QUOTE] A guy who cheats on his gal, i hate ppl like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lady Macaiodh [/i] [B]this would all be so much simpler if we could read minds... [/B][/QUOTE] You may disagree with me on this, If you spend quite an amount of time with that person, you can read that person mind, know their though and feeling, and knew exactly what they want to say. However, it doesn't apply to everyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Break Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Akito [/i] [B]Hiding ur feelings is natural for all. Most ppl are afriad that their feelings will not be accepted by others, that is why many ppl hide their feelings, specially for some girls. U wouldn't believe it, but some of the populor girls could probably have a major crush on ya, it has happened before. And if ur like, a nobody basically at ur school, they will be afraid to say anything about their feelings to u. [/B][/QUOTE] [SIZE=1]Yeah, that's me, nobody! They may like me... and I'd be damn suprised if they did! I do love this girl, but if she doesn't love me... I will not bother her.[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Videl~ Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 Relationships - I just take them as it comes. I've been out with lots of people... let me see 1, 2........9, 10*runs out of fingers* 11,12........20.....*runs out of toes as well*;) :D well lots anyway, some of them seroius, most of them not . However I've been with the same guy now for nearly 4 years now and it's been wonderful. We're like two halves of the same person and never really argue. I believe that everyone has a soul mate (sentimental I know) but if you've not found him/her yet then enjoy the trying. The way I see it, the more people you date, the more chance you have of finding the one for you :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkey Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Akito [/i] [B] A guy who cheats on his gal, i hate ppl like that. [/B][/QUOTE] WOAH, WOAH! [SIZE=3]I never said that![/SIZE] I only do quick relationships when I'm not in one! And that's only after I recover from breaking up (about 2-3 weeks).... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Smoky Joe [/i] [B] WOAH, WOAH! [SIZE=3]I never said that![/SIZE] I only do quick relationships when I'm not in one! And that's only after I recover from breaking up (about 2-3 weeks).... [/B][/QUOTE] U do know that sounds pretty pathetic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pave-Low Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 I like being in a relationship, but at the same time, I hate it. Like right now. My relationship is going down the toilet. I really hate it too. But at the same trime I love it. I dunno, its just one of those things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Pave-Low [/i] [B]I like being in a relationship, but at the same time, I hate it. Like right now. My relationship is going down the toilet. I really hate it too. But at the same trime I love it. I dunno, its just one of those things. [/B][/QUOTE] You hate it, but you also love it. This is like when you're eating chilly pepper, it's hot and spicy, but people still love eating it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velvet paws Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 I resently broke up from a 17month relationship, no break ups and make ups, so at the moment I'm looking forward to something more casual. My last boyfriend (who I started dating a week after my long term relationship..a bit quick I know but I was happy) ditched me on saturday after 3 weeks 5 days because he feels he needs space from the rest of the human race for a while and was worried he was getting too attached to me. I really want him back, but because he's abit stressed lately every friday when we went out for a drink with our mates he'd talk about breaking up with me, sometimes doing it then a few hours later calling me his GF again when he had started to sober and appologising for being such a jerk. I need a bit more commitment then that...but I'm not asking for another long termer.....I just want to know that if I'm going to get close to someone then they'll still be there in the morning or give me a few days notice that things arent working out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cecil Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 I couldn't really tell you since I've never been in a realtionship, but juding from that I think I would prefer a steady realtonship. Honestly I think most girls don't like me. Well, at least I know that they don't hate me. Also the girls that I like are the same one my best friend likes, and we have a lot in common. He is my best friend and my biggest Rival at the same time. I find it disturbing knowing that all the girls like him and not me though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Cecil [/i] [B]I couldn't really tell you since I've never been in a realtionship, but juding from that I think I would prefer a steady realtonship. Honestly I think most girls don't like me. Well, at least I know that they don't hate me. Also the girls that I like are the same one my best friend likes, and we have a lot in common. He is my best friend and my biggest Rival at the same time. I find it disturbing knowing that all the girls like him and not me though. [/B][/QUOTE] Dun worry, when u guys get older, u probably will be more successful then him because u didn't have a g/f to distract u during the school year, then, u'll get alot of women. Besides, women now-a-days go for smarter guys, some still go for the atheletic, but most go for smart guys. It's time for the smart ppl to be gettin the chicks now-a-days! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darkness Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 I've come to believe that relationships are what you make out of them. My girlfriend of three years and i just broke up on sunday, but before her I had the short relationship things going on. This last one was my first long relationship(the rest being no longer than 4 months) and I can honestly say that I'm a lot wiser now. The hard thing will be dusting of my game so that I can once again test the waters. I'm a prettyboy though(don't mean to sound cocky), so the main thing is to keep the ladies laughing(if you can't make her laugh, then it won't work out.)!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkey Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Akito [/i] [B] U do know that sounds pretty pathetic. [/B][/QUOTE] Explain please...:confused: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Smoky Joe [/i] [B] Explain please...:confused: [/B][/QUOTE] forget about it, i normally explain this kinda stuff in technical terms that most ppl get lost in at the begining. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Break Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Smoky Joe [/i] [B] Explain please...:confused: [/B][/QUOTE] [SIZE=1]He means you are pathetic for just going out with someone for 2-3 weeks, I for one think that is pointless too... but then again, the longest I have been in was 4... and then my g/f's friend rang me up and ditched me for her!? Told you I suck!:p[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkey Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by ShadowGohan [/i] [B] [SIZE=1]...but then again, the longest I have been in was 4...and then my g/f's friend rang me up and ditched me for her!? Told you I suck!:p[/SIZE] [/B][/QUOTE] That's the kind of short relation I was talking about! God, I really need to be more specific... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pave-Low Posted November 8, 2001 Share Posted November 8, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Darkness [/i] [B]I've come to believe that relationships are what you make out of them. My girlfriend of three years and i just broke up on sunday, but before her I had the short relationship things going on. This last one was my first long relationship(the rest being no longer than 4 months) and I can honestly say that I'm a lot wiser now. The hard thing will be dusting of my game so that I can once again test the waters. I'm a prettyboy though(don't mean to sound cocky), so the main thing is to keep the ladies laughing(if you can't make her laugh, then it won't work out.)!!!! [/B][/QUOTE] How bad was it? I know it has to suck to break up after that long of a time. I have only been seeing mine for about 2 months and I have already thought of the horror there would be if she broke up with me. I have to see her everyday....just seeing her with someone else or just without me is gonna suck very very bad....hopefully that wont happen though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pave-Low Posted November 8, 2001 Share Posted November 8, 2001 Sorry, forgot to post this. I think anyone who cheats on their partner is #%#@ of the #($%*@%(. That is one of the most dispicable things to do. Its basically like walking up them and stabbing them in the chest with a 12 inch knife. If you want to go out with someone else, just break up first. At least that want be as bad. You dont really know how bad it feels, to come back from the store with a nice ring you have bought for your g/f and then find out by your best friends she is with someone else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 8, 2001 Share Posted November 8, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Pave-Low [/i] [B]Sorry, forgot to post this. I think anyone who cheats on their partner is #%#@ of the #($%*@%(. That is one of the most dispicable things to do. Its basically like walking up them and stabbing them in the chest with a 12 inch knife. If you want to go out with someone else, just break up first. At least that want be as bad. You dont really know how bad it feels, to come back from the store with a nice ring you have bought for your g/f and then find out by your best friends she is with someone else. [/B][/QUOTE] I agree with you, that is very cruel to trick or fool your partner like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darkness Posted November 8, 2001 Share Posted November 8, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Pave-Low [/i] [B] How bad was it? I know it has to suck to break up after that long of a time. I have only been seeing mine for about 2 months and I have already thought of the horror there would be if she broke up with me. I have to see her everyday....just seeing her with someone else or just without me is gonna suck very very bad....hopefully that wont happen though. [/B][/QUOTE] I have to admit, it did suck; I don't like the empty feeling in my heart. But to tell the truth, I saw it coming. I'm a junior in college now and this semester is very intense. I made time for her every chance I had, but she couldn't get over the times that I couldn't. Our relationship was semi long- distance(my school is about a half-hour away), so that was already a stike against us. We lasted for the first three years of college so I can't say that I didn't try.:cross: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mornigndew Posted November 8, 2001 Share Posted November 8, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Darkness [/i] [B] I have to admit, it did suck; I don't like the empty feeling in my heart. But to tell the truth, I saw it coming. I'm a junior in college now and this semester is very intense. I made time for her every chance I had, but she couldn't get over the times that I couldn't. Our relationship was semi long- distance(my school is about a half-hour away), so that was already a stike against us. We lasted for the first three years of college so I can't say that I didn't try.:cross: [/B][/QUOTE] Three years, that's long. One of my friend have a long distance relationship. He's in CT, and she's in CA. They've been dating for couple years already, and they're still tight right now. His girlfriend just move here this summer, so they can be together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hinata Posted November 8, 2001 Share Posted November 8, 2001 [COLOR=royalblue] A good steady relationship \is all good and well as long as you know you can hold out and only be w/ that person. Me I kinda go back and forth...right now I'm in a steady relationship but its a long distance one. So about know I wish I could break it off to be friends and just casually see ppl and see if there is anyone out there who may have to qualities I'm looking *shrugs* I guess I'm just in a predicament that is gonna take some time for me to think about so how about I ask you all....... Like I said I'm in a steady but long distance relationship...For now he's in the US Army and stationed up in Washington DC. I'm in Orlando going to college... I barely talk to him but I still love him...But now(well actually for a few weeks.) I've been feeling the need to leave him so I can start seeing other ppl. I want to see other ppl and I have been but I don't wanna feel as though I'm cheating on him and also being unfair to both him and myself....so what should I do?[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darkness Posted November 9, 2001 Share Posted November 9, 2001 Hey sweets, you gotta do what you feel. It's not right to have him thinking one way when you feel the other. Let him know where your head is at. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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